Was looking thru my husband's text messages recently only to find some interesting text message exchanges between him and some girl he claimed to have met at a club and was just checking up on her. There was also another one where he invited someone else (don't know if its the same girl cos the numbers were different) to come over to the house to keep him company and also to come with her friends and bring their swim wear, (I just returned from a trip which lasted just over 2 months). I decided to leave the text where he was just checking up on the girl he met at a club open on his BB, and when he returned to the room, he took his BB, saw the text open and deleted all his text messages (Is that not a confirmation of his guilt?).

I decided to confront him about the issue the following day as we both pretended as if nothing had happened per the text message that was open on his BB, I told him he was an unfaithful and adulterous husband and that he's been messing around. All he could say was that he was just flirting with the girls and he was not sleeping with her/ them, thats why he didn't delete the messages from his phone because he wasn't been sneaky and thats the reason he doesn't have a password on his phone, He was not apologetic or anything and I really don't know what to do. We've only been married for 2 yrs!!! Don't think I over- reacted?