Nawttiboi007: Well from my perspective, probably she want to be sure what ur true intentions are.. normally in Nigeria term for "yes" automatically she don gree for knacking. From ur definition abt her she's decent so I think you shud know better.
Nawttiboi007: Since you affirmed that's she's decent, then I think it's worth it.. you've to man up.. treasures are hard to find. Do ur own part and most especially put God first
Woww! But what about her inability to define about relationship? I have ask to know if there is a "us" so I can be assure I have someone. She is mute about it
Hello, I met this new girl who happened to be a very faithful Christian girl with a track record of decency and holiness. My intention is to marry her,but since we met a month ago, I have spent almost N50,000 on her without any answer from her exception of the fact she earlier said "We should pray about it". When she has a problem she runs to me but doesn't call me or even return her missed calls. She boldly told me she doesn't reply messages, and I send her messages daily. I need serious advice. I'm a hustler who earns less than N50,000 a month. My savings is going.
Hello Nairalanders, I'm a Crypto-currency trader and teacher. Recently, one of my student made a transaction to my GTB account and the bank detected the transaction and restricted my account following CBN ban on crypto related transactions. Its been two months, I cannot withdraw or send money into the account. My fear is, is there any penalty or charges against me if I present myself to the bank? It wasn't a fraudulent transaction and the money is not much but important to me. I need advice.
Many good commendation about Bola Tinubu. We need people who can go all the way to help someone else achieve his goals. But my candidate is still Amaechi. He has done alot too in lifting others
Dummies just commenting without knowing why he is buying twitter.
A young man has used twitter to threaten Elon Musk security and safety... Elon offered him $5000 dollars, but the boy rejected it. The boy demanded for a Tesla Ride which Elon accepted on the condition that the boy will use it for just one year. But the boy still turned down the offer again on the basics that he will own the car all to himself. So Elon is forced to buy twitter for his safety and reconfigure its security.
SHINJA: What the people of Ebonyi need is good food and jobs not airports..How will airport help the poor people of Ebonyi state?
Instead of providing jobs for them you are busy building airport while most of the youths from Ebonyi state are busy hawking lacasera and gala by the road side of Lagos...
Low mentality..... Do you know how many Ebonyians will be employ via this massive project? Over a thousand plus, Ticket sellers, Cleaners, Taxi Drivers, Security, Haulagers, Air hostages, hotelliers, etc.
DrChukzy: Davido becomes the first Afrobeat and The First Nigerian to be featured on the Official Soundtrack Of FIFA World Cup
The FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022™ Official Soundtrack kicks off today with the release of the single Hayya Hayya (Better Together), featuring Trinidad Cardona, Davido and Aisha, ahead of tonight’s final draw for the tournament.
With the announcement of the single and the FIFA World Cup Qatar 2022™ Official Soundtrack, FIFA continues to build on the FIFA Sound strategy announced in early 2021 and to connect with audiences worldwide through the shared passions of football and music. The entertainment strategy was conceived to create innovative and meaningful connections between football fans, music enthusiasts, players, artists, and the game and songs they all love.
The combination of breakthrough US star Trinidad Cardona, Afrobeats icon Davido and Qatari sensation Aisha captures the spirit of the FIFA World Cup™ and the FIFA Sound strategy by bringing together inspiration from across the globe.
“By bringing together voices from the Americas, Africa and the Middle East, this song symbolises how music – and football – can unite the world,” said FIFA Chief Commercial Officer Kay Madati. “As part of FIFA's revamped music strategy, the multi-song soundtrack will bring passionate fans closer to the spirit of the FIFA World Cup like never before.” Drawing on R&B and reggae influences, the song epitomises the excitement of a football festival that will light up the world later this year.
The track’s debut public performance will take place tonight in front of a worldwide audience of football fans, who will tune in from around the globe to follow the highly anticipated draw starting at 19:00 local time.
The song is the first in a selection of soundtrack singles that will hit the airwaves over the coming months, as anticipation grows in the lead-up to the start of the FIFA World Cup on 21 November 2022.
It is the first time that the tournament’s soundtrack will feature a multi-song collection, with international artists showcasing diverse musical genres that span the world, setting the tone for a truly global celebration.
FIFA’s newly launched TikTok channel @FIFAWorldCup will show special glimpses of the final draw, with the new single taking centre stage. The track’s official video will also be premiered on FIFA’s YouTube channel.
Trinidad Cardona, the Arizona-bred pop singer who burst onto the scene in 2017 with the viral hit Jennifer before enjoying global success with the follow-up single Dinero, shared his passion for the message of the song. “When I first heard the song, I was instantly put in a good mood,” he commented. “It’s a celebration, it embodies everything the FIFA World Cup stands for. People from all around the world coming together, and I just love that message.”
Davido, the first solo African artist to sell out a major concert venue in Europe in 2019, shared Trinidad’s enthusiasm for the global message of the song, remarking: “I’ve grown up all over the world. And the more I travelled, the more I realised that we are all one, one people, one world. So, when this came to me, I jumped on it. To be a part of this event that brings together the whole world, and to be a part of this song? ‘We are better together’ went right to my heart. Beautiful, man, beautiful. How could I say no?” Davido, who grew up in Nigeria, has spearheaded a worldwide Afrobeats revolution with smash hits like Fall and If, as well as with his latest album, A Better Time.
The local artist joining the track, Aisha, highlighted her personal connection: “I am blessed and honoured to exist in these exciting times, where I get to witness and be part of this huge milestone for my country, Qatar. The song’s message of togetherness and joy resonated with me as joy was present with us throughout the journey of making this song. It is a dream come true to perform for the FIFA World Cup final draw and be part of such an important song.” Aisha is one of Qatar’s most popular singers, with her talent, drive and passion having led to headlining performances around the world, including at the United Nations General Assembly in New York and at the grand opening of Doha Festival City.
Hayya Hayya (Better Together), released by Def Jam Recordings and produced by RedOne, is streaming everywhere now and you can tune in to see tonight’s draw, which will feature the first public performance of the song with some special guests.
Nigeria can be better if everyone in this place dies. Forgive me Lord. But if I was to be a bandit or Boko Haram.... I cannot be stopped from causing havoc in this place within two minutes.
PLEASE READ CAREFULLY. Before a woman boldly tells a man that she doesn't love him anymore, it implies that she is totally done with you. Once a woman has made up her mind, nothing changes it. It is better you end the marriage now and ask for a bride price refund and restart again or you bear the consequences for another 10-20yrs that's if she will give you peace to stay alive for that long(sorry for using those words). But what I mean is that, if one year into marriage is like this, living in it for another 10-20yrs might be very impossible. And by then, it might be too late for you to correct your mistake. Quitting now will mean shame, humiliation, etc but it is better you do it now and in years to come that stigma will reduce than later. I feel for you already, I understand what it means to have bad wife. This one that her parents are in support of her, it is now a family coup against you. They might kill you in your own home with restlessness, pains, abuses, insults, and all forms of ill-treatments.
I am not saint. But my advice is for you to overlook her and mind your business. At most tell her politely that she needs to be covering up because you are someone who easily get erected. If that produced no result, go and masturbate or get your girlfriend. Don't dare try to sleep with that girl, it won't end well with you
So my mom and I haven’t been on best of terms when I was staying with them, my mom is a kind of person that if it doesn’t go her way or if you don’t do what she wants you are her enemy.
I left owerri march last year to come stay with my parents and since then it’s been hell, my moms urge to control everything that happens in your life is too much if you don’t do it she removes you from the circle of her children,
What do I mean by that let’s assume they don’t have food in the house n you have 5h with you, you go to buy something to eat cause you didn’t eat since morning after coming back from work n my mom sees you she I’ll pick offense won’t talk to you for a week, saying why during you bring the money let her cook for her children, and mind you we are seven boys in the house.
Now to the main part, her younger sister that died 2018 and the husband got married to another lady that ended up maltreating the kids The elder sister which is my cousin was always in battle with her step mom spiritual n physical, she says she wanted to leave the house n come to my moms place in Abuja which the dad was happy s was bout cause he was tired of her.
Her dad called my mom she picked her up n brought her to Abuja to start a new life, fast forward to recently the dad chased her younger brother too out of the house he had to sleep on the street and in the morning we boarded a bus to Abuja for him he came with no cloth or bag just how he was, then after that he and my mom started having issues. Mind you me n my cousin and mom have already started having issues but let’s skip that for now.
The boy is 15 years old, he said he saw my brother peeing on the ground in the toilet which is my younger brother who is also 13 they are age mates, so he said he told him to stop peeing on the ground and pee in the wc that what if another person comes now the toilet wil be smelling then that he (my younger brother started shouting at him), saying it’s his toilet he I’ll pee where he wants to.
So they had an argument and my cousins brother went to report to my mom, my mom started shouting at him that why would he tell him not to pee on the floor that is he mad like that like that, The boy was shocked at he response n said he wants to go back to his house in Lagos where they just chased him out from mind you this was just 3 weeks after he came,
Then my mom started ranting and saying that it’s my cousins that’s eating all of my money in this house mind you I was at work I was ent home,
My cousin didn’t utter a word too she was avoid the trouble that was brewing the, Dad came back the boy told my dad I was crying saying that he wants to go back to his house the next day he boarded the next bus and left till the date of typing this my mom hasent called him a 15yr old boy that lost his mom n took you as his mum,
So back to me from there you could see the trouble at home it got to a point my mom was saying I was sleeping with my cousin which came as a shook to me cause I’m never home anything to just stain my name or get me angry so she planned with my dad and they started telling my cousin to pack her things and leave the house someone that came to you for shelter cause they said her stepmom wanted to kill her my mom got a revelation that was if she goes back she’d die.
My mom played deaf to that one and kept on insisting she should go back and leave her house and being I was already planning to get an apartment for myself December my cousin called her dad her dad sent her half of the rent and we paid n moved in together since we left the house my mom has been calling all my uncles and aunties telling them that I’m sleeping with my sister which is absolutely wrong on all levels spoiling my name here and there, honestly I really couldn’t care much bebut I’m just disappointed is this how a mum should behave, it was from me not going to church on Sunday to her having issues with my dog saying we were too close or I was to close to my dog then to this now pls someone should just analyze this story and render your advice,
Now they are calling me threatening me that they I’ll use police to arrest me n my cousin n send her back to her fathers house not knowing that her dad was the one that sent her part of the payment, I’m not scared of anyone really cause the useless uncles I have haven’t sent me a kobo since my lifetime then they all want to come n start spilling trash now.
Sorry for the epistle if you made it this far I love you.
Update: guys she my mom came to my house this morning just this morning and saw my cousin I didn’t even know why I let her in in the first place, she saw my cousin and started dragging her cloths almost tearing them and making her naked in front of my younger brothers she brought to my house and was shouting chewing a nuisance even went to all my neighbors knocked on their doors and was shouting to them that I’m sleeping with my cousin tho she spoke Igbo or was speaking Igbo and there are calabar people guys pls what kind of life is this I have left their house still they don’t want me to rest, went to report to my dad and all he could say was and so,
I’m thinking of reporting the case to a police station first then next time they come here to cause a nuisance in my apartment they’d be arrested.
Thank you for seeking for counsel from us. My advice is simple snd direct. First, if your mum attends a Church, go to the Pastor and report her. Tell the Pastor nothing but the truth, so he can call her for questioning and counsel. Second, don't abandon your cousin, hold her tight in this fight and keep taking care of her before street boys will start buying her indomie and egg to sleep with her.... It won't be good if she become a prey to boys because of hunger and mistreatment. Thirdly, if all your effort in resolving this issues with your mum, relocate to another part of Abuja if you can't move to Lagos, then change your phone number for at least three months, if your mum has compassion or conscience she will be looking for way to reconcile with you and your cousin.
Forthly, it seems your mum is outrightly jobless( sorry for calling her names). Because if she was working, she won't be having this time to terrorize your life.
Fifthly, you need to take this matter to God. Pray about it and get clarity on what to do next.... Don't dare arrest your parents, the whole matter will turn against you and their curses may affect you.
Sign: Counsellor. Samuel God'svoice Ojua Twitter: @Ojua10 Instagram:.@voiceojua Tik Tok @Voiceojua
So my mom and I haven’t been on best of terms when I was staying with them, my mom is a kind of person that if it doesn’t go her way or if you don’t do what she wants you are her enemy.
I left owerri march last year to come stay with my parents and since then it’s been hell, my moms urge to control everything that happens in your life is too much if you don’t do it she removes you from the circle of her children,
What do I mean by that let’s assume they don’t have food in the house n you have 5h with you, you go to buy something to eat cause you didn’t eat since morning after coming back from work n my mom sees you she I’ll pick offense won’t talk to you for a week, saying why during you bring the money let her cook for her children, and mind you we are seven boys in the house.
Now to the main part, her younger sister that died 2018 and the husband got married to another lady that ended up maltreating the kids The elder sister which is my cousin was always in battle with her step mom spiritual n physical, she says she wanted to leave the house n come to my moms place in Abuja which the dad was happy s was bout cause he was tired of her.
Her dad called my mom she picked her up n brought her to Abuja to start a new life, fast forward to recently the dad chased her younger brother too out of the house he had to sleep on the street and in the morning we boarded a bus to Abuja for him he came with no cloth or bag just how he was, then after that he and my mom started having issues. Mind you me n my cousin and mom have already started having issues but let’s skip that for now.
The boy is 15 years old, he said he saw my brother peeing on the ground in the toilet which is my younger brother who is also 13 they are age mates, so he said he told him to stop peeing on the ground and pee in the wc that what if another person comes now the toilet wil be smelling then that he (my younger brother started shouting at him), saying it’s his toilet he I’ll pee where he wants to.
So they had an argument and my cousins brother went to report to my mom, my mom started shouting at him that why would he tell him not to pee on the floor that is he mad like that like that, The boy was shocked at he response n said he wants to go back to his house in Lagos where they just chased him out from mind you this was just 3 weeks after he came,
Then my mom started ranting and saying that it’s my cousins that’s eating all of my money in this house mind you I was at work I was ent home,
My cousin didn’t utter a word too she was avoid the trouble that was brewing the, Dad came back the boy told my dad I was crying saying that he wants to go back to his house the next day he boarded the next bus and left till the date of typing this my mom hasent called him a 15yr old boy that lost his mom n took you as his mum,
So back to me from there you could see the trouble at home it got to a point my mom was saying I was sleeping with my cousin which came as a shook to me cause I’m never home anything to just stain my name or get me angry so she planned with my dad and they started telling my cousin to pack her things and leave the house someone that came to you for shelter cause they said her stepmom wanted to kill her my mom got a revelation that was if she goes back she’d die.
My mom played deaf to that one and kept on insisting she should go back and leave her house and being I was already planning to get an apartment for myself December my cousin called her dad her dad sent her half of the rent and we paid n moved in together since we left the house my mom has been calling all my uncles and aunties telling them that I’m sleeping with my sister which is absolutely wrong on all levels spoiling my name here and there, honestly I really couldn’t care much bebut I’m just disappointed is this how a mum should behave, it was from me not going to church on Sunday to her having issues with my dog saying we were too close or I was to close to my dog then to this now pls someone should just analyze this story and render your advice,
Now they are calling me threatening me that they I’ll use police to arrest me n my cousin n send her back to her fathers house not knowing that her dad was the one that sent her part of the payment, I’m not scared of anyone really cause the useless uncles I have haven’t sent me a kobo since my lifetime then they all want to come n start spilling trash now.
Sorry for the epistle if you made it this far I love you.
Update: guys she my mom came to my house this morning just this morning and saw my cousin I didn’t even know why I let her in in the first place, she saw my cousin and started dragging her cloths almost tearing them and making her naked in front of my younger brothers she brought to my house and was shouting chewing a nuisance even went to all my neighbors knocked on their doors and was shouting to them that I’m sleeping with my cousin tho she spoke Igbo or was speaking Igbo and there are calabar people guys pls what kind of life is this I have left their house still they don’t want me to rest, went to report to my dad and all he could say was and so,
I’m thinking of reporting the case to a police station first then next time they come here to cause a nuisance in my apartment they’d be arrested.
Thank you for seeking for counsel from us. My advice is simple snd direct. First, if you mum attends a Church, go to the Pastor and report her. Tell the Pastor nothing but the truth, so he can call her for questioning and counsel. Second, don't abandon your cousin, hold her tight in this fight and keep taking care of her before street boys will start buying her indomie and egg to sleep with her.... It won't be good if she become a prey to boys because of hunger and mistreatment. Thirdly, if all your effort in resolving this issues with your mum, relocate to another part of Abuja if you can't move to Lagos, then change your phone number for at least three months, if your mum has compassion or conscience she will be looking for way to reconcile with you and your cousin.
Forthly, it seems your mum is outrightly jobless( sorry for calling her names). Because if she was working, she won't be having this time to terrorize your life.
Fifthly, you need to take this matter to God. Pray about it and get clarity on what to do next.... Don't dare arrest your parents, the whole matter will turn against you and their curses may affect you.
Sign: Counsellor. Samuel God'svoice Ojua Twitter: @Ojua10 Instagram:.@voiceojua Tik Tok @Voiceojua
The two of you need Jesus in your lives. We can't keep settling you guys because you the guy will continue womanizing with social media girls and the girl too will keep distributing her POS to other guys as well. Only Jesus can deliver you from this mess. Repent and be saved then you can think well
Afrogist247: Businessman and socialite, Obi Iyiegbu, popularly known as Obi Cubana, kept to his promise as he has offered a letter of scholarship to Jeremiah Ekumah.
Earlier last week, Ekuma, a young hawker, was caught on camera in the Ajah area of Lagos, giving money to persons who were being transported to prison in a Nigerian Correctional Service van.
Obi Cubana, who chairs the Cubana Group, last Saturday, in an interview with media personality, Ifedayo Olarinde, popularly known as Daddy Freeze, made known his intention to sponsor the young boy’s tertiary education in any institution of his choice.
Keeping to his promise, Obi Cubana on Saturday (today) shared pictures of the young lad who received his letter of scholarship from the Cubana Group.
Obi Cubana, on his Instagram page, also revealed that one Mr & Mrs Afuah, based in Canada, has placed Ekuma on a N100,000 monthly salary till he finished his education.
The post read, “And God has remembered Jerry!! @jerryluck_ God used Rocky @rockyemmyphotography to make that video! And God used @daddyfreeze to connect me and Jerry!
“He has collected his letter of scholarship from Cubana Group! Thank God for His uncommon Grace! Mr & Mrs Afuah @iam_hymans who are based in Canada, we ran into ourselves last night at Cubana Lagos, and he introduced himself and said he wanted to reach out to Jerry.
“We all met this afternoon here in lagos. He has promised Jerry (and started paying immediately) a salary of 100k monthly from today till he is done with school!
“God has really remembered Jerry! Do Good, be nice, be generous! God will definitely remember you someday.”
stampo: Good morning fellow Nairalanders. This is real matters that needs your advice..
A very close friend of mine has found himself in a confused state and will need best advice on how to handle a critical situation.
This guy is already planning to get married with his girlfriend later this year ...plans going on. During the last holidays, he ran into his ex girlfriend after a long while, they exchanged number and he invited her over to have a drink then hang out somewhere.
During the course of the meeting one thing lead to another they had sex...this happened 2 months ago.
My friend just got a call from the ex girlfriend that she missed her period and she is pregnant for him.. My friend was like trying to explain to her that he is get married in few months time and has no plans for her as regards marriage.
The ex girlfriend says she is keeping the pregnancy that my friend should do what ever he feels The issue now how can he tell his girlfriend and parents about it.
Should he stop the planning of the wedding or should he continue with the ex girlfriend ?.
Please your advice on this issue is needed.
REPENT, REPENT, REPENT. What you did was really bad. You lack self control. You might end up a cheat even after marriage because of this your weakness. Confess your sins to your wife to be. As for the pregnancy, you must not abort it. Keep it and live with that mistake you made.
Noah9: Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.
My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.
Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.
Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.
Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.
I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.
I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?
I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.
Please Help Me.
What is your address and location? I need to come and advice you both so that it will not happen again. That lady needs to be rescue from a lion who eats what is not given to him. She needs justice of abuse and assault.
You have spoken here like a gentle woman...... What will make your husband initiate the divorce move and not you? You didn't tell us the whole gist. When we men are disrespected, cheated or not allowed to access the holistic entrance that is when things like these can happen. What did you do?
What was the nature of the revelations if you don't mind me asking?
Thanks for asking politely.....
First, I dream that we were both going to somewhere, along the way she met her ex. She rush to him and hugged him tightly...... I stood still observing her in the revelation. After sometimes, I told her to leave him lets continue our movement, she refused and asked me to go that she won't follow me anymore. I woke up.
Secondly, I went to her school to visit her, on my way I discovered that every where was flooded, I began to call her name but she was no where to be found. On of a sudden, the flood carried away my shoes. So I began to search my shoes in the flooded water.
Thirdly, Her mum and herself dreamed that she will be an hindrance to my ministry or calling. Her mum and Dad asked her to leave me before she destroys my future.
Hello Nairalanders, I won't be disclosing my name and the institute I graduated for security reasons. I'm 30yrs old and hold a Bachelor's in Education Degree, specification "Guidance and Counselling." I graduated with a 2.1 and also a registered teacher with Teacher's Registration Council of Nigeria (TRCN). I have 3yrs working experience on sales, teaching and counselling. I need a job, my full details will be released to anyone willing to make an offer. I will appreciate so much.......Thanks
I got her engaged 2019 after my NYSC, she was in her final year. I met her on facebook, she was a nice girl. Though, as a born again brother I am, she thought I will be bleeping her but to her surprise I didn't do that. Instead I helped her to control herself and drew her closer to God. I engaged her three months into the relationship. She was nice but very aggression. After a year and six months, I discovered that she couldn't be my wife due to the consistent revelations I had at night. I couldn't quit instead, I did 14days fasting asking God to intervent. God did and we separated peacefully. We are still friends til date.
osazsky: sir are u in benin...are u ready to leave your certificate first to make money..if yes contact me..people dey run from wood but them nor go fit understand
Boss man, I am far away Calabar...... I wish I was closer
In 2013, I worked as a Sales manager in Kubwa, Abuja for a salary of N10,000 which was later increased to N11,000 after three months. I resume 7am and close mostly 9pm. 25k for sales boy is ok. Start it and see it increase. Though I am jobless now as a graduate with 2.1...... I can do any job between 40k above. Start that job bro. As a graduate, I can't even find that
Well, I agree with her. There must have been men who saw her and had interest but on knowing about her community and the road saga, they never returned. I can't go to that forest or pithole to marry, what happened to the million women in civilized communities and cities? Until you are in her shoes, you won't know how it hitches. Stop calling her names.
He is not supposed to understand everything.... That is the reason he appointed those in the respective agencies. If you studied English, will you understand what mixture of Ethanol, Sodium, and Chloride is? Leave him alone. What lives have you affected with your resources?
What a wicked world...... This is totally worth death by hanging like Judas Iscariot did. He should go commit suicide. How could he be that heartless? Maduka is one of the meekest man I knew in Anambra... If they have 10 of Maduka, Anambra will be a London. He transformed his small village to a renown independent urban community. He has invested Billions of Naira in that village. I feel bad for him
He just received a MIRACLE ALERT. He will go and testify today during midweek service. God works in mysterious ways bro. Glory be to God for providing for his Son who was trusting Him for money. You have saved that man's life.
Nairaland / General / Re: Should I Give Up On Her? by Helper1991(m): 7:02pm On Apr 27, 2023 
So Pathetic.
. I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore. 
. What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?