Duchessree:
The only way out of this dilemma is to call off the wedding and you guys should go your separate ways.

that's why it's always advisable to know your partner's genotype when the relationship start getting serious.

In fact I was just discussing this topic with someone this evening. Most AS guys I know make sure they ask the ladies they meet, once they know they are interested in a relationship with them.
Anyway it has happened and others can learn from this too.

In summary never believe when a girl says she wants to take u out.[/quote]

I have done it before , Although he is a friend I met via my cousin. He had taken me out several times too so when HE asked , I felt it was nothing after all we are good friends. So I took him out. Other than that time, I reciprocate whenever my Fiancé takes me out and that was even way before we got to the Fiancé level . It’s no big deal.

Some ladies don’t just like spending their own money while some do as long as they have it.

July 11

Thank you for your input. I really feel relieved already.

Hello All
I need y’all advise on this.
I am getting married soon and my partner wants to rent a 3 bedroom apartment. I was cool with it but later after thinking properly, I felt it’s perhaps too much for us since we are just starting our lives.
I want us to be able to pay conveniently without fears. He has been saying the lord will provide and it makes me feel like I don’t believe God will really do.
Also another worry I have is that he has a lot of people around him that can think of coming to stay if we get the apartment and I actually love privacy.
Currently he is seeing things like I don’t want his own opinions to count or I don’t want him to make decisions for us...
Should I just let him please himself ?