muhsin:

Thence don't just summarily dismiss deols attachment of this thread to Islam . . . isn't right?

Her point of view was related to my comments . . . . . . .not under which board this thread should be.

My point being some women aren't entirely well versed in their religion.

yeswecan:

That's what i call democracy

Boobsocracy  ,tho' I noticed some of the security men were 'tapping current' . . they should be charged !

muhsin:

^^^^ But this is however an Islamic section. . .why not post this thread here instead?

Good observation,but not a correct one.

The Niqab,marriage,bride,groom & divorce proceedings have all to do with Islam,so this is the proper place to discuss it

deols:

You know wat happens when you use your over exaggerated 'brain' to juge issues? i live among arabs and i must tell you they care about their looks more than anything, especially for their husbands.so dont try blaming the quran or islam for the axn of this woman.

@deorl,Its people like you that  just look for trouble anyhow. .  . .listen to yourself  - "I live among arabs"' . . .duh ! 
As if all arabs behave the same.

I was born in Kuwait & I have spent all my life in the Middle East,I speak arabic better than my mother tongue,so be careful what you say.

My opinion has to do with the personality if you can read properly & not the religion/holy book.

Learn to read with an open mind & stop casting aspersions.


And please what does 'exagerrated brain' mean ? 

Are you lettered at all ? Or you're a housemaid/nanny in saudi ?

deols:

Islam also allows the man to know his potential bride but disallows the kinda courtship you are talking about. he is allowed to speak with the lady and even see her face in the presence of a mahram(a family member whom she cannot be maried to) b4 their weddn

Another silly assumpion. Courtship depends on the parties involved. people decide between themselves how their courtship should be. Within the arab world you have conservative & less conservative couple. Or even liberal ones esp those that studied abroad. . . .so stop assuming. . . madam housemaid?

How much are you being paid? We need a nigerian nanny for my in-laws .

[center]^{MrBrownJay obviously likes shemales} [/center]

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]Thats an Interesting and Funny one. . . . .  [/size]

Ogaga,are you a craddle-robber? Why are you holding that little girl so close in your profile ? 

bawomolo:

study abroad programs include trips to yemen, saudi-arabia, pakistan and somalia

. . . .'How to defile your 72 virgins in record time'

tpia.:

holy moly.

none of these problems are unsolveable nah

simple shaving, electrolysis, or waxing will handle the beard while surgery or something can fix the cross eyes.

Does the woman not read or watch tv? Or interact with people?

see how she has cost herself a husband now.

This her mother sef. Does she also do none of the above?

True,the problem is these people avoid all these simple issues and believe the Hijab & Koran answers all of life's challenges.

I feel because she was hiding behind the Hijab ,no one could give her candid advice on facial remedies.

Sad,sad.

I feel really sorry for the lady i question ,but it just shows how the Niqab/hijab can be used for deceit.

Really sad indeed

[center][size=28pt]Dubai 'bearded lady' marriage off [/size] [/center]
An Arab country's ambassador to Dubai has had his marriage contract annulled after discovering the bride was cross-eyed and had facial hair.

The woman had worn an Islamic veil, known as the niqab, on the few occasions the couple had met.

The envoy, who has not been identified, told a Sharia court her mother had tricked him by showing him pictures of the bride's sister, Gulf News reported.

He only discovered the deception when he lifted the woman's veil to kiss her.

The court had annulled the marriage contract but rejected a $130,000 (£83,000) compensation claim for gifts he had bought his intended, the report said.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/2/hi/middle_east/8508077.stm

I feel really sorry for the lady i question ,but it just shows how the Niqab/hijab can be used for deceit.

Really sad indeed

[center][size=28pt]Dubai 'bearded lady' marriage off [/size] [/center]
An Arab country's ambassador to Dubai has had his marriage contract annulled after discovering the bride was cross-eyed and had facial hair.

The woman had worn an Islamic veil, known as the niqab, on the few occasions the couple had met.

The envoy, who has not been identified, told a Sharia court her mother had tricked him by showing him pictures of the bride's sister, Gulf News reported.

He only discovered the deception when he lifted the woman's veil to kiss her.

The court had annulled the marriage contract but rejected a $130,000 (£83,000) compensation claim for gifts he had bought his intended, the report said.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/2/hi/middle_east/8508077.stm

My advice would depend on which part of the world you're in. . . .

If in Nigeria,kindly follow the advice below and include some anonymous blackmailing letters or text messages to your philandering dad!

Abekeade08:

@kissmylips, How old are you? If you are in secondary school or university, please find where this woman lives so you can watch her movements, pack your friends and beat the living daylights out of her. What arrant nonsense, Make sure you are not involved ooh, but tell your friend that one of them should act like another girlfriend of your father and leave her a stern message that she should stop seeing your father, and that if she keeps seeing him, the violence against her will escalate. (If I was the one cheating with your father, no one will tell me to run away before they disfigure me with beatings)
She will think your pops has other girlfriends responsible for the beatings. This should absolve you of responsibility when your father finds out about her beating. This will of course not stop your father from cheating, but should chase away the leech chopping your fathers money.

If outside,naija. . .I would move you involve some respectable pastor or Imam (depending on your beliefs).

As per those who believe a woman can cast a spell or 'jazz' a man. . . I need some actual examples.

I strongly doubt it. . . . .people get infatuated/fall in love. . .has little to do with 'jazz'. . . . . IMO

So Fennie,is the story about u

Fennie:

I've been dating my bf 4 a year now.there are certain things i'm not comfortable with.he's always complaining he's broke and expects me to give him money.i won't have minded but what baffles me is that he has money to buy designers wristwatches and perfume 4 himself.he has already told me he wont be able to get me anything 4 val because he's suppose to be broke but asks what i'll get him. I'm not really the type that asks 4 things but i'm wondering if he's taking advantage of my generous nature.i know sometimes he's broke but is he not over capitalizing on it.sometimes he even lends out the money i give him.he's not a cheat.i've told him about it,he just told he wont have asked if he doesn't need it.should i not be complaining?how do i in about it?

or your friend ? 

Fennie:

A friend of mine has been bugging the life out of me with this complaint.after telling me the val gist,i told her that was it.no self respecting guy would do that.she said she just doesn't think it's enough reason to kick him out.i told her ok,let's ask NL people n see what they think.i think she's pretty convinced now the guy's a loser.i exceptionally like that 14 feb move.he will definitely get that special surprise.thanks people.

I see another similar thread has been opened in Politics section.

This(Islam on female gov) is really sad,IMO

na2day?:

u are welcome! so how much do u owe us?

You wish

THE AMAKA:

^^^^
interesting name. lol
NL guys will go gaga.