cubby4:
let's see ur pictures den...

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i don't feel ok to post it yet; the pix might distract or make the thread lose focus.
Thanks

yeahmeee:
maybe u shuld drop the high klass baes for now,a pretty,simple bae wuld be ok 4 you,not the lousy and flashy type.

I will consider doing so. Thanks

GodblessNig247:

That's the hard truth he needs to hear

Hmm... I agree you said that

yeahmeee:
Ur personality or u jez rantin,probably u nt gud lukin enuff or u strictly go with high klass baes or u brag too much Ion know tho

I'm a cool easy going young fellow; I don't brag nor lead an ostentatious lifestyle. I won't deny going for the "high class baes" as I have a high taste for everything in life but I always have a way of keeping it moderate. My motto is: live according to what you have available at every point in time and you'll surely be happy.

All you've read here ain't no ranting nor me seeking for cheap sympathy of any sort. I just want to fix this area of my life for good.
Thank you for commenting though.

benstuber:
just joking bro ...maybe the reason why u are still single is cos God isn't ready to share you with anyone yet....one thing i do believe is there's someone out there made for you no matter who you are...

it's cool, bro.
I'm just so worried cos this thing is killing inside. It's almost becoming a "stigma"
Thanks for your kind words though.

benstuber:
@ 28,,still single and hopeless..Bros,,i don't understand your kind of handsome..

You don't have to understand everything, that's why we all are different; that's why you are who you are... thinking what you like.
one thing I'd like to make clear is: I ain't you and you're neither me. We are who we are, let us live.
Thank you

If you'd like to contact me off Nairaland: you can write indicate by quoting me

chibuike65:
maybe the spirit of homo is chasing you up and down bros you need to see your pastor for deliverance

Hmm.. I actually agreed you said that.

YourMain:


I'm sure those kind of girls are everywhere in Nigeria...

Well you could join a voluntary program or something. So when you do meet girls they will have had time to know the kind of person you are and won't be " intimated" by your looks.

Best of luck!

Si! Gracias!

Yooguyz:


That's why I recommended ross jefries pdf books-- lay girls guide and seduction patterns.

Its very practical, unlike the many other seduction books around. Its working for me here, try and download and read it.

thanks. I will do so. God bless you

HAKKINS:
UAR WELCOME. I BELIEVE UR LOOKS SHD BE A PLUS IF U MASTER UR DATING GAME COS IT WILL GIVE U D ATTENTION AND ONCE U HAVE D ATTENTION FRM GALS , U JUST AV TO DISPLAY UR POSITIVE PERSONALITIES NOT DISPLAYIND LIES, PRIDE OR ARROGANCE BUT COMING TO DEIR LEVEL AND BEING AN INTERESTING GUY. I LEARNT ALL DIS WEN I HAD NO DIME TO IMPRES GALS AND IT REALLY HELPED MY CONFIDENCE RAPPORT AROUND DEM. WITH LITTLE MONEY , UR GAME AND CONFIDENCE BECOMES UNSTOPPABLE. TAKE EVERY SUCESS AND FAILURE AS A LEARNING CURVE TIL U MASTER UR GAME. MEANWHILE , UR LIFE IS ALSO VERY IMPORTANT HERE. UR CAREER , UR FINANCES, UR HOBBY SHD NT BE SUBSTITUTED FOR ANYTIN. REMEMBER WEN U AV A GUD LIFE NO MATER UR LOOKS AND A LITTLE SWAG U BECOME MORE ATTRACTIV TO D OPP SEX AND MAKE SURE UR HAPPINESS DOES NT DEPEND ON A GAL. EXPLORE UR WORLD LADIES.

Wow! Looks like I'm raising up with this comment of yours.... I pray someday I will be free & be a source of inspiration to people like me

BANGERLEE1:
it won't bro! Trust me on this... When I say u ignore them its not like u will start playing dumb to thr greetings... Just don't be to close nd not appear like u want something..girls value guys that doesn't give them 100percent attention... U can add me on whatsapp so that we can talk better if u mind

Okay. I'll give it a try. Thanks

BANGERLEE1:
yu welcome! But let's be frank... Pay no attention to those girls again.. When u see them think about ur future how u want it to be...which means ur attention has been shifted.. Then u will see that they will be the one giving that attention! Don't ever use ur look as a kind of asset when dealing with girls they don't like it. Just be ursef and don't appear needy to dem!

Thanks and are you sure ignoring them won't ruin my chances?

Thank you HAKKINS

BANGERLEE1:
Dude...from the way u are replying comments on yur thread its crystal clear u are pompous and infact all I can see is pride.. U are only trying to console ursef... If u are goodlooking its ur problem and if u are not ur wahala.. Guys that are handsome don't really say they are.. And from ur write up all I see Is an ugly, broke, undetermined, young dude...

I believe the sky is big enough to accommodate different kinds/types of anything that can fly/float regardless of their size.

Thank you.
Your presence and opinion has been noted.

Thanks Yooguyz
I used to have the hard copy of the art of seduction. I felt it's kinda hard to implement in this part of the world

mya1:
At 28,I should expect that you'd have more to you than your handsome face . That's all you've talked about.

If all you have going for you is your 'looks' and you see that as the automatic passport to having a nice woman to date, I am sorry, your story would remain the same.

You need to brush up other aspects of you
- can you maintain a conversation? Are you smart / intelligent? Are you humorous? Etc

I don't want to think all girls are intimidated by your looks. I should think you're deficient in some aspects. If it's the case , make amends.

Looks may capture girls not women! So, check yourself.

Thank you.

Smart/intelligent? Permit me to say Yes! I say so cos I have had constructive conversation with quite a number of them; both young and and old. Most times I find myself been 'tied' by these women cos they won't let the talk end... They'll get me talking until I have little or no energy to carry on the convo for that day. See?

I'm not going to deny the fact that I'm 'deficient' in a way. I recognize that and doing my best to overcome those deficiencies.

Godskidmidas:
You probably haven't really put yourself out there.Some guys that feel they're cute always expect girls to give them preference.As in they expect girls to always like them first.Some dey even find make woman chike them. So as I said earlier on,put yourself out there.

I have... I mean, I do a lot of times. Just that I don't want to come across as been too desperate

Arami92:
Picture!
Thanks.

I can share via email, if you won't mind.

1bkaye:
Perhaps none of them feel worthy of you? You hot thang you

come on... isn't that a figure of speech?

YourMain:


You're welcome.

Ehm I'm sure there are physical attributes you might also be looking for. Maybe you should join a club or some sort of society where there's a high probability of finding an intelligent but not very religious woman.

Sure! I love plump woman, natural beauty (I'm not anti-makeUP though) and skin colour isn't a barrier so long as it's natural.
About the club/society thing, wow! that's thoughtful of you. I wish i could find one that's not religious related cos I'm not that religious.

FINgames:
op d koko is that you are mad.you fyn reach korede bello or kiss daniel.wu tell u say u fyn.mtcheew

handsome loner my foot.

You don't have to get mad at someone or something you wished to have or be like...
And since when has Korede Bello or Kiss Daniel been the standard of measuring a guy's cuteness?

Those guys you mentioned are cool and amazing in their way. And I thank god for them just like I thank him for beautifying my looks every time I look at myself in the mirror.

YourMain:


Oh. Well that's weird. You sound like a nice person.

Well i personally don't think anyone has to change who they are in the quest to find a partner. I'm sure there's a girl that would happily love you just the way you are.

Or maybe you're looking for a certain type of woman as well. Rather than having a wide range of types..?

Thank you
what can i say now... I just want a god-fearing woman with brain; not a religious woman though. I can't say much because I really haven't had the experience

boboLIL:
b0y d0nt be stupid....ur arrogant attitude is c0sting u al0t... F y0u

When someone uses figure "0" in place of letter "O"... then it's very clear, there's a great problem in such individual's brain.
I'm here to find a solution to my problem, please kindly migrate to the next thread for a possible solution to yours.
Thank you

YourMain:


I apologize if you feel I wasn't being helpful enough. But from your moniker and your post it seems you think you are good-looking and usually guys who have to stress their looks arent as good-looking as they think.

Anyways it may just be down to your personality and the way you carry yourself that is just unattractive.

It's okay...
One thing I know that I do is, I don't go where I'm not invited and that's because of my kind of personality. I'm an introvert; the Melancholic/Sanguine type of guy. I easily get moody but hardly show it as I don't transfer aggression. Also, I get excited and confident whenever I'm in a company of people with radiant faces.

The problem is a lot of girls shows interest in me from afar but they kinda "crawl inside" whenever I open up to them about my feelings. Something tells me they feel a little bit "intimidated" (no offence to the female folks) by my looks and the fact that I am still single. I know it's hard to believe that a guy like me is not in a relationship... it's just so worrisome

boboLIL:
U av m0uth 0d0ur 0r b0dy 0d0ur......ah can nva date even miss w0rld if she p0ssess dat....s0 Check ursef well

you don't have to judge other people by your own standards. I am a clean guy with enough packaging; forget the fact say i come open thread for here no give you green card to come dey mis yarn.
Thanks for showing up though.

Teempakguy:
HANDSOMELONER!

YOU NEED CASH!

CASH IS THE KOKO

THE KOKO IS CASH.

ALL GIRLS FLOCK TOGETHER TO THOSE WHO HAVE CASH

WITH CASH, ALL GIRLS ARE WOOABLE

you also need a really nice personality. Also, don't chase after girls. Let them chase after you--- you know what, forget it.

FIND SOME RAW CASH!

I get your point. But I've got friends who are "not-bad-looking", not "raw cash", lousy and abusive... all these guys have a minimum of 3 girls that i know.

YourMain:
Maybe you're not actually as good-looking as you think...

Or you've a pretty rubbish personality.

Sure! everybody has their funny behaviour/personality.... besides I didn't say i was a saint in the write up.
About my been good looking; it's true. I don't have to lie to get anyone's sympathy.
I'd rather you be a solution to my challenge and not the other way round.
Thank you

As of today, September 15, 2015 this topic finally reached its End of Life circle. Meaning it has expired.

I thank you all my viewrs for your time and contributions; even those with a negative tissue on both sides of their supposed brain (no offence) thanks, too for your contributions. May God bless you all.

To sum it up: I now lead a normal life; I got all that was missing in my relationship life. I mean all you could imagine a young man could get from the opposite seks

See y'all on the otherside. Cheers