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Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 7:49pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
diva90: Thanks |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 7:48pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
jashar: Hahahahahaa thanks bae. And Amen to your prayers. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 7:46pm On Apr 18, 2016 |
bukatyne: Lol. Amen. Thanks dear. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:38pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Chiefpriest1: Amen to your prayers. Thanks. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:33pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
gazilion: Wao! This gladens my heart. Regards to mother and child. Mine was on 25th (good Friday) when was urs? Maybe they are bday mates oo. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 11:29pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Thanks all for your support. We will go for a more reliable method this time. I don learn hahahahahaa |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 11:25pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
TheArchangel: Yes oo. Thanks dear 1 Like |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 11:24pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
thorpido: Thanks. We definitely will. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 6:18pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
To all that were with with me on this I say a very BIG THANK YOU to you. I have welcomed my baby girl to the glory of God. She is worth every step of the journey. God bless you all. 23 Likes
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Family / Re: Is It Right For Married People To Go Clubbing ??? by hotterthanfire: 6:13pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Hmmm... I even club with pregnancy. Hubby got my back. Nothing wrong with that at all. Its fun and adds spice to ur marriage. |
Family / Re: How Many Kids Would You Love To Have In Future? Name Them by hotterthanfire: 7:34am On Feb 02, 2016 |
I would have loved to have three but now am having four. 2 boys and 2 girls. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Lecturer Dr Danfulani Arrested For Criticizing Buhari On Facebook Denied Bail by hotterthanfire: 6:57pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
Worse things were said about GEJ, how many people were arrested for that? Nigerians you are sitting on a loooooooonnnnngggggg thing. Keeping fingers crossed and mouth |
Politics / Re: Osinbajo Arrives Burkina Faso For The Inauguration Of The New President. Pics by hotterthanfire: 11:07am On Dec 29, 2015 |
Social Vice President Only relevant at attending social functions on behalf of his 'oga at the top' Fake party! Fake Vice President! Fake President! |
Politics / Re: #BuhariGate Now Trending On Twitter. Nigerians React by hotterthanfire: 9:51am On Dec 16, 2015 |
Chaiiiii!!!!!! Naija my country. Booboo since u knew u benefited from the YAM you should have just let the sleeping GOAT lie. Waiting for more names to come up. OBJ on ma mind |
Politics / Re: Biafra Agitators Burn Two Trailers At Onitsha Head Bridge (Pics) by hotterthanfire: 1:23pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
ogmaskman: JAMB question |
Politics / Re: Biafra Agitators Burn Two Trailers At Onitsha Head Bridge (Pics) by hotterthanfire: 11:10am On Dec 02, 2015 |
asEdeyHOT: This is absolutely true. It's not a lie. My hubby works at onitsha and right now he's stranded where he is. He can't even get home. FG should quickly do something about this before it gets out of hand. 35 Likes |
Business / Re: Fraudsters Dupe Traders By Buying With ‘Magic’ Money (pictured) by hotterthanfire: 10:42am On Nov 26, 2015 |
It's real ooo. They did it to my sister years back in Lagos. After buying Recharge cards worth of 15k plus and paid her in 1000 naira bills, the money turned out to be 10 naira bills. We couldn't believe it. I don't know how they do it oo. God save us from evil doers IJN, Amen. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Husband Has Idolised Me And Now I'm Fed Up. Need Help by hotterthanfire: 10:28am On Nov 26, 2015 |
Does he have friends? If he does, encourage him to go out more and associate with his fellow men. The time he spends with you at the salon can be used to hang out with the boys while probably waiting for you (if he must wait). Sometimes allow him to take the wheel in terms of decision making, don't always tell him what to do, if he makes a mistake or fails as a result of the decision he took, he will definitely learn from it. As per intimacy, he's not an exception to all men. They are all the same especially when they are crazy about you. My hubby does same, when it comes to sex, men are very childish, sometimes the type of question he asks, the care he shows, the way he behaves just to get that sex will begin to make you wonder if he's OK. Nevertheless, talk to him about interrupting your study time. Am sure he will understand. Dear sis, don't get tired, in fact you should be happy and proud that you husband adores you so much, many women out there are praying and hoping to get at least 10% of their Hubby's love and attention, and here you are complaining. You can shape him into the man you want him to become. It will only take patience and time. Lastly keep family out of your relationship so they won't use it against any of you in the future. Remain blessed. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Nigeria Protests Over Biafra Activist's Arrest - BBC by hotterthanfire: 12:47pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
TheMainMan: Just like Buhari sponsored bokoharam to frustrate Jonathan's government. Now it has backfired on him. |
Family / Re: My kind of mother Inlaw! by hotterthanfire: 11:22am On Oct 02, 2015 |
99.9% of MILs in Nigeria are selfish, domineering, and have this 'my son and my son's house, money, etc mentality' forgetting that the woman came from a family too and equally has a mother. If the girls mum should as much as interfere with her daughter's home all hell will break loose, but when its the mans mum, its OK and you are expected to take and swallow every rubbish pill forced down your throat. Its best to have a cordial relationship with her, respect her, be available only when necessary, stop every form of unnecessary familiarity. I have to strongly disagree with those saying treat her like your own mother, I will rather you treat her like the mil that she is, cos the things your mum will accept and tolerate from you, I bet if you try them with her you are in for a long ish. Yes. You guys are newly married , so don't expect her to start loving/liking you immediately, it will take years for both of you to come to that level of relationship. Be patient, accommodating, see less and ignore more of her faults. Finally stop complaining to hubby about his mum, they don't like it, it will only convince him more that you don't like his mum, and even if you don't girl, don't show or tell your hubby. How would you feel if he continually complain about your mum or even tell you that he dislikes her Above all be patient, prayerful and loving, she will come around. Meanwhile enjoy your marriage! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:23pm On Aug 11, 2015 |
Thank you guys for the support and words of encouragement. I haven't felt this light in week. Reading your comments makes me feel like pulling my own ear d way grandma does especially that of primadonna123. Sis your miracle is by your doorstep, if it's possible to trade places I would have gladly done that with you, it's well. I have wholly accepted this wonderful gift from God and pray that He sees me thru this journey. For the wherewithal, I know He will always provide. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:28pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
gidjah: Hmmmm.... Thank you |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:25pm On Aug 09, 2015 |
[quote author=Chubhie post=36711619]You will have to come to terms with this your life Given. Yield and accept this. Look to the brighter side. Most times, we humans suffer based on perception. Be positive and work on your mind that this pregnancy is gonna be different. Be still some messages is being passed across to you. Or what if those dreams you've laid down wasn't for your own greater good?I've come to appreciate that the best things in life are hidden and disguised while some are bitter. Thank you. This truly lifts my soul. God bless you real good. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 5:10pm On Aug 07, 2015 |
Thank you @soonest and estheremma. God bless you. |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 11:46am On Aug 07, 2015 |
K9blunt: @ DEXTROVERT too, Thanks dear for the advice and 'insult'. I didn't put myself in this condition to get pity from anybody. I may not be as educated as you but am educated enough to be running a Ph.d programme. Am not a dunce. I believe as a human being, not everything you planned worked out for you perfectly as you planned it. We are humans that is why we make mistakes. By the way am not contemplating abortion! Thank you and remain blessed. 16 Likes |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 11:40am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Blade21: Thanks dear. God bless your kind heart. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:53am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Thank you so much ladies. Your words are a soothing balm to my nerves. Bless you. |
Family / Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by hotterthanfire: 10:25am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Good day nairalanders, I had to hide behind a new moniker to post this for security reasons, pardon me please. I've been married for five years and blessed with three great kids, 2 boys and a girl. My husband and I believed that our third child will be our last so we can take proper care of them in terms of quality education and other basic things of life. We both work and earn well, to an extent we are comfortable. I got the shocker of my life two days ago when my PT test came out positive. I do not know how or when it happened, I have been very careful with my body system and DH cooperates very well, we have never had any issues with family planning, all our kids were well spaced, but this came as a very big shock to us. Since then I've been so depressed and unhappy because this is not what I want or planned for, I have cried and cried and cried, I don't know what to do. Please don't get me wrong, children are blessings from God, I really appreciate that, but the timing for me is wrong. Right now I cannot do otherwise. My biggest challenge is how to pull thru, how to carry the baby to term. Ever since I had my third child I've been battling severe waist pain, for which I've taken all manner of medication yet no relief. DH has been encouraging me, promising support and all that (though initially he didn't find the news funny), but that is the much he can do. The whole burden still falls on me. Right now am frustrated, depressed, very unhappy because i know the goals I've set for my self. But with another baby on the way its like taking three steps backward and its really killing me. Please words of encouragement, support and healing plus prayers is what I need from you my fellow Nlanders. God bless you all. |
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