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Travel / Re: U.S. Non-immigrant Visas: We’re Listening by hafi(f): 2:52pm On Jul 01, 2015
Hi,
I have applied four times to visit the U.S. Though for different reasons. My question is should I stop applying at all ? Each of my visits have been for different reasons and invited by different people. Is that a negative for me?

Thanks.
Culture / Re: Why Do Yorubas Return The Bride-price To The Groom's Family? by hafi(f): 2:13pm On Dec 30, 2013
Returning the brideprice in te Yoruba culture is a sign of goodwill and to show tat no amount can be set on a woman. Returning it is also a sign of goodwill and not for future talk as someone said. If u go to d market and ur money is returned automatically, u and d seller would become friends for a longtime.

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Business / Re: GTBank Stops Over-The-Counter Western-Union Transactions, Use Internet Banking by hafi(f): 4:10pm On Dec 28, 2013
i ad complained wen I. Was forced to use the online payment for Western union. Its super fast and convinient. U can always use d computer at gtb banking hall if u don't have a personal computer.money sent from abroad can be received by u in ur aCcount in an our. Thoug I was charged 25naira whic wasn't too bad but I should havebeing told of. All in all , its going to prove to be easier for consumers.
Fashion / Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by hafi(f): 6:11am On Dec 14, 2013
These oils are awesome actually. Due to our very sunny weater it would darken any user. I always advice using at night or avoid too much exposure in the sun if you can help i t. These oils in soaps won't darken because you would ave to rinse off after bathing. We need oils to soften, mositurise and reduce wrinkles
Stop using it in the day time and use a safe ligtening cream. Or just use a regular one. You wouldn't want skin damage due to using so called ligtening creams that could prove dangerous to the skin.

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Family / Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by hafi(f): 11:22am On Nov 04, 2013
Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks......

*** Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN ***

1) Rejecting food wen there's an issue:

Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of
immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere wen angry but ensure that you don't allow it 2 linger unnecessarily because dat is enough for the devil to build on.

2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head:

May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she
still knows that you are the head. Yu need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put yur feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

3) Issuing threats:

Beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging abt marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

4) Reporting your wife to friends and family:

Wen yur wife offends, correct and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black nd sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis.

5) Competition:

Have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names.
As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be? This also leads to insecurity, jealousy and inferiority/
superiority complex. Please let's check ourselves and work as a team

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Fashion / Re: Sagging And Soft Skin!! by hafi(f): 1:18pm On Sep 28, 2013
One word, Exercise, Exercise Exercise! Those creams claim to firm skin up, but noting builds good old useage of dumbells, crunched, situps, swimming. To have the body of Jane Fonda who looks hot at 70+ doesn't come from a bottle or tube.

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