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Computers / Re: Which Is The Best Internet Modem For Home Use In Nigeria? by ibbabs: 6:21pm On May 22, 2012
All d above mentioned modem uses old glory. i am network engineer and it is in my field to advise u better. If u want a good internet modem now, fast and reliable, either chose from etisalat and visafone. Starcomms if totally bleeped up, right now i uses etisalat and visafone in my office ( the two branches) and each modem carry 6 systems each at faster speed, not to talk of single system. I have abandon my starcomms modem cos dey r totally bleeped up now and not lik b4 dat dey r d best
Family / Re: Am I Supposed To Pay For My Wedding? by ibbabs: 3:12pm On May 03, 2012
What your husband is asking to do is to help him in time of need and not pay part of your dowry and i c nothing wrong with that, it becomes wrong if u tel ANYBODY and i mean ANYBODY. Afterall the wedding day belong to both of u so i c no reason y u cnt help him now. He may not say it but any assistance, maturity u show now will go along way in your to-be-matrimonial home.

All d best

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Romance / Re: Is It Wise To Go For A Bank Loan To Marry? by ibbabs: 2:04pm On May 03, 2012
Of course he can if he as means (security, job, salary) of paying back with the interest as at agreed time, but it is not a wise decision except been pushed to the wall and when the marriage is planned n too late to call off, even at that. But if u must take a loan, it should be on your own personal conviction and willingness and not because somebody force you to?
Autos / Re: Buy Or Clear Your Portable Cars,jeep,truck,and Trailer.direct From Cotonou At A by ibbabs: 4:03pm On Apr 30, 2012
how much is golf 2, 1 and nissan blue bird, & jetta. all shud be automatic.

also do u do hire purchase, lik buy a car 200 with 350k and pay instalmentally for six months,

kindly text or call 08188202385 urgently
Autos / Re: Toyota Camry 2001 Needed Urgently (naija Used Inclusive)! by ibbabs: 3:54pm On Apr 30, 2012
the number to call is 08188202385
Career / Re: I Have Been Sacked But I Have N1.5m by ibbabs: 3:35pm On Apr 30, 2012
sir, der r so many bznes u can do if u r ready n willing but u must first 4gt pride. 1.5m in abuja is nothing, might not even b enof to rent a shop/office n start d bzness/trading. transportation of food materials is a good business n dat amount is enof to start, selling cement is also good and opening a cyber cafe too dey tight but look closely and intently at ur area n c what its lackin dat pple need but above all, ask God. i can use 350-400k to setup a good cafe for ur wife n she will also sell baked stuff including kunu n sobo drink to entertain her customers . above all ask God for direction. all d best. u can get me on 08188202385,08023416369
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye's 70th Birthday: Drop A Birthday Message! by ibbabs: 11:55am On Feb 29, 2012
This is to wish our daddy in the Lord happy brithday.

I pray that as you have been saving lives, winning souls through Jesus Christ, you will not be found wanting in His kingdom. Your mansion in God's kingdom will be not occupy by nobody except u.

It is well with you sir.

FROM THE SHOGUNRO
RCCG LAGOS PROVINCE 12, AREA 30
City of Power Parish,
Ikola via Ipaja

&

All the members of the City of Power
Computers / Re: Best Isp Provider - Fibre Optic Channel by ibbabs: 1:43pm On Jun 28, 2011
what do u mean by direct fiber optic link?

08188202385/info.bosnetworks@gmail.com provided ntwrks service n also set up cyber cafe wt nothing/cheaper fees
Computers / Re: Promote Your Business (asimtanveer) by ibbabs: 12:58pm On Jun 28, 2011
@(asimtanveer) wat do i need to do n i how do u gt u cos i need to what u just offered

u can call me on 08188202385
Nairaland / General / Re: Lagos Nairalanders Let's Party! by ibbabs: 4:50pm On Feb 08, 2010
Imo wats yr point abt a REPUTABLE PERSON ON THE FORUM. Pls advice cos i want to go and return in one peace
Nairaland / General / Re: Lagos Nairalanders Let's Party! by ibbabs: 11:48am On Feb 08, 2010
nino 213, wat is d time?
Nairaland / General / Re: Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women by ibbabs: 11:41am On Feb 08, 2010
mama gee, pls xplain yr "editing"
Nairaland / General / Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women by ibbabs: 4:46pm On Feb 07, 2010
“The Ten Most Dangerous
Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women
And What To Do About It, ”[/color][/b]

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes,

MISTAKE #1: Being
Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”

     Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?

     Of course you have.

     Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks", but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

    What's going on here?

     It's actually very simple,

     Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.

     And guess what?

     Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.

    And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

     I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT.

    Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To
“Convince Her To Like You”

     What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like, but she's just notinterested?

     Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.

     Well, I have news for you, YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!

     Never, ever, EVER.

     You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".

     Think about it.

     If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?

     But we all do it.

     When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

     Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her
For Approval Or Permission

     In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".

     Another HORRIBLE idea.

     Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them, EVER.

     Don't get me wrong here.

    You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

    But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.

     You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

    Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her,

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts

     How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?

     If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.

     Well guess what?

     It's only NATURAL when this happens,

     That's right, I said NATURAL.

     When you do these things, you send a clear message:

"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
     Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing
“How You Feel” Too Early In
The Relationship With Her

     Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.

     Attractive women are rare.

     And they get a LOT of attention from men.

     Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME.

     An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.

     And guess what?

     Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.

     That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.

     They know what to expect.

     And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.

     This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast, and can't control themselves.

     Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.

     There's a much better way,

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women

     Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.

     You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.

     When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.

     But does the same apply for women?

     Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?

     Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.

     Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?

     Think about it.

     Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men, and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.

     If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

     But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.

     And ANY guy can learn how,

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It
Takes Money And Looks

     One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money, or guys who are a certain height, or guys who are a certain age.

     And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.

     But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.

    There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet,

     And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.

    YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.

    Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away
All Of Your Power To Women

     Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.

     Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.

    Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.

     Another bad idea,

     Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over, Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing
EXACTLY What To Do In Each
Type Of Situation With Women

     Now I'm going to blow your mind,

     A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.

    Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.

     I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.

     And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!

     And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating,

     Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical, everything.

     If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up, and LOSE EVERYTHING.

    And you KNOW it.

     It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman, from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP

     This is the biggest mistake of all.

     This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.

     I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.

     Hey, I've been there myself.

     Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women,

    About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.

     It frustrated the hell out of me.

     One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night, right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.

     Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.

    I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

     It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling, like I don't know how to meet women, and I might wind up alone.

     I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

     I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States, and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.
Nairaland / General / Re: Lagos Nairalanders Let's Party! by ibbabs: 1:45pm On Feb 06, 2010
i am interested. when, where,how. for d purpose of security, y dnt u make d venue beach. still wat do i need to do to invited
Politics / Re: Nigeria Banned From Us Diversity Visa Lottery? by ibbabs: 5:50pm On Feb 04, 2010
[color=#000099][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt]Nigerian ARE STILL ELIGIBLE for DV Lottery because i register so many pple for it in my cafe but there is always problem using internet explorer, try using mozzila firefox and d website is dvlottery.state.gov any other website is an agent's so beware. its always dvlottery.state.gov
Romance / Re: Please, I Need your Advise by ibbabs: 6:30pm On Jan 29, 2010
can anybody teach me how to lick. need to satisfy my girl
Computers / Re: Best Isp For Cyber Cafe by ibbabs: 7:32pm On Jan 18, 2010
chidyke77
betheldgr8

Anybody that its in interested in setting up a cafe should contact me on 08023416369 for setting up d cafe, system network, engr d systems, installation etc

i reside in lagos but can travel becuase d nature of my job takes to and from lagos and outside. my numbers are 080234163689, 08191490627, 07059623321. and email is bosventures@yahoo.com

Be rest assure, d subscription is very affordable for commercial
Romance / Re: Virgins' Club! by ibbabs: 5:09pm On Jan 15, 2010
guys dnt deceive yrself, no woman will appreciate virgin (Atleast on bed). know they prefer us wey sabi do, can take dem to could 999999 as they put it. so how would u do dat if u a re a fucking virgin, (abeg bros, dnt b deceive just bcareful and prsyerful wink
Computers / Re: Best Isp For Cyber Cafe by ibbabs: 3:08pm On Jan 15, 2010
Msg for betheldgr8 (m). I once have the same problem but i have overcom the problem now and my cafe is going smoothly.

Call my number 08023416369 and lets schedule and appointment and about it.

I can also set up your cafe for you, do the networking, supply d system and even run it for you for two weeks to show you how to make things work successfullly and all it going to cost you N400, 000 for 10 computers, internet device with 1month subscription, networking, program installation, printer, scanner on all d work stations. All for N400, 000.

Its negotiable, gurantee.

Please pass the message around and do gets i touch
Literature / Re: James Hadley Chase Novels: Share Your Experience by ibbabs: 2:34pm On Jan 15, 2010
James Hadly Chase wrotes  Believe this, believe anything
dayokanu:

I loved "The vulture is a patient bird",

I read a lot and wrote the titles down. I wrote up to 72 before I lost my records.

Thats my first. Pls anybody out there who still has chase can pls contact me on 08023416369, either to sell or give. pls no flashing o but text or call.

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