Mystery 1: You need to answer these questions:

1.Was he very sexually-active as you desired before the present condition?
2.Was he romantic from day one of the relationship?
3.Are you fully sure he is not cheating on you?
4.How long did you court at least to determine his behaviour?
5.Did you offend him in any form?

Those questions will determine my contribution.

No! He was not sexually active when we got married! His first was after marriage.
Yes! He was romantic
No! I am very sure he's not cheating on me
We courted for 2yrs and there was no lovemaking in those 2yrs! We only kissed nd dats all
No! I didn't offend him
And to add,I am very neat to a fault! I'm also on the attractive side(at least by my own judgement),I've got d right curves in the right places to o!

Hello people,I'm a newbie here! Pls I'm in a helpless situation! My husband of 3yrs has lost interest in sex! He can go 3mnths without touching me and to him it is normal! Even when I try touching him,he'll push me away! He doesn't kiss me and doesn't allow me kiss him,I've talked to him,cried,got angry,yet no change! I've asked him if he's seeing someone but he says no! He keeps promising me he will change but it keeps getting worse! He's a very good husband and a wonderful father to our kids but this sex issue is really eating me up! I'm a woman who has sexual feelings and need to be satisfied! I can't go outside my marriage to do it and I'm afraid my husband may not change! Pls what could likely be the reason and what can I do to change his lack of interest!