Nigerian women in the US are very mean from what I have seen, they are also very arrogant unless this is a cover up for their feeling of low selfesteem We are all beautiful and it is not because we are naija or american or white or red its because we ARE Women. Men can create monsters from decent women. I have seen how some Naija men cherish American women but they treat us like slaves.

Why do all of us assume that the only reason Naija would marry an American is for papers. Please, there are some good women and men in America. African Americans that we choose to hate on partially due to jealousy, perhaps, maybe we wish we had the opportunities they have had to show them how to work it. I have met some strong educated African Americans that respect our culture and traditional heritage that they admit they lack. For the comment about not wanting to leave due to marriage for papers or child support, maybe its for LOVE.

How many people do you know that would leave a place of convenience to return to a cave. No disrespect. Human nature seeks comfort not suffering. When people have done without and then they get a taste of having a good thing it takes a strong constitution and selflessness to go back to suffering for the sake of culture or loyalty. Let's be honest, there is nothing wrong with being reluctant to return to a place where one can make little difference. If they can make a difference by sending money home, do it. It is easy to cry that someone is a traitor when you have not been anywhere, wait until you taste the honey and see if you prefer to eat the lemons abi.

I will marry Naija for 10,000 american money. One Love