Ive got two friends like that, one of them is not really Pretty, but she oozes sex appeal (big breast, small waist, big bum), her hair and nails are always on point and dont let me start on the way she walks lol, the campus is her runway and she knows shes hot

my other good friend is really pretty and has this sweet, innocent personality, guys always fall in love with her and she doesnt know why

Both of them are the "popular in demand women" for different reasons

Hi everyone this is the drama ive been going through 2 Scenarios, pls bare with me lol

1. Started going out 3 months ago but he doesnt trust women because of his EX. They were giong out for 4 yrs and he went through hell in the last 2yrs of the relationship. he stayed and forgave heer over and over again because he loved her sooo much. When they finally broke up in naija and he moved to london he swore to just use girls for his own pleasure. Not sure if I am a victim cos he told me that when we first met all he wanted to do was sex me but now he feels different about me. He introduced me to his parents and friends (i kno dat doesnt mean much, ) However, we argue alot cos she just doesnt trust me and says hurtful things to me. He enjoys walking out of me or hanging up the fone at the slightest "argument". He only calls a couple of times in a week and is generally not romantic or caring. HIS REASON: I need time to be myself again cos of all the drama that happened with my ex. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he has been "stylishly" lol, tryin to come back, promising that he will try his best to change bla bla, what should i do?

2. Before I broke up with him he told me that he wanted to get married to me next year (2010) or at least i should have his baby by then! HUH? whats that all about? I asked if it cos his student visa expires next year, and he laughed and said "NOT REALLY, but wouldnt you marry me knowing that it will expire, afterall I do love you so it shouldnt make a difference." My female friends say that i am too paranoid and pessimistic. Nairaland pls help me

im interested as well but i dont have that many posts

very interesting contributions we have here, thx to everyone.
I really feel sorry for him and he wants to seek professional help because he really likes his ex.

The fact that his ex accepted him with all his flaws and even fell in love with him confused him and his feelings changed. He said he had to "force" himself to try to love her back but the feelings never came

My friend is really confused/depressed right about now. He doesnt understand why he finds it so difficult to love and trust women. He just broke up with a girl last month and doesnt know why. He has nothing bad to say about her and even considers her to be one of his best female friends. When I asked him what happened, he said ever since she dropped the L word his feeling for her changed He doesnt understand why sum1 like her could love him and he wants to blame it on the fact that he never had his mother around (she died when he was 5) and doesnt know how it feels to be loved or the meaning of love, it kinda scares him. Is this really justified Is there truly a link between a guy who never had his mom around and being an emotionally unavailable man? Any Psychologists in the house?

well my daddy is very handsome and so is my younger brother
when i went to naija 4 weeks ago i was drooling, fine brothers everywhere but the fake american accent was a BIG TURN OFF

@platinumk I LOVE UR LACEFRONT, NICELY DONE

hmm i personally believe its a bit risky but good Luck

thx for ur replies so far.

I am 100percent sure that i havent done anything for him not to trust him e.g. kissing, flirting, giving out my nr, sex etc.

@touchmender, my best friend is in nigeria, while i am in london so there is nothing goin on there

he doesnt open up to me, so even when there is something that bothers him he rathers keeps it bottled up which i hate. i have confronted him on several occasions but his response is always "there is nothing, dont worry about it".

He lives an hour away from london and i study in london. He asked me if i told my friends about us and i told him only my 2 best friends on campus. Once again i could read from his bodylanguage that he wasnt happy with that answer. I immediately added that i wont go around campus advertising our relationship but at the same time im not hiding it. If someone should ask i will def admit it but if nobody asks why talk about it. Am i wrong for that? Could this be part of him not trusting me?

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Hi Nairalanders!
I hope you can help me with this one. I have known my boyfriend for 6 months now and weve been dating for about 3months. He doesnt trust me eventhough i havent done anything. When i asked him why he didnt trust me he couldnt give me an answer. My best friend who is a guy thinks its because i dont reassure him enough and because i dont "nag". I cant nag over little things like him not calling back eventhough he said he would or him not calling me twice a day. According to my friend that might be a sign of not caring!!
The other day i was with my boyfriend i got a call from a private nr which i purposely didnt pick up. From his facial expression i could tell that he thought i was acting suspicious. I immediately told him that it must have been the telemarketers but he didnt say a word.

I am trying hard but i dont know what else to do. Any suggestions?