Sage, what you are now saying is totally different from what you said previously on this thread.

Count me out pls.

And why can't the husband get someone to fix it too?

Sage, so what you are saying is that sex is all there is to a relationship? Na wa o!

50cent indeed!

I don't talk too much! Count me in on gossip sha.

Happy New Year to everyone!!!

Hotstepper, you are between 20-22.

funloving:

or run her own business.

The best answer is embedded in your lengthy post. That is it!

Impress? How much are they offering?

I think my guy would have to cope with that! Especially if we are in Nigeria.
And if a girl stares at him, well cool! As long as he doesn't show interest.

nicetohave:

Exactly, exactly and that is how God wants us to be
God is all seeing, but if you want to refer to all knowing he knows what you will do even before you do it, yes he does, but he has also given you a free will and he wants you to use your will, there is predestination and there is your will, God predetermines but also permits you to use your will, God given will to recreate your world.

Correct. God is all-seeing and all-knowing. Being all-seeing does not mean he can't change his mind and the fact that he changes his mind does not mean he is not all-seeing.
Now take this conversation as an illustration:

God: Hey Bukky, I have a plan for you to become a Medical Doctor.
Bukky: No God please, I want to be a Lawyer.
God: Ok, dear.
Bukky: Thanks God. (kisses God)
God: I actually knew you were not going to agree to be a Doctor, and I also knew I was going to grant you whatever you wanted to be, and I also knew you were going to ask to be a Lawyer! Now I'm going to tell Gbenga(Bukky's friend) my plan for him to become a beggar and I already know he will accept it because I know he thinks I cannot change my mind.

nferyn:

This does not compute. It's like saying an object is both a square and a circle at the same time. If there is predestination, there is no free will.

Well, it's possible to have freewill and pre-destination together. Freewill is the allowance given to change whatever pre-destination there is...meaning that there is a plan, but in case you don't like it, you can change it. Like I said before, I don't exactly believe that pre-destination thing but I think it does compute.

nferyn:

It's clear that if you believe in God, you must believe in pre-destination.

I believe in God but I don't exactly believe in pre-destination. We believers of God see him in different ways. Most people see him as unchanging, I don't see him that way. God could have a plan/destiny for us but he definitely changes his mind too, that's right, he does change his mind sometimes. My own Destiny is where I want to be - my destination. I just won't accept fate, NO!

Welcome!

How old are you, Hotstepper? Lovely pics.

snazzydawn:

IAH,na you get time to dey argue o!!! well,playing hard to get?For me,I don't do that o!!!For me,its either never to get or YES!!!

That's what I'm talking about. That never-to-get is what people misinterprete for hard-to-get. Some people just believe they are so cool that you can't possibly say No to them and really mean it. Hahahahahaha!

It depends on the kind of school you go to. In my former school, there is no way you can do without it. I mean, even if you don't wear other people's clothes, some people will wear your own! You just can't say No in a room of about 12 girls! Especially when there is a show to go to, see girls rushing for something sexy to wear here and there, some girls will even come from another room to ask if you have a blue top to go with the blue sandals which they got from yet another room!!! Well, in my new school, I'm the only one in my room...so no ruglem!

mamba:

Are you a member of deeper life church?

It's not only Deeper Life members who don't wear make-up. You mean you've never seen a tapping chic without makeup?

Bukky

thelastdon:

can we changed the topic to :when your spouse starts gettting thinner and thinner

He/She has AIDS!

hot-angel:

I think that's be good.

What did I do?

Oh Sorry! I made a mistake, Lol.

Snazzydawn, why don't you teach her a course in Nairaland Posting 101 and Nairalandology 107?

whiteshark:

according to one poster on the tread, them say make animal with horn come out, snail sef dey show......

Next time you quote elder IAH, you have to put a Bibliography at the end of your post.

Spiked, please consider him o! He is really nice to have.

spikedcylinder:

Whatever you choose to call me.I just hope you're reasonable enough to realise that a thin person cannot always be attracted to a thin person and vise versa for fat people.
Besides,thats why i said am not exactly perfect.but almost!

Oh I'm sorry! I didn't know that was what you meant. I thought your statement was to mock fat people and I wanted to say you are one Big Mama yourself.

spikedcylinder:

[b]as a british size 16,am not exactly perfect but i just CANT be attracted to a fat person.[/b]I don't think i'll be able to 'get it up' if am with a fat person.

British size 16? And you are not attracted to a fat person? Now what do we call you?

She has kids - 2 boys.