Always write copied when you are not the original writer.

Ochyes:
1. Stay silent. Not everything needs to be said.
Silence is better than unnecessary drama.

2. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete. Competition is a weakness.

3. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

4. Your current job doesn't care about you. They only pay you enough to kill your dreams.

5. Free yourself from society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

6. Influence: Most people drift through life. They have no purpose, no direction, and zero intent. Learn their needs. Lead them.

7. You are what you think, what you eat, what you read, the visuals/audio materials you consume and those you associate with.

8. It's better to have 1 friend who's;

Happy for you
Supports your win
Encourage your dreams
Than a bunch of acquittances who are

Lazy
Self-centered
Jealous of your success

9. You'll be 10x happier if you forgive your parents and stop blaming them.

10. No one will ever come save you. Your life is 100% your responsibility.

11.Your inner circle should be more focused on money, success, and starting a family.

12.You don't need 100 self-help books. All you need is actions and self-discipline.

Believe in your heart and soul that you are capable of big things in your life.

The only thing that is standing in your way is yourself.

Remove your glass ceiling.

Please is anyone here using betbonaza.i can't seem to find the site since this afternoon

@officialDJ.Thank you for the help you are about to render.Not many would think of such gesture even though they are capable of doing so.Keep it up and may blessings and favor continue to locate you in your endeavors.Amen
And to those that will be the lucky winners make sure you use the funds for the business you stated.Don't squander it.Use it and better your lives.

OfficialDJ:
I need investable business plans that'll stand the test of time, not fantasies.


Need four more winners and I'll begin crediting.


Thrown open till 10pm today again.

Dj

I have studied women's body language very well.only that will tell me to continue vibing with her or cut her lose.

What I did was that I opened an account with a betting company.maybe after 2 days or so,I will email them to permanently block me.currently,I can't register in any betting sites you can think of.i tried it paripesa,1xbet recently and I got blocked within 24hrs even after using new email.Even the 5k I deposited to 1xbet,they blocked it and didn't even allow me to withdraw it.Now I can't play bet online.

Shollay20:
Am addicted gambler what I did to stop my own addiction.
1. Bet9ja
2. Merrybet
3. 1xbet
4. Nairabet
5. Betking
6. Sportybet
7. Msport
8. Betpawa
9. Bonanzawin
10. Naijabet
I have loss close to 4 million keep accumulating.
Now I emailed bet9ja to delete my betting account permanent it took Ages. Before I got it done. I did it to remain nine betting account and I left one Betpawa behind.
For the past 4 month. I did not bet on any sports events. One day feeling of winning big with 1000 came to my mind, I try to login to bet9ja and others betting account I got the same message your betting account is permanent ban, he pain me,. I say manutd, Chelsea, Arsenal man city must win their first match. Now I remember I have Betpawa account I try to login it enter and fund my betting account with 1000, before I knew anything 30000 went to sambisa forest. I emailed to Betpawa sharply to delete my betting account permanent it was done. Up till now I never bet.
@OP just delete your betting account.
Betking I emailed them to get my account deleted but they refused for like two weeks. I wasted like 80000 until I bumber them with plenty messages they now agreed to get my betting account deleted permanent.

Though I have spent money,I believe it worth.

jclassiq:

I imagine you must have spent a fortune on the private mental health thing.
It's cheaper in a general hospital like Yaba if you lived in Lagos State. Don't know where you live tho.

Believe me bro,that is what am currently doing and I am getting better everyday.most importantly, visit a mental health physician.that was what really turned my situation around.

Unyimekelvin:
I'm just touched on this kinda of advice,thank you i will try it out!!

THIS IS MY ADVICE

My bro,I understand how you feel because am currently in the same shoe with you.
From your statements so far, you don't seem to have problem with earning money.The main problem you have is gambling which led to masturbation and other stuffs.At least you have acknowledged that you need help.Let me tell how to go about this.
1.Close all your betting account
2.Find someone you trust maybe in your family and confide in that person.this will make you to be accountable until this current phase of your life pass.
3.Then most importantly,you need professional help.What I did was I got in contact with a mental health physician at a private hospital and I started going for medical check up and counseling.They will also prescribe medications that will help you and beat this addiction.
4.Continue to pray to God to help you.You will definitely relapse from time to timeBut the urge to engage in such activities will drastically reduce.
5.Hit the gym or if the job you are currently doing now is giving a lot of free time,you can find a second one to keep you busy.

You can beat this.
It shall end well.

I think it is high time we organize a vawulence tournament for jeon,jennyclay and siofra so that we can give the winner award.

Like seriously,wetin dey worry this modafucker.
Little change don enter your hand,you just dey misyarn.

No wahala we have seen people like you before,soon to be forgotten.

Please everyone use your opportunity wisely.

Bro you didn't put it well.
If he says he is well,it means his condition has worsened cos no mad man believes something is wrong with him

membranus:
Dem suppose carry dis guy go Aro Psycho hospital, pump him full of Mogador sleeping pills for five full days to cure him of his madness.
When he wakes up, dem go ask him, are you now well? If he said yes, let dem release him. If he still continues with his mad talk, let dem detain him until he becomes well.

The greatest challenge will be maintenance of all these facilities.it is not about opening a new airport,but how are these resources being managed to ensure lasting sustainability.
This has always been a huge problem in moving forward as regards to our economy.

It has been a long while since I have posted on this 'peaceful crib'.Yeah,I called it 'peaceful crib' cos any time I breeze into this thread to top up my pill,I feel like I am liberated all over again.My brain continues to be reconditioned from the bullshit we were fed when we are still in the 'world'(chains of female manipulations).

One thing that I have continued to observed is that Women gat to no love for men and that any time they profess 'love',it is because they saw that you have good potentials or resources to gain from the association.Once you as a guy refuses to make it available,they zoom off.Very selfish set of people.

Women in general are quick to get you commit to them because they know they gat nothing to offer apart from sex.Securing long lasting commitment is women greatest goal and also their greatest achievement.Any woman that fails in this regard suffers terribly.
That why they can adapt to any role or assume different personalities just to fulfil this particular purpose.

You are a woman,you are not yet working or doing something tangible for yourself to earn some income but you have the guts to demand that your man should be financially well to do,take care of you and all that.Then what exactly are you bringing to the table except to come and become ungrateful liability.Many guys are afraid of commitment these days cos they are looking for something more valuable beyond sex which is currently what women can offer.Only few women that acquired other valuable tools(good genes, connections, financial competency etc) are worth of commitment.Despite that,you as a guy is still at the losing end in such association but a bit manageable.

Currently I have a Facebook friend,a lady of about 29yrs old.currently looking for serious commitment that could lead to marriage.she is not even working yet o.
When I asked her why isn't she with any guy now,she said that is not that she hasn't been with a guy,but she is trying to avoid the intimacy part of the relationship.
you see her hypocritical nature.
So you want a man to spend on you,take you out on dates and yet you don't want to get intimate with him.what does he gain from dating you?You are even not financially capable to assisting him if even needs one.
I just pity her cos guys has wisen up these days and that explains why she is still single.

My fellow brethren,my point is that you all should have standards and don't settle for less.Vet any lady very well if you are to get into any relationship.women are also ruthless when it comes to expectations they have for their man.
Me personally finds it hard nowadays to get into any relationship cos am yet to fully understand what benefit am to get from such association.

HAVE STANDARDS.KEEP DOSING THE PILL.

Imagine praying for two goals in two minutes and it actually happens.thank you Madrid and Italy men volleyball team for comeback wins.cool weekend

Very good.And their odds are the best you can get.instant withdrawal

Alvin212:



How trustworthy and reliable is the pariesA ?

Am experiencing same thing with paripesa

tradepunter:
Please guys am type melbet on my browser but 1xbt is coming up Instead.

What's happening? What's going on??

I have money on my melbet account

Pls,who is using paripesa? About 15 minutes ago,if I try to login in,I will be directed to 1x bet.am confused about it

Don't mind those mfs.

Stephenmoka4:
You are allowed to play, yes. Players are needed for business, winners bad for business.

But they are still allowing games to be played on their website.i hope they pay me o

Stephenmoka4:
The bookie is likely on the losing side for now. It's not as planned for them.

Please i don't know if anyone here uses Bigibet.i don't know why for past 3days now,they haven't updated my winnings despite contacting their customer care service.
Or is there any issues they are having I am not aware of?pls someone help me out.thanks

STATE OF PLAY SO FAR
I hope Dallas really finish the job in game 6 since clippers can't handle one player in a series and they want to meet jazz with threats all over the floor.jazz-dallas series will be a 3 point contest and will be competitive too,same as Suns vs Nuggets.Nuggets vs Balzers is definitely going to game 7 for decider.Lakers are done without AD,it's obvious in the games 1&4 when he didn't play well and game 5 he missed.Jazz are showing potential and are looking good for a finals berth provided everyone is healthy (for now)

Hmmm!Nets vs Bucks,what are series it's gonna be.How will the Nets fare against the size and length (Gannis and Lopez) in the post without Jeff green present.maybe Durant will get some minutes at the centre cos Griffin will have his work cut for him if he matches up with gannis.How about the new defensive switching schemes bucks has employed this year?can they stay disciplined in tracking nets big trio especially at the perimeter when they get hot?Can Holiday provide consistent scoring if gannis and Middleton is having a cold streak especially with Vincenzo out? Intriguing match ups everywhere.

How long Philly vs Hawks series lasts depends on if Embiid is coming back and when?.philly without him are a good defensive team and if Seth curry can remove his streaky shooting and be more consistent with scoring,it can end in 6 games. Young has been terrific so far but he is going to work harder to take 4 games against philly with veterans and without home court advantage.
But as for the west,I will gladly settle for 3 game 7s for the weekend.phew!

With Durant healthy, getting out of the east won't be a problem for Nets

joshboo:

The impact of joe harris on that net team is sooooo underrated, come playoffs sha we'll see how serious they are, Mk God bless them mk them jam Raptors for first round

Red hot Jazz to drop some heat on Miami tonight..
Nets still getting scarier with each game.
It's obvious that clippers wouldn't know where this season NBA finals will be played.

The major problem with gambling is it's effect on the mental health.it tends to reprogram the brain and the reward system.The person only thinks of place a bet and odds most of the time such that other important areas of their life like physical health, family and personal relationships,work and social life suffers.
Then you look at the financial situation too.initially,it's all fun but with time it's no longer that.Everyone that started initially didn't bet big but you tend to see changes that makes them hooked and become addicted because of chasing losses and trying to win big.This is followed by mood changes with anxiety, depression, irritability and venting anger and frustration towards people close to them.You don't even talk about the subsequent penury,poverty and perpetual indebtedness that accompanies this gambling behavior.

Not everyone has the mental fortitude to control themselves.some has tried everything to stop but can't seem to.
You may win initially but if you keep the record,u will see that ur losses is more likely to be greater than your gain.
Know that there is no advantage in gambling and that we have been conned to believe it is otherwise.
But whatever you do ain life,be ready to take the responsibility.
Thanks

saajus:
It takes a lot of discipline not to get addicted. Bookmakers want to get people addicted. That's why psychologists developed the bonus and bonus rollover system for them. Some bookmakers can even give 200% on first deposit. The requirement for withdrawal will be like 15x. They know the chance of losing all is high before one complete the rollover requirements. It is the same principle drug dealers use. They will give free drugs to their victims until he's addicted and can even kill to get money to buy from them.

If we have good Govt, they should regulate gambling. I doubt if they will cos one of our lawmakers even have one of the biggest sports betting platforms in the country. Many ppl are losing but, they don't take inventory. Only a few can manage their emotions and not get addicted. Some people stake's result will determine their emotions for the rest of the day. Happy when they win, sad when they lose. Everybody around them including their family members will feel it. Big boys gamblers have a huge bankroll and that's what makes them successful in the long run. That's why they always make a statement that they can have losing days, they can have losing months, but they can never have a losing year.

I don't tell people not to bet but I advise them to have control over it. They should bet with remnants. That is after taking care of the bills in the house, you have a token to play with. For example, somebody making 1million naira a month from his job/biz can be having fun with 1k per day and he won't feel anything.

Don't predict anything yet until you get to playoffs and see who is healthy first.Remember what went down with the warriors with injuries during 2019 playoffs.

mattfeuter:


As a Lebron fan, this actually killed me.

I was hoping there would be a continuous back and forth about who was going to be the point guard and disrupt the Nets locker room.

I’m not going to lie, I’ve been extremely impressed with James harden.

After all the dribble dribble dribble narrative,

He’s willing to sacrifice, get people involved and can still go get you 40 or 50 if you need him to.

He’s really a joy to watch at the PG position.

However, when it comes to the playoffs and the frauds have been separated,

Lakers in 5. . . .

It's really going to be an interesting playoffs this season.Nets will need a good center that bother likes of Embiid if they match up but it won't matter if harden and Kyrie gets hot from downtown and KD cooking from mid range.
It still comes down to defensive discipline they have worked on in regular season.

Lakers and clippers WCF needs to happen this season.I don't know why Lakers didn't retain Rondo,he is a beast in playoffs.i hope AD will shake off his injuries wahala and be in good shape.
Finally happy to see Devin Booker's efforts yielding good results.i don't know what Beal is wasting his prime years at Wizards.His partnership with the walking triple double monster will not work out unless they have assets to trade for and get a 3rd superstar.i wish he would join my beloved warriors team and with Klay back next year,we will be in championship conversation again.
Can't wait for the knockouts.interesting match ups loading.

Roland17:


KD has been a very good defender for a while now especially perimeter defense like you alluded to. He has also improved his rebounding and low post defense. More importantly, last season’s layoff/ injury has not slowed him down on defense and that’s a good thing to watch. KD’s usage on offense in any team is largely determined by KD himself. He can be selfless and also knows when to take over a game. Kyrie playing off the ball is the best cos like you mentioned he a better finisher going to the rim. The added advantage of having Harden play

Harden I think is a better point guard and with Kyrie a better finisher,it will free up KD to match up to their opponent's best player.KD when locked in is a very good perimeter defender due to his length and wingspan.
Yet he is likely to be the Nets fail safe when they will need buckets in the postseason due to the fact he can score on anyone.
As for jazz,I have this feeling they are just like the bucks of past two seasons.This is NBA and soon enough they will be figured out and when the rotation gets shorter in playoffs,can there too players maintain the same place?we will see.

The problems Bucks have is that they haven't really surrounded Gannis with top players (only Middleton) is up to grade and secondly allowing Gannis to be the go-to guy in crunch time when he is terrible at FT and 3 point shooting.Their coach needs to trust Middleton more during these period in close games.He can't always bully his way to the paint all the time.

I only pray that key players remain fit for playoffs.
I haven't forgotten the high level of play in 2016 playoffs.

Roland17:


One of the things the Nets have resolved that would help them balance out their offense and in some ways their transition defense is “who plays PG”. Kyrie and the team have agreed that Harden should dictate the pace of the game as PG with Kyrie playing off the ball. Defense would have to be a collective effort especially when all 3 are on the court at the same time.

The Jazz would have to play this way into the post season to convince me. I have seen this sort of form amount to nothing in the past. Like I said earlier, I am worried they have peaked way too early. They would have to stay healthy the rest of the way also.

The way Utah jazz offense is rolling these days is something else.I hope they will bring it on in the postseason when the game slows down and defense gets tighter.
Anyway,they are doing well presently but taking 4 games out of Lakers or clippers in WCF will be hard if everyone is healthy.
I wish the Nets can sort out their defensive rotation and schemes asap.they can outscore anyone any night but do they have championship defense to win the title?Time will tell.

Looking forward to Nets vs LAL/LAC finals

Just singing 'this thread is on fire,this thread is on fire'

And when you have finally changed for her,she will be the one that would say I don't recognize you,you are not the man I used to know.confused set of beings

TheVictim01:
It's a Karen giving out an advice to our genus fellow. The "change yourself for her" and "support for Vagina empowerment" seriously got me boiling.

Who dey yarn this nonsense.just tell me you are reciting a movie script.

TheVictim01:
A woman's take on how a "Guy would make a girl love him"
If your love is true it will definitely reach out to her soul . Honesty , modesty and true unconditional love never remains unanswered . Be your true self and show your love to her by lending expressions to your tender most feelings for her . Put your love in your gifts to her , go out of way to do something special for her . Love demands sacrifice . Try to know her likes and dislikes . Change yourself for her . If she likes a guy who can sing and dance then learn something of the stuff . Know her favorite actor , try to emulate some of his qualities . Never say anything hurtful about her parents and family . Prove yourself worthy of her love in everyway. Financially , socially , physically , romantically . Improve yourself keeping her perspective of her Prince Charming in your mind . Show your good self to her , if you have donated blood , worked in an ngo , supported some cause of woman empowerment or animals rights . She will get impressed if you will work hard to be her Prince charming.

This is part I do fail sometimes.now I gat a piece to work with.
Thanks for the timely reminder

Asekhamid:
POWER OF EMOTIONAL DETACHMENT

-i know this word must be new to some people here,but this isnt just a word,but when put into action,becomes a very powerful word.

Now what is Emotional DETACHMENT?

Emotional detachment can be defined In Many ways depending on how you understand it...but you can simply say emotional detachment is just removing any form of emotions from an outcome.those emotions include happiness,sadness,jealousy,angry etc

Now have you ever wondered why when you put all your mind and body Into doing something,it sometimes NEVER gives you the result you seek,but when you seem to take your mind off it,RESULT COMES..That is Emotional detachment..
The act of being emotional Detached is called stoicism or indifference..when the outcome of an event cannot affect your present mood..
Emotional detachment is just have that I don't care attitude and accepting that there are things in life you can and cannot control so why stress yourself over it..

Why you MUST BE EMOTIONALLY DETACHED with a woman:-
Women are known as emotional beings as we all know,they get so emotional when things don't go thier way...maybe it is time to the fact that they don't produce as much testosterone as men according to biology.
Men produce more of this testosterone that why we have more and better control of our emotions...
Emotions is considered a feminine trait that is why women get pissed off seeing a man with this trait and simps have alot of this trait in them.
Am not saying it is bad for a man to shows emotions but don't overdo it...be strong to accept life as it hits you rather than whyne about it..

A woman emotion has a direct impact on thier Mood so that is why she can be happy now,sad the next minute,jealous the other minutes and then angry....Trust me when I say the cycle goes over and over again..
Now you are asking what you can do when this happens?...the truth is you can try and be there with her and you might get the result by making her feel better but the question is how long before she become worse again.And if you think that since you helped her once,you can help her again..you will be damn disappointed as she might even attack you for trying to help her...YES,that's how they can be...They reason with thier present emotion and not logic
So if you find yourself in this position. What is the best thing to do..the answer is to do NOTHING..Detach yourself from the situation and make her come to you herself(she will) and by then you will have control and power over the situation...
Don't get mad or angry at them for how they act(except they really pushed you to the wall) and just let her be when she is acting up...DETACH yourself and remove all emotions from the situation you are facing with her.Just go about doing your own thing and she will come back to you..But don't hope or wait for her because by doing that you are still adding emotions..
Funny but Girls find it Attractive and very masculine when a guy is emotionally detached...you become a treasure in thier eyes and they look up to you.. because of this they will decide ways of making you emotional for example by pulling away,calling or chatting with other guys in your presence and using sweet names,delaying your text,ignoring your calls,some may even attempt a fake break up etc...all this just to get you to be emotional (TESTs)..... You become a PUZZLE that they are trying to solve by all means...
But even when all this happens,maintain your guard as a man and be Emotionally detached and this girls will love you more and things will start going in your favour.

Any questions can be asked and I will answer..
My own personal experience on Emotional detachment coming next