Why are men shocked that lesbians are attracted to women who dress and look like men?

Fine, I know many of you don't think deep but let me break it down.

There is sex, which is biological and there are males and female.

But then again, there is Masculinity and there is femininity.

Masculinity and femininity does not belong to any particular sex so therefore, men can be feminine and women can be masculine. These two things are not exclusive to any sex, it's a general way of expression.

Even masculinity and femininity are a social construct because you can be anything and there's no hard set rule. As a man you can get manicures, do your make up or chose to be feminine because to be honest them no born any of us with these rules, we humans chose to differentiate between both sexes.

All of these might be hard but open your head, come on!

So, in essence, I don't date men, I can't love men, I will never marry a man but I am still attracted to Masculinity but in women. So I want a masculine woman.

It is very stupid for anyone to assume that because I am attracted to masculine women, I can be attracted to men. Don't be a Dundee United now.

Does masculine women=men?

Is a masculine woman a man?

If I put a masculine women next to a man, are you saying there is no difference? Haba now!!

A woman is a woman and a lesbian is attracted to women.

Okay, I am a lesbian but no matter how feminine a man is, I'd never be able to get over their INSTRUMENTS. I'd not date the finest cross dresser or drag queen except it's a trans woman who has gone through full top and bottom surgery.

Trust me, underneath those boyish clothes and swagger is a sweet sweet woman.

Trying to look for the man in a lesbian relationship is also very low because it's a relationship between two women. No man involved.

What you want to look for is a dominant and a submissive. Also, this does not have any sex. There are submissive men who like to be bossed around, and there are dominant women and vice versa. In a lesbian relationship, there can sometimes be a dominant partner, balanced with a submissive one but no man!

So, you just have to find your match. In most relationships, there's a Dom and a sub and sometimes, it's two Switches who can assume any role.

Trust me, I've seen heterosexual relationships where the man was the submissive and the relationship is happy.

See, I'm tired. I know some of you will still not learn because when you were young, you did not eat enough protein

I give up. A word is enough for the