Why do I keep reading “All men are cheats” nearly everywhere?

Yes I am a man, while I do not intend defending men, women are at best in most circumstances often than not using this lines to psychologically deflects who they are, what they’re or have been doing.


Can I state the ugly truth?

If there’s one game women has consistently dusted men, its CHEATING. You heard me! don’t be naive to feel you’re playing smart cheating on MOST women, well if any man will cheat, he’s at best trying to catch up. Naturally, women have the luxury of active database of men to cheat with, men always have to create, designed, develop and fund the process.

qtguru:
Lol AA Good luck. Nigerian women are still the better option, AA will fvck you up and highly immoral not all though. We are cultured here at least.

Where’s Nigeria ranked on paternal fraud globally as compared to these group you intended demonising?

ABANGWABOI:
AA Women are rotten..
Only a fool would hook up with them and definitely would be wrecked by them..
Their promiscuity is unmatched..
Whorism and what have you...
Even my enemy, I won't advice him to have a thing to do with them..
Even the educated and working class ones are highly Toxic and feministic to the bones..
God forbid..

Reality says otherwise, being reserved about sex does not necessarily translate to no promiscuity. Most 9ja girls are more promiscuous, AA women are very open from day one, 9ja ladies will let you (that’s if they ever will) know them better over time only if earned reasonable level of confidence

I noticed consistent effort to demonise African American women by Nigerians in particular as not good enough for relationship as well as any other purpose. While everyone has the right to identify what’s best for them, Such can be achieved without stereotyping.

Yes some African American women are terrible, aggressive, rude, provocative, uncouth, controlling. Make no mistake, Hispanic, native and Caucasian Americans have their terrible aspects. From Bronx, NY to Elizabeth NJ, to FL, and CA, Hispanic American communities are not any better. with increasing psycho-stimulated happenings, Caucasians are no way different. Yet it is the AA community Nigerians seems to scrutinised more or perhaps constantly displayed this disappointing ugly negative perception.

Part of me want to believe could be purely down to Nigerians interactions, relationship, or better considered “transaction” with AA in obtaining a legal status in the States. Could Majority of 9ja conclusions about AA to some reasonable extent be traceable to experiences on the road this? If true, then its very unfair to AA community, as very few normal AA doing fairly ok, would get involved with such.

Before you demonise AA, always remember this:

1. AA may have ties with Africa, culturally, we are not the same. What we find unacceptable by 9ja Standards, in most cases, are acceptable by theirs.

2. Women in Southern America including AA, are very homely (by far the best you can get in US, I’ll put them ahead of any 9ja girl) compared to NY area. Again where you live in the state could shape your perception about American women, AA in particular.

3.. Always remember without the struggles of AA community, you as 9ja would stand no chance to enjoy those privileges in the States, I believe regardless of our different culture, they (AA) deserves better from Nigerians.

4. If you meet an AA woman, who at least belong to middle class and she loves you, I am very certain, personal perception about AA would change instantly. They’re the best in my books.

One reason I do advocate for Nigerians to always look out for AA women to settle with includes but not limited to:
- They’re very honest, hardly hold on to issues. Though they can react at speed of light when it comes to who they love �, trust me they let go of it easily.
- They’re not as mean and wicked as most 9ja women. If AA woman wants out of marriage, you can negotiate, share assets, still be good friends for life, she’ll still support you if she can, but most 9ja women will want to wreck you absolutely and make sure you are good for nothing or even have you dead and turn kids against you.

brainz360:
Hello guys, as a fresh graduate with a 2:2 grade, which would you advice I do or would you rather opt in for among the three to have a successful career in the near future?

You need to give details of your discipline, what MSc program you're considering and preferred country of study to get proper advice

femijck:
I was a bit shocked with the 7 figures though......maybe it's about time I leave NZ for US ahhahahah

OP was slightly wrong. 6 figures very common. The lady quoting 35k is no way near US, from figures she claimed. Very easy for a STEM graduate to hit 6 digits pay

It is not a rocket science to spot an intelligent guy/lady. No need bashing these ladies. It's what they want, simple! Isn't it hypocritical claiming they're (ladies) forcing their ways on men, when in reality some persons trying to force them abandoned what they want?

Anyone on this platform could easily perceived at least from their comments, the particular intelligence sphere ladies like Pocohantas and Ishilove falls into.

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Any lady/guy has reasons to be attracted to intelligent other. Either she is intelligent as well and need his/her potential partner to be at same level if not higher or he/she knows their intelligence level is way too low and needs potential partner compliment them. Whatever the case, it is illogical to argue one has to be intelligent to deserved same or better from partner

You better let go of the notion "men don't cry"

ralfudoh:
Conestoga College

Thanks, I'll have a look

Hello Fam, can anyone please confirm if there's any Canadian university where HND graduates accepted for PGD study. I've contacted several already, all negatives. Thank you

alBHAGDADI:
Show me a verse that shows a woman prophesying in Church.

I don't claim to be God, I am only standing on His word which states that women should not teach in Church. How don't you understand that?

The onions lies with op to show evidence to claims made not me. Let's not misrepresent Bible. I have showed you Eph 2:20. It says a lot about Apostles and prophets critical role in church. Why would op agree there are prophetess and in same breadth disagree church was not one of the place for them to prophesy. Can you or OP explain Eph 2:20?

Benblaq:
What do you expect when their minds has been clouded with religion fancies?

We Nigerans are always hypocritical when it comes to this.

These people seem to redefine what sin should be. Worrisome

alBHAGDADI:
Despite verses in the OP which states that a woman cannot teach or even speak in Church, you still claim no verse teaches against that?

How do you read and understand?

The scripture quoted was perniciously misrepresented by OP, these verses was explicit about usurping authority by women. Implications being a woman can but must be under a man's authority. The op also claim prophesies was only given to women in places other than church without no reasonable evidence. OP can't claim to be God who now knows where and when women received prophecies. I insist Bible implied a woman can teach and preach anywhere but must be under authority of man.

There's no verse in Bible against women teaching/preaching in the church. The capping of true believers involves sharing/preaching/teaching the word as therein lies faith. However, Bible was explicit that some offices in church like Bishop is reserved for men only (1 Tim 3:1-4). To the best of of knowledge the church of Christ was built on foundation of Apostles with Christ as corner stone (Eph 2:20). Again there was no female among the 12. Therefore no woman can claim to be GO/founder of church. Also the title Reverend is not biblical, I challenge anyone to prove otherwise.

Whereas I am not in support of infidelity, the narrative on subject refers ( https://www.nairaland.com/4535216/dangers-sleeping-married-woman ) was in no way balanced, hence I am compelled to respond. To begin, there is nothing like sleeping with married women in the scripture, ADULTERY is rather used which is not restricted to a particular gender. If a single lady/man sleeps with a married man/woman or both parties married to separate partners, it's same sin of adultery. We should stop viewing scriptural issues with traditional lenses. Its only the useless polygamous inspired traditions would make any think of adultery involving married men as trivial.

JChigozie:


An uncle told me it is better to study outside Nigeria than in Nigeria for pilot, he suggested Ethiopian Aviation Academy. What do you think?

You will do well to study outside Nigeria, but certainly not EAA though I don't know your profile and budget. I'll suggest you figure out what firm you'll like to work with after training and go for their preferred Academy.

ifecostar:


Do you mind if I can email you or get your instagram handle. I'm really interested in flying.

Thanks in anticipation.

Flying is a good one. Great you interested, you can ask questions if any, I'm happy to assist. Wish you the best

The sensible thing to do

It will be unfair to think Pastor Adeyemi survives off tithes from members. This man is very hardworking, has never exploited any and is into positively changing lives.

Congrats to her. This pastor is very different from others, I admire his simple and practical approach to life.

Not until most followers stop deifying this category of humans

lightblazingnow:




Well said, but then you didn't hit the nail

Well it's not my write up and I may not have to. However, issues like this are mostly relative. Those who have never been part of other faith usually have different set of reasons to those from a contrary background.

Dear OP, there is nothing like Christian heaven. Christ said in my Father house, there are many mansions, Paul further explained this in terms glory of the sun, moon & stars. Yes! Heaven is not restricted to Christianity but some religion are better placed to attain the highest glory in God's kingdom. Christians should worry more about avoiding fire and brimstone

Dear OP, You are either economical with facts or you need do more research. Tithe first surfaced when Abraham paid tithe to Melchizedek - an high priest. At this time there was no tribe of Levites. It was subsequently Levites became priests (not assistant) by reason of birth & tribe, which empowered them to received tithe. You will want to do a bit more research. Your write up is perniciously misleading.

Because most women are on heels & can go off balance easily

On a serious note, women are very emotional in nature compared to men. Sisters worship with absolute open mind and gets buried in it. On the contrary, brothers mostly worship with their brain either analyzing one thing around or questioning certain things seen in the church, this mean majority of male folks have varying thoughts more often while worshiping than female folks, making it difficult for men to fall under anointing in comparison to ladies.

In most cases, Miracle play little role in converting anyone. The devil does miracle as well. Besides conversion is a process, holding a bible and attending church doesn't mean you are converted. Peter was with Christ, saw most miracles yet was instructed 'when thou art converted'. There's more to conversion that surpass humans. Whereas Preaching may help non-believers change, Our life seems the most effective tools when combined with preaching and the right spirit.

I completely agree with you some pastors are closer to entrance of hell than their mobile phones, you have to however allow God play His role by judging them. Isn't it interesting that you worry more about other candidates of hell than you being a potential candidate?

Although nice write up, you did not answer the 'why' question, rather you only indicated doubting faith is possible with some persuasive evidence. Hence, 'Why you will doubt your faith' shouldn't be the heading, but 'It is not Strange to doubt your faith'