I've never said it to anyone

asamoremi:
They should call us oh. Am tired of eating

I look forward to seeing you in camp in Sha Allah, perhaps, you ain't gonna get tired of baking

nkevick66:
Latest information.....passing out parade for those in NDA CAmp has been postponed indefinitely

choiiiiiiiii!
Just when I started my countdown,it is well.

romites:
@enoquin...pls share lets know

she already did.

americanson:


Same girl who said I am not handsome...

Came back years later, stalking my facebook facebook account and told me the day I called her that I now look fatter (yeah I was skinny and Bonny) and more handsome.

In her mind she would think I am keeping in touch cos I like her or still have her in mind but me know it is for me to let her see my growth.

She wooed me many times to have me back...

She can't understand why I can't take her back or let the past go cos I was so clingy that she thought she can go and come back at will and I will accept her back with no question.

She thought that by having sex with me (same sex she denied me when I was a mumu and gave to another guy as a confession) will solve the whole problem. What she didn't know is that I am one of the very few guys who never bond with a woman via sex...

During the initial stage of her brain reset, I told her even if she nakeed in front of me, I will never take her back... She didn't believe her eyes while we were exchanging text lol cos I was in school.

Omo, she even find me come school (went back to school against all odds after the demise of my mum and only parent) twice and in one of those instances, she noticed I wasn't looking at her while we talked... She was looking uglier and I couldn't help it, had to use other pretty girls passing by to help my sight. She was at the park and came in from somewhere... Probably from one of those guys who fork her for money... Something I never did.

It is a long story bro but I did well do some damages to her brain.

The day I knew my plans had worked was the day she begged me in God's name. This time around I was serving in Info for NYSC. She had begged previously but this one was a bit different. She said she doesn't know whether is the wrong things she did to me that is affecting her life... And beg me to forgive her.

My spirit broke that day.

She wasn't my first girlfriend. My first girlfriend didn't go well. I ended it with first when I discovered I am being used...

The issue is that she was my second that I opened up a lot and even let her meet my siblings. However when she was doing her evil, it was as if she had no soul, no conscience... No heart. I saw someone who didn't care if I died.

My mums burial she never asked me to send her money to come like she would ask me to send her money for other things. She only called me once during that period and never called to ask how preparation was going, the night before my mum was put to the ground and I called her... She asked "baby, you promised to buy me another phone" Jesus! I am talking about my mother's burial and you are talking about another phone. I bought the one she was using and she used that phone for over 3 years after we broke up...

So u can imagine how heartless she was. There are some kind of people I don't forgive... The devils among us are the ones I don't forgive.

Another reason why I don't take all her please is that if the life she chose then had favoured her, she would be the one laughing at me by now.

A lot happened, a lot happened.

Her Immediate elder brother even went to PH to see her in school and she told him lies.

Dude called me one day and spoke to me and I called him back and broke the whole shiit to him. He had to start begging me on her behalf.

The last one she did was when she asked to send her money to visit me and lodge, this was after burial. This girl called her ex, ask me to help her buy something in order 5o discharge me so she can go and meet him.

Well, one thing led to another she left with guy for whatever reasons.

I broke up with her next morning... All these while she always felt right and never apologiises for any thing she does.

It was 3 years later that she told me on phone that she had. Been wanting to tell me something.i told her what... She said she has been wanting to explain what happened at the hotel when left with the guy. I allowed her to talk and after talking, I asked her where is the guy now... She said he left the country... I laughed and asked her, why didn't he take u along if he cared so much. She could not say anything.

She said the guy wasn't happy seeing her at the hotel and that he was her ex(i knew he was when I met them). I asked her who called him, she said she did. Who invited him to the hotel and she said she did... So why didn't he take u abroad with him? No words.

I didn't even had sex with her all the time we dated lol cos I was young and naive...

Her sins too plenty my brother but my mission has yielded good result for me as far as this girl is concerned Na regret dey kill her now and anytime she thinks about me.

I don't blame you a bit jare bro,I equally don't have a heart when dealing with devils in human clothing

americanson:


Same girl who said I am not handsome...

Came back years later, stalking my facebook facebook account and told me the day I called her that I now look fatter (yeah I was skinny and Bonny) and more handsome.

In her mind she would think I am keeping in touch cos I like her or still have her in mind but me know it is for me to let her see my growth.

She wooed me many times to have me back...

She can't understand why I can't take her back or let the past go cos I was so clingy that she thought she can go and come back at will and I will accept her back with no question.

She thought that by having sex with me (same sex she denied me when I was a mumu and gave to another guy as a confession) will solve the whole problem. What she didn't know is that I am one of the very few guys who never bond with a woman via sex...

During the initial stage of her brain reset, I told her even if she nakeed in front of me, I will never take her back... She didn't believe her eyes while we were exchanging text lol cos I was in school.

Omo, she even find me come school (went back to school against all odds after the demise of my mum and only parent) twice and in one of those instances, she noticed I wasn't looking at her while we talked... She was looking uglier and I couldn't help it, had to use other pretty girls passing by to help my sight. She was at the park and came in from somewhere... Probably from one of those guys who fork her for money... Something I never did.

It is a long story bro but I did well do some damages to her brain.

The day I knew my plans had worked was the day she begged me in God's name. This time around I was serving in Info for NYSC. She had begged previously but this one was a bit different. She said she doesn't know whether is the wrong things she did to me that is affecting her life... And beg me to forgive her.

My spirit broke that day.

She wasn't my first girlfriend. My first girlfriend didn't go well. I ended it with first when I discovered I am being used...

The issue is that she was my second that I opened up a lot and even let her meet my siblings. However when she was doing her evil, it was as if she had no soul, no conscience... No heart. I saw someone who didn't care if I died.

My mums burial she never asked me to send her money to come like she would ask me to send her money for other things. She only called me once during that period and never called to ask how preparation was going, the night before my mum was put to the ground and I called her... She asked "baby, you promised to buy me another phone" Jesus! I am talking about my mother's burial and you are talking about another phone. I bought the one she was using and she used that phone for over 3 years after we broke up...

So u can imagine how heartless she was. There are some kind of people I don't forgive... The devils among us are the ones I don't forgive.

Another reason why I don't take all her please is that if the life she chose then had favoured her, she would be the one laughing at me by now.

A lot happened, a lot happened.

Her Immediate elder brother even went to PH to see her in school and she told him lies.

Dude called me one day and spoke to me and I called him back and broke the whole shiit to him. He had to start begging me on her behalf.

The last one she did was when she asked to send her money to visit me and lodge, this was after burial. This girl called her ex, ask me to help her buy something in order 5o discharge me so she can go and meet him.

Well, one thing led to another she left with guy for whatever reasons.

I broke up with her next morning... All these while she always felt right and never apologiises for any thing she does.

It was 3 years later that she told me on phone that she had. Been wanting to tell me something.i told her what... She said she has been wanting to explain what happened at the hotel when left with the guy. I allowed her to talk and after talking, I asked her where is the guy now... She said he left the country... I laughed and asked her, why didn't he take u along if he cared so much. She could not say anything.

She said the guy wasn't happy seeing her at the hotel and that he was her ex(i knew he was when I met them). I asked her who called him, she said she did. Who invited him to the hotel and she said she did... So why didn't he take u abroad with him? No words.

I didn't even had sex with her all the time we dated lol cos I was young and naive...

Her sins too plenty my brother but my mission has yielded good result for me as far as this girl is concerned Na regret dey kill her now and anytime she thinks about me.

I don't blame you a bit jare bro,I equally don't have a heart when dealing with devils in human clothing

Well,i don't have any with the exception of the countless favour my mum has done for me.....May Allah bless her for me,ameen!

texanomaly:


You say you “fell in love” but after 3-4 years and a child, you didn’t ask her to marry you? No wonder she left. She finally realized that all you wanted was to use her body and never make her your wife. Why wouldn’t she go home to her family? She is not married and sees no prospect of it, if history is telling.

Then, when she discovers she is pregnant for you again, her mother gives her the boot. Where else can she go but back to the man who apparently doesn’t really want her anyway. You say you were wrecked by her leaving you...imagine being in a relationship with a man for 3-4 years and he shows no sign of wanting to make you his outside of sex. You wrecked her for 4 years and have the balls to say she wrecked you when she finally got wise to you?


If you intend to keep her around, marry her. If you don’t make her feel wanted, you are in for bigger problems down the road. Just saying.

If you're really the one in your dp,i vehemently say this your comment is more beautiful than your smile, you nailed it mehn

Adebayo4christ:
WHENEVER WE R AT HOME, ITS EITHER SHE IS PLAYING MUSIC ON HER PHONE WITH EARPIECE ON OR SHE IS FIRING EVIL SPIRITS WITH PRAYERS FROM HER PHONE. SHE WILL PRAY ALL THE PRAYERS OF HER G.O THAT SHE HAS RECORDED ON HER PHONE. I AM TIRED O. BFR BOREDOM WIL KILL ME, OR DEPRESSION. COS I AM ALREADY DEPRESSED. I CANT FOCUS ON MY JOB AGAIN

This is getting outta hand.
My honest advice is do whatever you think will make you regain your sanity asap,even it means a self-imposed exile without looking back or whAtever? I mean just be sooo sooo MEAN without remorse and dont chicken out later ooo





PS :in case you decide to go away,make necessary arrangement for your kids; probably by taking them away from that toxic mum. When loneliness deals with her,her brain will return to default.....arrant gibberish

Adebayo4christ:


hmmmm. I DID THIS EXACTLY A MONTH AFTER OUR WEDDING, APART FROM THE FACT THAT I CANT BE THAT HEARTLESS, I WAS AWAY FOR TWO DAYS AFTER SENDING HER A MESSAGE THAT I CANT LIVE WITH MARGERETH THATCHER AND A SADDIST IN THE HOUSE, HOPING SHE WILL CALL N BEG. SHE NEVER DID. NA ME PACK MYSELF GO BACK HOME THE THIRD DAY. WELL, I THINK AND I HAVE ALSO TOLD HER THAT IT SEEMS GOD IS USING HER AS A PUNISHMENT FOR MY PAST. WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT IS HAPPENING. I CANT GO TO HER PARENTS, OR ANYONE. I CANT REPORT TO MY PEOPLE TOO COS NA WAHALA B THAT IF THEY CALL HER. NA MY HEAD SHE WILL BOUNCE UPON AFTER. SECONDLY, SHE WILL NEVER TELL THEM ANYTHING IS WRONG. ALL SHE WILL SAY IS, IT IS WELL. THATS HER SLANG. I NEED PRAYERS . SERIOUS ONE

This young man is gonna need a panel of NL r/ship or marital issues expert.
I hereby tip HARDDON,SISIOGE et al as members of this panel.



Come 'helep' a bro

Preetiex:
seriously i hate it wen pple have no sympathy for others,if i am d guy she will stay with me till d issue is resolved,i wont let her take d key & leave but then i am not d guy, most of these born again ladies thinking they are holy oh i pity d man that marry them,even my elder sister dat is in dat path knows i dont have time for her bullshit

Shoutout to all ladies/women of timber and humility out there,Preetiex is hereby recognised to be one of you....Long may you all live

Americanson is one outta many that is really making this thread so interesting...nice inputs!

Ekele1990:
meanwhile, EFCC is moving into their N24 billion 10-storey building in Abuja next month - reports

this is interesting

5 days to go for those in camp!

There us nothing wrong in that.just make sure you got good intentions and zero your mind,so as not to die young in case the girl grows to adulthood to become an ingrate

I'm not married now

Very Important or on a scale of 5,i say 3.5

Jiang:
I need to marry woh, time is running out

You have my blessings

angelbulksms:


Surely, there are daughters of Lucifer out there. May God never make us encounter any, especially for marriage. Despite that, I dare say, there are wonderful wives too, and I know of many.

Going for a side chick or baby mama instead of a wife is an outright declaration of her as everybody's lady, and you shouldn't be upset if you catch her in the act.

Moreover, a side chick or baby mama can't build a household (marital legacy) for you, only a wife can. Please aspire to get a wife. Start by changing your clique and you would discover that there are lots of well-trained (decent) ladies out there.

your last paragraph nails it all.God bless you for this piece,it's a really wonderful one.

Holamscoh:


This Is obviously rampant these days, I easy get weak whenever i think about it. A single guy can comfortably sleeps with 5 different ladies in just a day as long as he has his cash intact. It's very alarming and disturbing.

Where does that kinda person have the time to sleep with 5 diff gals? He must be one jobless mofo

lefulefu:
lol u dodge bullet. Most runzgirls they prefer having a guy that is either naive or a guy that is cool headed or nice as a husband or boyfriend. Dem no mind they will even spend on the guy with the money they make from their olosho business. The reason they prefer such men is that they feel they can easily manipulate or control such men. Check out the husbands of most ex oloshos turned wives. Their husbands are always timid or naive. Thank God u dodge bullet.

Perhaps! This same lady had the similar take about my personality, coupled with the fact that I joke and more often than not,smile a lot.
What she didn't knw is I have a top notch ability for observing and studying people and my inferences in most cases are accurate.


I refuse to think with my CPU òooo

Duru009:
The rate of single ladies nowadays has tripled these days !

I can't really understand whats going on !

You mean single but with vast experience in bedmatics and RUNZism

lefulefu:
gbam gbam gbam!... Better oil dey ur head. Olosho veterans wey we dey tag as Madams ..most of them prefer their singlehood. They still engage in their olosho business once in a while and dem go recruit young young girls into their army. This is why i always say olosho business be like military job. Once a soldier..always a soldier...once a runzgirl...always a runzgirl. Many of them wen dhier ppl don too pressurize dem into marriage or their collegues dey laugh dem...then what dey do is look for one mumu Jeew guy..entice am by faking to be nice and when she don marry d mumu guy dats wen she start showing him pepper. As soon as she don preg and born then get dat Mrs tag,she go divorce d mumu man and carry d child and resume with her olosho business.na so dem be. This is why its important d woman dat u want to get married to try know more about her. Listen to what ppl say around and weigh ur options thoroughly. If she be one chance park ur bag and run for ur life. Gud morning my brother.

I can relate to this.Naso one ex barracks girl corper dey gv me eye dt year when me knw say na runs girl. She do do soteh she confess say I no gv her eyes,abt 1yr plus after service,when na how to make money dey my mind that year. I just dey file mouth for her up till today say i go reason her matter when I go bck......GOD FORBID!
No be me go allow one yeye lady wear my destiny for bra....tufiakwa

folake4u:



Oh OK. Good morning

Good afternoon!
How was your night? I hope you had a splendid one.Do have a wonderful day ahead.

folake4u:



Huh,i don't get?

I meant I'm good and can't wait to have some banter with you in another thread.

arent88:
let him ask Emmanuel eboue the former arsenal player for some marriage lessons.some kids just sit down and shout team foreign ladies like those women are any better Dan wat we have here.

GBAM!

arent88:
let him ask Emmanuel eboue the former arsenal player for some marriage lessons.some kids just sit down and shout team foreign ladies like those women are any better Dan wat we have here.

GBAM!

folake4u:



Ok.

I'm cool, you?

I'm kicking and raring to pick on you in another thread until then,ma yuppie.

pimpo:
The world is over populated so men are contributing their 2 cents to population control by avoiding marriage.

.....but having several baby mamas right?

folake4u:




O ti ya werey gan!

I do not like the emboldened being used for any reason pls. Not least from the FOLAKE dad is gonna send back to me


Watsup?

folake4u:




I will tell my daddy for you

please do,you have my blessings

LegitGirl:



Very correct @bolded. I don't know why men have decided to lie to themselves that they can get married anytime they wish. An average girl has more than one man trying to win her affections.

Better still,an average clean girl has a minimum of 5 guys trying to get down with her