SweetCunt97:
Calm your nerves and try to follow the TTC thread. And be sure your partner ain't shooting blanks.

Okay thank you so much.

SweetCunt97:
Ordinary 4 months and you talking about pressure? Haba

Lol you are right, it shouldn’t be a cause for alarm then.

Femsyn:
Roughly one and half years.

Wow! Naturally?

samwash:


I kwn someone will say some thing like this, I have been expecting it.
Let me brack it down for you.
Two weeks B4 our marriage we did pregnancy test & respected the same test three days before our marriage as required by the church.
I kwn the woman I married full stop.
I nor fit dey narrate my self for social media.
If I may ask you, how long does it take a woman to get pregnant? You Neva see girl wen go do the tin for the very 1st time & go still carry Belle?

Don’t reply him! It seems that guy is going through a lot and doesn’t believes in Happy marriages again for some reasons known to him. I pray God helps him and help us all as well as nothing is perfect.

1stHooligan:
what's the function folic acid

It increases your chances of conceiving.

7thLemonLOVER:
This is the 3rd year and my sister is being frustrated by the hubby's family.

A part of me feels sorry for her but on a second note, maybe it's God trying to judge her for marrying a man that should have been mine

Oh this is really sAd! Sorry about your sister’s case and I am certain he wasn’t your God ordained husband, you will get someone better by His Grace.

samwash:


Waytin this folic acid tablet dey do self?
My mum use to give us wen we were small, follow win vitamin B complex & mutivite & fesolate tablets. All the yrs I found my self always taking folic acid & B complex.
Is it good for man ?
Was that what aidded my wife to take in on time ?
I prefer take it than those multi vitamin capsules.

Yes it is and it helps A lot if you are trying to conceive.

WORDWORLD:


There is nothing to enforce here. Except if what you have written are just lies. My dear such is life. Only very few people marry the true love of their life. YOU WON'T BE THE FIRST NOR THE LAST WON'T MARRY THE LOVE OF THEIR LIFE. That is an irony of life!!!

You sound really bitter, I hope all is well with you?

Secondly, I don’t believe in things as first love or love of my life because I have fallen in and out of love several times, so that’s basically the lies we were made to believe! Once I’m done with you, I close that chapter forever. God Almighty has blessed me with the man of my dreams and I don’t need to proof anything to you. I won’t reply you again, you seem like you need help. Good luck!

samwash:
My wife took in 2weeks after I paid her pride price, according to my calculations.The thing shock me self Cox I was not expecting it. To God be all the glory we have 3 children nw.

Wow! So fast!!! Congratulations!!! More kids ooo lol

WORDWORLD:


Have a good day too. The is nothing there to argue about the obvious. Your present husband is still not your number one. Such is life.

You can’t enforce your bitter beliefs on me! Bye!

WORDWORLD:


NOPE! YOU ARE STILL VERY MUCH ATTACHED. THE VERY FACT THAT IT WAS A HEALTHY BREAK UP MAKES IT SO MUCH A GREATER CHALLENGE.

THERE IS JUST ONE THING I BEG OF YOU PLEASE DON'T EVER LET THE NEXT MAN WHO CHOOSES TO LOVE YOU KNOW ABOUT YOUR ATTACHMENT TO YOUR SUPPOSED SOULMATE. DON'T EVER LET HIM KNOW SUCH PAST EVER EXISTED PLEASE FOR IF HE DOESN'T KNOW, HE WILL CONTINUE LOVING YOU EVEN IF YOUR OWN LOVE FOR HIM MAY NOT BE GENUINE. PLEASE AND PLEASE ONCE A MAN AGREES TO SETTLE DOWN WITH YOU, PLEASE TELL HIM NOT ABOUT THIS PAST. BLESS HIM WITH A PEACEFUL HEART BY NOT TELLING HIM HOW DEEPLY YOU HAVE FELT LOVE FROM A SUPPOSED SOULMATE WHO YOU SAY "BESIDES THAT WAS IN THE PAST" BUT IN THIS VERY PRESENT STILL WISH THAT PAST IS A DREAM COME TRUE.

You are free to believe whatever you choose to, I won’t argue with you nor convince you to believe anything, and you obviously generalizing this whole thing as per from your experience, sorry about that, but this is Me and not you. Thanks and have a good day.

Tosin17:
[




You didn't even say why you guys broke up. Any man that comes your way now will suffer because you will always compare and contrast quote author=HopeLoveLife post=74114305]It's over a year now and I can't t get him off my mind...


My sweetheart, my partner, the one who I thought was my soul mate...mehn we clicked like capsules

It's so difficult finding or loving another man, after spending almost 3 years with a man I prayed for to come into my life, it happened and now we no longer together.

Please, guys am I really the only one going through this? Have you ever imagined your partner to look in a way , still be responsible and love you like crazy? You Prayed and your prayer was answered and everyday of your life you feel you dreaming because you wake up to your dream man loving you like his life depends on it?

Who is going to tell me "Baby I love you so much and forever" 10times in a day?

Who is going to hide secret love letters in my stuff, some I found after so many months of being hidden by my man? I had over 100 of those love hidden letters... Last one read " Baby, I love you so much...you + me = Forever.... Oh my, I'm in tears!!! Found it in my glasses case*** Lord please help me!!!


Who is going to call me so often texts me often, video call me often, talk to me for hours?

Who is going to hug and kiss my forehead?

Who is going to love me this way without sex?

Who is going to be so responsible, respectful, friendly even with his great looks like him?

Who is going to risk anything just for me like him?

Who is going to tickle me and chase me round just to see me laugh?

Who is going Tobe so pissed at me for my wrongs, but lowers his voice while talking calmly to me? Dude never yells or get angry!

Who is going to act childish like him?

Who is going to always shout "baby I love you" from the sitting room to me in the kitchen while I'm cooking?

Who is going to hold me so tight while walking in public?


Who is going to tell me he misses me every single time I go out to the next street to get something without him?

List is endless.... I know I shouldn't be doing this to my self... I know... I don't even need any man to meet up because that'd be asking for too much! It just hurts that I'm no longer with the man that did all these for me... It hurts so much....


Our break up was healthy, because we were both perfect for each other but along the line we figured we got different goals, so we became best friends till date and he still takes care of me financially.


I envy his future wife already....


Thank you dear X, all my life I have never experienced the kind of love you showed me! So many times I used to get these feelings that you weren't a human being, because you were too good to be true! You are one special man, especially with how generous you are towards poor people by buying gifts for people in rural areas! How can one man have it all? Good looks and great personality? It's true, two people can love each other but not meant to be together. Well I'm glad you never stopped loving me, even till the night of our break up... You showed me so much love.


Right now, to be honest I don't have any feelings towards him anymore, but I miss him and I'm grateful.

Not true, I wouldn’t do that and I have no need to do that anymore because I’m now happily married, thank you.


I guess my comment on a particular thread on front page drew you all to my profile lol

chii8:
God is working, He's still working,God is working even now... though we don't know often, how much...(a song)



Mine was 2-3months... didn't do anything special though

Nice song God is always working!!!

Hummmm you know I used to think, once you have an unprotected sex, you get pregnant straight up as that happened with my sister though she was fond of taking folic acid regularly before getting married at all.

Vyolet:
Four months after, nothing was done, it came naturally

Wow! So how were you able to cope with family and self pressure within those months? And were you a bit scared?

Rgade:

Healthy but gross like every other veggie.
Yeah I was brought up in a religious home, my mum is a "true believer"; if she couldn't convince me, I don't know who will.
But I do like the idea of religion without the accompanying hypocrisy and extremism we see today.
If you take away religion from man, many will become hopeless and loose every will to move on.
My mother is an example.

Oh I see....it’s one thing to be a religious person an another thing to serve God in truth and in spirit. Once you have the Holy Spirit, religion is nothing as you can easily deduce what is wrong and right and not being hypocritical about it.

It is not too late, to turn back to God though and you can do that with the Holy Spirit as you really don’t need anyone except Him.

WORDWORLD:


I ON THE OTHER HAND PITY HIS FUTURE WIFE.

It is this type of messed up relationship like yours that RUINS others happiness in marriage. AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE!!!

Keep Self deceiving yourself that you don't have any feelings towards him anymore. Even with all you have written?!!!

Oh no I don’t and we are all different! Trust me it is all gone...and I wouldn’t jeopardize my marriage for such, I don’t take nonsense too besides that was in the past.

Rgade:

Congratulations.
I went back and read your older story, and I don't think you were going anywhere with the white guy.
His favorite food is Broccoli?? Pukes
I share his views on religion Sha.

Hahaha broccoli is an healthy food tho lol

Thank you so much and about the religion thing, I don’t know what must have triggered you in not believing In God because I’m certain you were brought up in a religious home, my prayer is that you find your way back to God as He is SUPER REAL and He loves you so much!!!

Magnoliaa:


Well, congratssss

Thank you so much

Magnoliaa:




what a turnaround.

Yes oooo! God is very very very awesome! He made the impossible to become possible! Trust in Him always!!!

Magnoliaa:


Religion can be such a huge deal breaker...

Lol true but that’s in my past now ooo lol mortal me thought I couldn’t find a better man, but my Immortal God said no, He is the creator of the Universe and gave me someone 200% better.

sylve11:



nothing else my dear. It's not just easy. Just apply wisdom. Never send a sheep to kill a wolf....

Okay, still don’t understand your message but nevertheless have a good day.

prinzedy:
Seems like this is going to be an interesting thread let me bring my seat

Lol and I hope it fulfills it’s purpose for which it was created.

sylve11:



https://www.nairaland.com/5027851/red-flag


You try well well o.

That was last year and I didn’t even consider the guy lol glad I didn’t...anything else?

Woooow!!!!! This thread really proves that God exists and answers prayers!!! I’m now married to the most amazing, romantic and religious man and also most extremely handsome man in the world! He is x2 of my first post and I’m super grateful to God for How He proved Himself in my life!!! Please always look up to God for a spouse and never compromise with anything that’s not of God!!!



Praise the Lord!!!

Thanks to everyone too!!!

Ninethmare:

Any contribution sir?

Petyprincess:
interracial relationships are beautiful Sometimes dating outside your race gives you more opportunities nd experience! If you are a black girl nd you ve never dated a white guy you are missing alot!!
#teamwhitemen

I have for 3 years to a young and handsome white guy and I thought it was the best, until I met my extremely handsome Nigerian husband, who also looks like a white but mehnnnn! He is totally different from both the blacks and whites I have dated so far, He is God’s sent! Just pray to God to give you your God ordained husband, be it black or white.

Hope777:
I know someone that faces this.. Been on anti depressant but not cured.. I really wish to know the cure

Me too, reason I believe it is more of spiritual.

Hi Fam,

How long did it take you as a newly wedded couple to conceive? And I am not referring to those who got pregnant out of wedlock.


What were the measures you took before it finally worked out? PleAse I need suggestions especially when you aren’t even in your 30s yet.

I just feel men here, are quick to attack ladies.

Simplecity:
You have a phone for many reasons...let me tell you one since clearly and not surprisingly you dont know

Research.

White men created phone to make researching and acess to information available at you finger tips thru a platform know as google...dont let me think your one of those nigerians who carry things around without knowing their value making themselves look like brain-dead beings

Thanks for your NO-use contribution, however it woke me up. Google really? I am talking about true life experience here from nairalanders and you are talking about google? go sleep if comprehension is a difficult task for you.

I really need more views on this topic, more opinions...

Cc: dominique , lalasticlala

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