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Politics / Re: See How Much Cooking Gas Cost In Port Harcourt: Pictures & Video by IamYourNeighbor(m): 5:12pm On Sep 28, 2021
Over here is #650. I was dumbfounded when I looked inside my wallet.
Business / Bank Palava by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:14pm On Sep 27, 2021
Please can someone access your accounts with your account name and bvn ?

How safe is your account if you give out your account name and bvn ?

Please it's urgent
Career / Re: Advice An Intending Freelancer by IamYourNeighbor(m): 10:16pm On Jun 15, 2021
Good people, is there a possibility of achieving something meaningful and profitable as a freelancer with a mobile phone ?

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Phones / Re: Itel P37: First Impressions And Unboxing by IamYourNeighbor(m): 7:12pm On Jun 10, 2021
ipobvsdss:
My joy about itel is that they give quality and affordable device. Imagine this device going for just 38k. If it was some other brand you will be hearing 70k plus. By God grace I will buy one for my wife.


It's 2gig Ram , my good sir. 2 !

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Skill Can I Learn In A Short Time To Start Making Money ? by IamYourNeighbor(m): 5:31pm On Jun 08, 2021
justosee:
yeah

Mind if I DM you, My good man ?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What Skill Can I Learn In A Short Time To Start Making Money ? by IamYourNeighbor(m): 11:44pm On Jun 07, 2021
justosee:

Freelance writing.
You can write news or articles on topics of your choice

Hi, Are you into freelancing?
Romance / Re: She Is Choking Me With Love, Advice Needed by IamYourNeighbor(m): 1:08pm On May 27, 2021
You don't deserve her.
Career / Re: Suggest A Sustainable Handwork For A Jambite by IamYourNeighbor(m): 3:25pm On May 21, 2021
powerbank5000:
If you are techy (Digital marketing, ecommerce, mini importation)

If you are dead broke don't venture into programming, you cannot effectively learn programming on an empty stomach with lack of data


If you are hands on Plumbing, woodwork, electrical, interior design solar design and installation, phone and laptop repair


Let me give you a brotherly advice, and I hope you work on it...
First of all I counsel people and I have done that on nairaland for a while... I have met great and good guys...
I dropped a story about my experience teaching in two schools as a corper and would not mind partnering with schools in abuja, but some accused me of looking for teaching job... Never ever mind what people say...
Back to the matter...
As a graduate, teaching and earning 15k, e no bad... But once you have a good (android) phone, go to any car stand of your choice around your area... Listen well, any good car stand and ask to see the manager... Tell him you want to help him market his cars and get good buyers... 90% of car stand managers will sign u on... Tel him you will be paid a small commission after sales...
Pick up your phone, snap as many cars as your phone memory can take, open a dedicated twitter ac, IG ac, Facebook ac, WhatsApp ac, ac etc... Take out time to post this cars, make sure you have the actual prices of this cars... You can add as much as #250k on it... Bring down the negotiations to as low as making #50k if need be just so I can sell. Set your monthly target... I assure you, if you get I client in a month, u make around #100,000k once you start growing, you can get as much as 5-10 client from all over the country and that hits you over #1m for just helping others sell their cars, Note all you invested was your time, energy, phone and data... No big financial capital...
Do not restrict yourself to cars, go for industrial machines as well, caterpillars, mikano gens, any thing, then you look for those big companies that need them and try to call their attention to it or market it to them... You may not sell in 3 months but when you manage to get a client to buy just 1 caterpillars, my brother you will instantly forget that u suffered before...
A friend of mine was marketing a silo for a local wielder, he received a call all the way from kebbi state, the purchase was made in Ilorin, he made #1.8 mil from buyers and #400k from seller... He still got a referral from that deal. Wake up bro...
Within a month or two, come and pay (tite).
I drive uber/bolt in abuja, market cars, sell commodities such as beans, maize, wheat, ginger,onions, name it... In bags and tonnes
And I make nothing less than half a mil monthly...


Good Lord ! This is an eye opener.
Remain blessed !
Celebrities / Re: Ada Ameh Slams Naira Marley Over His Sexual Fantasy (Video) by IamYourNeighbor(m): 3:20pm On May 21, 2021
Naira Marley should be one of the major reason, you as a youth, should avoid drugs.
Celebrities / Re: Which Celebrity Can You Abandon Your Current Relationship For If Asked Out? by IamYourNeighbor(m): 5:05pm On May 12, 2021
None. Absolutely None !
Family / Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor by IamYourNeighbor(m): 3:15pm On May 04, 2021
The girl in question should be 15years I think.
Family / Sexual Molestation Of A Minor by IamYourNeighbor(m): 3:14pm On May 04, 2021
Good people, please how best can this show of shame and gross absurdity be handled. Sexual molestation of a minor ! A man abused a child who is under the custody of his wife, and made her promise not to divulge what happened.

How best can it be handled?

Should the wife be informed, she's heavy with a child as a matter of fact. This issue will surely bring her marriage to ruin.

Secondly, supposedly it will pose as a treat to the health of the wife. (High blood pressure and what have you).

How best can he be approached?

Please how best can this issue be handled?

This man is utterly shameless for crying out loud!
Sports / Re: Mourinho Sacked As Tottenham Coach by IamYourNeighbor(m): 3:38pm On Apr 19, 2021
Somehow I feel sorry for him. It always ends with a sack letter. And he ironically dubbed his fellow manager 'A specialist in failure'.
Religion / Why Do We Have Nightmares by IamYourNeighbor(m): 2:14pm On Apr 11, 2021
I have been thinking. What exactly is the rationale behind nightmares. Is it a form of evil and diabolic manipulation, is it a figment of our imagination, is our subconscious self playing some sort of trick on us, is it a supernatural phenomenon or simply superstitious belief ?

I've heard some persons attribute it to so many concepts like; facing the ceiling while sleeping, sleeping while your legs are positioned towards the door, cobwebs , wall geckos and so many others.

My good people, please I'd really like to hear your views and opinion.
Happy Sunday.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:42pm On Apr 05, 2021
Queenttoast01:
Who knows if you're the only one in love in that relationship?

If a lady is really into you, she won't double date and even if she does, you won't get to know.

She'd swear by the old gods and new that she's deeply in love as well.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:29pm On Apr 05, 2021
Yusufisraelj:


Three things

1. Either she thinks you wouldn't lead her to the promise Land or you ain't serious (committed).

2. She's naturally a cheat and double dates bkos of financial or material gains.

3. She has psychologically problems, thinking it's a proof she's beautiful and gladly loves attention.


It's hurtful when you know things aren't the way they ought to be.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:19pm On Apr 05, 2021
It's most hurtful when you'll do virtually anything to make her happy ! even with the little you have.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:15pm On Apr 05, 2021
Womanizer:


That's her right cos the phone is her personal property!


Whatever happens to transparency in relationships ?
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:14pm On Apr 05, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


This is an acute case of the popular psychological disorder called Oneitis.
This ailment is the basic reason men are advised by elders like myself not to be emotionally monogamous.
Isn't the equation very obvious?
(The more people you share your heart across to, the less damage you suffer when one of them breaks the part they have)

A man's heart becomes softer than a jellyfish and unimaginably vulnerbale when he allows it beat for only one woman or leaves it's switch solely in her care.

He has made that lady the fulcrum of his existence and his world revolves around the security of her belonging to him.
Sadly, hos will be hos and there's no worse ho than the one who knows that under the rain or in the sun, her man's balls are firmly in her grip.

My only advice is that he emotionally distracts himself by getting attention from other females, accept the painful reality that this lady whom he has made an idol could be gulping preeks every now and then.

It will not work right away, but over time it will.
Never inderestimate the heart's ability to move on. Time changes yesterday.


Duly appreciated.
#Respect
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:10pm On Apr 05, 2021
Yusufisraelj:
IamYourNeighbor

Vulnerability is fine in relationship, but getting possessive is not, people should still have their space, however if you find something odd, ask questions and demand honest answers.

More importantly na how you handle things day mostly determine your outcomes.

My 1 cent



It's harder when 'the truth is laced with lies'
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:08pm On Apr 05, 2021
Kobicove:
In the first instance why are you still in a relationship with someone you don't trust? undecided


Just one question what do you think is the rationale behind your partner giving out her number to any male admirer that asks for it ? Deleting messages and call records thereafter.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:06pm On Apr 05, 2021
Womanizer:


You must be ready to exchange phones, while she's looking through yours you're looking through hers!

For reasons best known to her, she doesn't want her partner to go through her phone.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:02pm On Apr 05, 2021
BedroomSecret:
Activate your shock absorber first before going through your partner's phone


Why is the present day relationship so physically, emotionally and financially draining. Most especially when you envisage a better future with the one you're dating.
Romance / Re: Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 11:56am On Apr 05, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked

The situation is that severe I tell you, My good man.
Romance / Is It Advisable To Go Through Your Partner's Phone. by IamYourNeighbor(m): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2021
Good people, what do you have to say to a young man approaching late 20's, who's head deep in love with a girl and in the process has gotten so vulnerable, so emotionally attached. When his instincts tells him something is going amiss in the relationship( when his girlfriend receives calls from a number of male friends and random text messages from them), he loses focus, concentration and in most cases loses weight. He has become a shadow of himself all because he's in love and doesn't want to lose the girl he's dating and in the process risk being lonely again.


Please your advice, opinions, suggestions, and even criticism is needed.
Romance / Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by IamYourNeighbor(m): 7:27am On Apr 04, 2021
Caught in-between the Devil and the deep Blue Sea. The truth will set you free but will tear the family apart. Sweeping it under the carpet will torment your well being but will keep the family together.
Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 6:26pm On Apr 03, 2021
Personally I'm really learning a thing or two from the comments so far.

In some occasions, I've been expected to use brute force or exert my physical strength, but I chose discretion and rationality.

Seriously, "I can't just leap before looking."

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Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 6:18pm On Apr 03, 2021
Basic123:

Its is a sign of weakness to few people. Unfortunately those few people are lousy!...so foolish people think its the truth.Being quite is a sign of maturity and intelligence.
They think before speaking, and after weighing being silent and speaking out on most occasions they have discovered that SILENCE IS GOLDEN.


Aptly said !

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Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:48pm On Apr 03, 2021
Nostradamus:
not really.

I'm also a naturally quiet person.

At times,when some messed with me,i do stand up to them and get very aggressive,at other times,i will just feel like ignoring.

Sometimes ago(should have been up to a year now),i got a cab driver arrested with SARS(he was at fault sha,trying to take me for a ride cos of the quiet air around me).I noticed that after that experience,peoole who witnessed it start seeing me in a new light.


Been quiet is not a sign of weakness.only that most quiet people seem to take a long while before they get angry cool


Thank you for this, My good man.
Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 12:44pm On Apr 03, 2021
jantman:

@IamYourNeighbor

Meankness is the right word to be used, although foolish human see meakness as a sign of weakness but it is really the source of a spiritual strength against all odds

Those who cannot control the spirit of anger becomes slaves to the spirit of anger. He who can suppress anger has more strength.

To be meak you must learn to break your will in many things. To live in ghettos or poverty communities, you must endure all things without complaint, and to persevere faithfully is not an easy thing.

Meakness is actually the elder brother of humility, i mean meakness is a higher virtue than humility.

If you would persevere in seeking perfection, you must consider yourself a nobody and be meak. If you would become meak, you must be content to seem like a fool in this life

He who seeks to be like God, to have perfect and Godly characters will find only
trouble and grief in this world.

Meakness and gentleness is actually a substance in the spiritual realm


Very well said, My good man.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 7:24am On Apr 03, 2021
Take for instance, at first glance people draw the conclusion that I'm quiet and gentle. I'm not even an introvert nor an extrovert. I am an Ambivert.

I use discretion first, over action.

Physically, i don't even know my own strength. Like in the time past , I've exhibited jaw dropping physical strength.
Nairaland / General / Re: Is Being Quiet A Sign Of Weakness by IamYourNeighbor(m): 7:16am On Apr 03, 2021
Depressed101:
because confronting offenders will not always turn out favorably for you... and by not confronting ,you are saving alot of time and energy to do more positive things...


And some will term this act of self constraint as a sign of weakness.

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