chloe00:

Have you suggested visa on arrival ? Every since the visa on arrival route was discovered late 2016 and dere5 was of great help people have stopped using tanko and the emergency travel document that madam Stella issued, even the tanko guy never picks his phone

Pls Chloe, thanks for ur response, pls can u explain more to me on this visa on arrival and how to go about it, God bless u

Hello beautiful mothers, pls CN anyone help me with tanco address, actually my sister was to do her baby's Nigeria passport and she needs it badly and I tried searching, it's not bringing out any info.

I bless almighty God because my immediate pregnant sister was on that plan with her 2 years old, I don't know what I wud have done loosing 3 people, oluwa modupe o, I give back to you all glory.

Its so sad seeing urumi being beaten by samrat, i curse any man that lays hands on his wife and mother of his chidren , may they not know peace. Some men are animal,he beat up his wife and still went out to cheat Haaaba
This is so sad because i cried

Hello house pls i want ti travel t china and i dint even know were to start from

Pls help a sister out

Lies f the heart is getting interesting

It's so sad that when men cheat, we are expected to forgive and move on but when women cheat they re sent packing, what an irony of life. Same way i caught my husband red handed and they all expect me to forgive and move on

It is well

Women, let us take heart.

If it were to be the guy, this woman would have forgive him and move on

What they can't take, they want you to accept

thotianna:
So Nigerian men are now telling themselves its a man's world to justify hypocrite and unfair treatment? And some foolish idiotic Nigerian women are settling for shit_ treatment by telling themselves its a man's world.
Which dirty man's world. How is it a man's world for heaven's sake when all religions forbid adultery by both males and females? Men these days don't want to be accountable for anything or responsible for anything. Even the part of the Bible that says men should be providers they have forgotten that one and are now preaching women should equally provide but their hypocrite asses will never preach that men should submit to their wives. Rubbish.
Now they are doing their best to make women accept infidelity and randy behaviour from husbands because 'its a mans world'.
I only pity the fools that meekly tolerate cheating from their husbands. If I can't divorce you I will make your life miserable. Forgive a cheating partner my foot.When the same partner will not hesitate to throw you out if you do so

true talk my dear. It's just so sad

Janeyinspires:



I read both posts.It's for those advicing the guy to chase the flirting wife while asking that the guy who cheated should be forgiven.

Abi my sister and they will come here to say it's a mens world as if we re nothing. SMH for them

Janeyinspires:
You want to send your wife packing cos she was flirting.You were caught pants down with another woman and you are asking for forgiveness. Isn't this hypocisy?
So,cheating is now a headship thingy?
#UnaWehDone
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P.S.The marriage bed should be undefiled.
If you are tied of eating egusi soup with beef,then spice it up by using snail,ice fish or stockfish.Don't go looking for ogbono or ewedu to eat.

U don't get it

Am referring to a post I saw just now we're the guy said he want to chase the wife out because he saw recordings on her phone and I mentioned that men are hypocrite because of the advice they gave the guy.

sisisioge:
Babes, you will forgive him. You will lay with him again. You will live under the same roof again. You probably will have more kids together again. You will live old with him so long as he doesn't want to divorce you at any point of your lives together. He will cheat again. You will accept it as your faith. ... Awwww, that's what will happen. Abi you wanna wager that with me?

Yeah, unfair world

Oh, by the way, could you get something big outta him now that he's remorseful? Something material...let him pay as much as he could manage Pele

you re so funny my dear sister. That is life o, we will still forgive them. That is how God created we women

Mologi:
Are you the wife...?

The man may have other reasons but the recordings just added the needs spices!!!


let him do with his marriage whatever he feels...

A honestwife may be the promiscuous one.

Why Wud I be the wife. In as much as I do not support what the wife did. But divorce is too harsh in this type of situation. Shud I have divorce my husband because I caught him Redhead. U guys Wud have scolded me more.

Hmm mm. I can't just Imagine a man catching his wife with only 2 call recordings and he wants a divorce . I just read a post on nairaland now. So what Wud you have done if you now caught her naked with another man just like I caught my husband with another woman naked oooo

And some men are here shouting send her away. Just because of recordings. I don't know why we women are always at the receiving end for any little mistakes.

Fine she flirt with a guy on phone which I don't support cos she is married. And some men are here supporting him to chase her out were as.,this same people were here telling me to forgive my husband. SO SO SAD

to even add insult upon my injury., my in laws came and was begging me to forgive their son. Whereas they chase my husband elder brothers wife away because the husband saw some flirt messages on her whatapp.

You know what guys.,i just ask them to forgive their daughter in law too if they want me to forgive their son because their son sins are more than that of their daughter in law..

That is life for you. What they cud not take, they want me to accept

The matter is still on ooooo. My husband is so apologetic but I still don't want anything to do with him for now, so that he can learn his lessons and stay faithful

Maybe time will heal my wound

Thanks you all for ur messages

abashi47:
damn wrong lady... do u have a problem with her or ur husband
she might nt even know he's married ... my question, after all this research of urs, are u going to b happy??. becos it seems u r hell bent on catchink yg him

Yes i am hell bent on catching and i will never regret doing that to his phone. if you ever have the feeling of suspecting that your wife is eating up another dick outside.then you will see why i had to go etreme lenght.

As for forgiveness ,it could be easy but forgetting it will be the greatess problem, although he was so remorseful and postrated to beg me in the name of God fr over 3 hours

Thanks all for ur advice but i have decided to leave the lady out of it as most of you has said, karma is always a bi...ch. , so i leave her to God , bur as for my husband, i love him so much because he is a nice guy who could not fight the temptation that came his way but for now , i have decided to put a hold to sex until after 6month so that he can check himself for the most dreaded dieaseas.because mio je gbi... mi ole wa ku gbi

As for those saying am into programme to have deduced those. No am not, got all of it from youtube and google and i dont regret doing that

Hello house,
I have been been a nairalander for many years and i just need advice because am so devasted. I got married to my husband 7years ago with 3beautiful kids ,a girl and 2 boys

My husband is that perfect men any woman would ever prayer for.i have never suspected him for once not until last year september that i saw some frequent call from a particular no, i decided to take the no and store on my own phone,,i suspected he was cheating but i did nit have any evidence to prove it.

So last month,i activated an automatic call recording on his phone and here i am, all my doubt were confirmed, i decided not to ask him as i laid down my own plans too, i took his phone and scan his whatapp QR code and i deactivated the notification so he wont know. So with this, i was able to veiw all his chat directly from my phone through this chat i saw that the lady was around at his place yesterday morning and i travelled in the eveningbecause we dont live in the same state due to transfer

i took my children to my sisters place and i travelled, looo and behold this lady was wearing only paint and bra in my husbands room although i gave both of them good dirty slap of thier life, and i told her i have details of his guy and that i was going to call and let him know the kind of girl she is

so now to cut the long story short this lady has a fiance which is planning to wed her because i got to her instagram page and facebook page and i saw that she has a very good guy at her hand thus made me sad because i dont know why she would cheat with my husband even after having a good relationship,

my decision is that am planning to call this guy through facebook call and send him all the recording and whatappbchat between her fiance and my husband

i just want to know if am making the right decision

as for my husband , he will meet me at home