herbie27:
dis is why the APC supporters are killing themselves and making it look like PDP is after them.
The state is ruled by PDP, why will they go after APC supporters?.
Rivers APC is pained and are looking for ways to tag Wike an incompetent governor.
Make dem dey kill themselves dey go e no concern me.

That is, if not pdp supporters they r killing.

herbie27:
dis is why the APC supporters are killing themselves and making it look like PDP is after them.
The state is ruled by PDP, why will they go after APC supporters?.
Rivers APC is pained and are looking for ways to tag Wike an incompetent governor.
Make dem dey kill themselves dey go e no concern me.

That is, if not pop supporters they r killing.

Blured:
This is the story of how I was blessed for my generosity in a single day.

Yesterday I dressed up, took my bag and headed straight for class in a Nigerian university and as I was going, a more or less strange boy who I seldom see and has never asked anything from me, came from no where and started acting strange.

He shouted my name and said “Take this fifty naira, common take it!”. For some moment I taught he was only he was only being generous and I said “thank you” but he said “No! take the money and double it”

And at that moment I became confused and I said alright and that I should get a recharge card and double the money as he said but he acted strange further and said I should give him back the fifty naira and a bring a complete N100 and I obeyed and gave him the money and left for class.

As I got to the class, I met my colleague and one of them said she was hungry and that she had not eaten since the beginning of the day and I asked her what she wanted to eat. She said she would love to eat snacks and I asked the amount it would cost and she said N150.

I pleaded that I could only afford less and she said I should give her the one I have and I gave her N100 and lecturer came and lectures started.
After the end of the class, I got to my hostel and few minutes later, I got a bank alert N5000 was sent to me when I never expected and was never told.

All hail the King Jesus!

Yes O! Jesus will be hailed in all circumstance but.. who sent the money?

As I see lai mohammed I stopped reading.

airmirthd1:
So you brought my matter to NLs..... I seeeeee....
I go do you shege!!

Chai! I don enta!
Thanks dear

crackhouse:
chai this dude don change everything to suite heartbreak including email. guy where u dey is far. I pray u come back. I put u in my prayers tonight.

Pls do! I need all the support

Trulie:
wow! guy I feel ur pain. And I mean it when i say I feel your pain. Years ago I was in the same position as u are now. At the point I thought life was void, empty, and a charade without HER. I loved her so much in ways the word 'luv' cannot fully define. So, like u, I thought it's done, am done. Days turn to month and months to years and am still here. still breathing, still living, still smiling, looking happier, and grateful. You see my dear, I found love again when I least expect. She has all the qualities my EX lacked. My guy, give urself time, am sure in few years time u will see the stupidity in wanting to end ur meaningful life for a less meaningful reason. Life is beautiful! Don't waste ur life for Nothingness.

Thanks

Moz22:
strange but true..you are truly hurting. I am yet to receive ur mail

I have sent it na

Hitunnu:
Remember ur parent, siblings and relatives that u will cause pain, if u commit suicide. Especially ur mother. How extend have U satisfy ur mother that u wnt to die cos of a lady who don't believe in you. With time, you will get over her. If u r finding it difficult, spent time with ur mom, siblings, friends and get busy.

Thanks mehn!

Moz22:
na wa oo..bros. Ur moniker-Hurting, ur email add- heartyreallyheavy. Did u create this names cos of wah happened?

Lol, I created all this morning, when I couldn't sleep.

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Mail me, I will send my number to you. Heartreallyheavy@yandex.com

Thanks.

Moz22:
bros can I get ur contact or something?

Yeah, heartreallyheavy@yandex.com
Mail me n I will reply with my number

Thanks

peedeeasobie:




stop talking like a kid my friend!
MOVE ON. That boat has sailed!


Be a man and get a life!

suicidal thoughts because of a lady?

you need slap!

I think so too! That's y I opened this thread. I need those to toughen me up. Thanks anyway.

Dreamflyin:
OP, thanks a lot for being honest about her. Some dudes will start off by painting her up as unfaithful and all. Thanks Op. You're on the good path. Thanks again.
She loves you, no doubt about that, but sometimes, life throws things in our path that even the strongest emotion can't withstand.
She's gone, but she's still there.
Don't hate her.
She did her bit.
Dust yourself up. It's hard, and I wouldn't claim to know how you feel, or understand your feelings.
If you commits suicide, you lost. You lost her, and the world/life defeated you.
She always loved you and will still do, but if she grew up in want, that phobia will always get her apprehensive of the future. She wants better for her kids.
I'm not God to tell you that a job is on the way and make you feel good, but you'll be a better man if you pull through this.
Best of luck, bro. I'm in deep sorrow with you. God keep you.

Thank you. My heart is really really heavy right now.
God bless.

Justdulla:
Forget crocodile tears and winning her back jare, your matter done dey vex me, are you God? Did you create your condition intentionally? Sha had the audacity to move on without giving a damn simply because Your Alert never soar and your talking of true love my foot, even 2 face when sing true love sef no true.... Dont be blindfolded by emotions and tears wake up man, I bet you in a week or 2 now those tears would stop she go come change hand for you, move on with your lifeshe couldnt stand the heat so she left the kitchen...... If I see you lamenting again, I go flog you koboko

Thanks I need more of ur type here. I really need to get over this.

samdavjustin:
Dude if I were you I would let her go. Delete her number or anything that can remind you of her. Am sorry to safe but she is a Lil bit shallow. What if you get a job she loves then get married and you loose the job then what? And what country are you located because if in Nigeria there is job insecurity. Bottom line she has moved on so should you. I know it's not gonna be easy but you have to.

I told her exactly that! People lose jobs everyday. What is I get n lose it later after our wedding?

Its just that I find it very hard! Thanks for d advice.

callMeAlpha:
Bro u keep clamoring on how faithful she is and all DAT... Look,was she faithful wen she met a guy behind ur back?,like u said,she told u she had found someone else,meanwhile u guys were still dating wen she gave the new guy a chance,...lemme tell u the truth,wat you're doing rit nw will never help the situation, women don't appeal to pity, no one wants to be wit someone out of pity,plz stop begging her because it will drive her further away from u,...to me 7 years ain't seven days so I believe if u guys actually had something quality y u were dating den
It will be difficult for her to get over u DAT easily.. So my advise is for u to stop calling her so wit time she'll begin to miss u,work on ur self,get a reasonable paying job,feel challenged,improve on ur dress sense,also she's been ur woman for 7 years so u know what she likes...and remember don't go typing shit on Facebook or else you'll end up saying a lot of trash DAT will even make her feel irritated because rit now you've been clouded By ur emotions, give her a period of 1-2 months of no contact.. She'll jump back begging bt i would advice u let her go except ur lyf is tied to her,there re wonderful and beautiful womem out there,trust me i once had an heartbreak dat got me thinking like u.and plz don't wait and sit around for 2 months,..go work on urself and make some bar.....thank me later

Thanks bro! I fear she will get over me if I stay clear. I know her very well. And she is also heartbroken, she cries when I call her, as for d dressing, I have a very good dress sense, I kit well n dats one of d reason she loves me.

Good day all! I never thought I will never create a topic like this because I believed I had a perfect love life. I have to create this moniker just for this topic that has and still eating me deep. I will try to make it as brief as possible.

I have been a relationship for 7yrs with the lady that I love beyond measures. I do anything possible within my reach to satisfy n make her happy. She has also been wonderful and almost perfect (nobody is). We started dating from uni days and where d pride n envy of many even after school.

After my service, I started looking for job but as things get murky in d labour market, I started a little ICT troubleshooting hustle, just to keep body n soul together before d job comes. Now this lady has been supportive all d way, after her service she moved to where am based, we managed what we have. She got a job while I was still doing what I do, I could provide for d daily running around like food, clothing, small bills, etc. I could pay my rent sometimes but atimes my siblings support me. When biz haven't been good.

Now this my lady resigned from where she was working because her female boss wasn't treating them well, tru one of my friends I secured a better paying n welfare job in a construction firm for her. We have been doing fine all this while but when I proposed to her she said we should wait till I get a better paying job. I make an average of 35-40k at d end of month but because I spend on what we need in d house I usually don't have it in bulk at d end of d month. She earns around 80k plus a car. Her new boss gives car loan to all his staff down to d secretary. She is an engineer there. She have been having this fear of lack because of what she faced as a child, so whenever d issue of marriage comes up she says I shld wait till I get a job n when ever her friends or mine wedd she cries n complain that I dnt want to marry her. I have promised her that we can make it with our present earnings n with time I will get that job. I knw I live far better than some married men in terms of finances.

This year I made up my mind to ask her for hand in marriage on vals day, but last week she gave me d shocker of my life, but telling me she had moved on because of my employment status. I have begged like I ave never begged anyone before, telling her that am very sure d job will come before d babies start coming. She told me she has found someone else and that she has made up her mind.

She still loves me, but the job issue I her phobia, dont get me wrong she is very decent n has been faithful all our yrs together. Right now my heart is torn to shreds, I don't sleep at night, I cry every night, I cant eat well, I have lost weight. Am I beginning to scare my self with d kind of suicidal thoughts I have these days. I have built my whole adult life around her, I try to let go but cant.

Pls nairalanders advice me before I do something drastic, I need all the advice I can get, am on job sites 24/7 now just to get something n probably win her back. She is not after riches just d basics. And for those that will lash me, I need it too, it might cheer me a bit.
Pls help a brother.

pls help me push this to FP I need all d advice I could get before its too late for me.

P.S. Sorry for any grammatical blunder n punctuation errors.