redon12:

as a community they are

You still failed it. Anambra for instance is still the state with the highest standard of living in Nigeria. So I don't know if you quality infrastructure with personal riches

South East states one of the poorest states? Boy I hope you don't mean by individual, cos we ain't poor

wunmi590:


Thanks very much for the correction, we would make changes.

We are open to criticism and correction, thanks once again for pointing that out

Good you understand how important that is

mynd1:
Alhamdulilla!!!

someone should plss tell that Albino terrorist Nnamumudi cownu that Mr president is alive and he should get ready to spend the rest of life behind the bars. It's only cowards that wish their superior dead and Nnamdi cownu and his Ipod touts followers will always be our slaves.

God bless Mr president

God bless Mr Acting president for holding the country when Baba is away.

God bless Nigeria.

Your thinking is thwarted and foolish, what do you posses or own that gave you the audacity to call a Fellow human "slave" and even went ahead to put "Always" ? Your type are one of the many reasons people clamour for segregation.

Mariinee:
Haha..Osheyy trickster

No need to try to see for yourself, this is safer. It would have worked on you too

Simple trick, works always for me, works 100% if she have crush on you.

Jokingly tell her you will marry only a virgin when the time comes.

Watch her reaction...if she reacts a bit annoyed, disturbed, agitated or defensive, she is no longer a virgin.

wunmi590:
Upcoming Afro RnB / Pop Singer Emyxcel officially plans dropping he's 1st album titled EXCEPTIONAL. He said he's not signed under any label and wished to be signed to a label to express his God given talent..the Album consists of 10song..

He's a graduate of Elect/Elect.Engineering from IMO UNIVERSITY owerri and hails from IMO State Nigeria. He has been a stage performer right from he's school days in IMSU with the likes of Xbusta ( currently with 5star music) , Egbeigwe (Nollywood Actor) etc..he has no music video yet but wished to release the upcoming album under any label he is official signed to. Follow on IG- @emy_xcel , Facebook - www.Facebook.com , Twitter - @emy_xcel. Contact: 07033888224

WTF! The graphics alone will scare any body away

Details coming soon

Op you deserve 5 bottles of Cold Heineken with enough nkwobi, please anytime you enter Enugu, don't hesitate to alert me.

Choi! I'm so happy

prospero5:
the guy above me. na wa ooo!

the story is about Gaddafi not USA.

So you can't connect US and his death? Or are you lazy upstairs?

24sqm:
My friend, if you know what's good for you... don't have a girlfriend.. it's a set up and you'll end up regretting it.. try and develop yourself to be a better person... girls will come begging sooner or later.

I repeat what this person said, Don't enter the vicious circle. Your friends are not good friends, many of them are envious of the type of person you're.

Dlordsamurai:
IT works and its not voodoo, just believe.

Alright

Prognose:
"we had a misunderstanding that lead to me saying things I'm not supposed to say to her."


What are the things you told her?

You know there are some things you will say, words that will hurt, especially if she gave you some information during her most vulnerable moment and you now used it to insult her.... She won't forgive u ever. Women can be like that o. Even if you eventually get married she might still hold it against u.

If you have pleaded with her before to forgive but she's still behaving pissed off then u should tell her point blank that you are moving on. Give her an official break-up and move on. Don't start another relationship without expressly letting her know you have ended this one. It's very important so that if she's just sulking or doing shakara, she will know she has overdone it and needs to stop the airs. But if after u say you're moving on and she still persists in remaining annoyed, guy, move on oh. She won't forgive u later. Even if you beg and beg she might end up accepting u back out of pity. And that can end badly if eventually you two get married.

I acted premature with things I said, but I'd rather not elaborate as she is on Nairaland too

Dlordsamurai:
BRO stop hurting yourself over a lady, bro this world is too too sweet to waste your time over a lady. Bro i will advice you to give this new lady your time, go on a date with her, take her to the beach, swim with her, dance with her, laught with her, help her in cooking, play video games with her and love her. the other lady is history.

I'm truly hurting myself, thanks so much. The burning paper issue though, seems like voodoo stuff

Dlordsamurai:
op first of all, there is nothing in life that we are meant to be. you and your old friend are done for good. how can you move on when you wont let go of the past. in this time of life, there is no time to check time, if i offend a lady and she gets angry and i tried to reconcile but she still avoid me then my brother i will move on with my life. IT is true that we dont know the value of something untill we loss it but it is also true that we dont know what we have been missing, until it arrives. "op give the new lady a chance and write the name of the old lady on a paper, take a match box and lit it with fire saying that as i burn your name with this paper, i am burning all the memories i have of you. OP DO THIS AND THANK ME LATER.

Thank you so much! I knew I could forget her if I try, but I can't bring myself to try.

Ezemann:
A bird at hand is worth two in the bush

Thank you

I have seen people get useful advise on Nairaland and I wish to get good advice as well as bashing (it's inevitable) here too.

This is a new moniker, I'm an old member of this forum

There is always a time in a man's life when he understands that he can't afford to play around anymore, this is the stage I'm in life right now, relationship wise.

I'm in love with someone who shows little or no care at all right now. Back then in school we were very close friends and she wished I would ask her out (at least that's what I thought, based on her NUMERIOUS green lights and what her friends were telling me, which I ignored because I was occupied with another girl, though we are not dating again)

Back to the present, both of us are employed right now, but in different locations, we had a misunderstanding that lead to me saying things I'm not supposed to say to her. Well, I thought it's still back then, when no matter what quarrel we had, we can still reconcile as if nothing happened. It turns out she took it very serious.

Or maybe she just didn't want to have anything to do with me again.

I have tried the much I could to reconcile, with no results, I even made the mistake of "texting" her how I feel yet, she never said a thing about it.

Now, I have a friend whom we are MILDLY seeing each other recently, she is beautiful, intelligent, hardworking and currently doing her NYSC.

I still miss this my old friend and deep inside I have a feeling we are meant to be together and will eventually reconcile, I just don't want to hurt this new friend IF that happens.

Do I go on and become more serious with this new girl or do I wait for my old friend whom I can't seem to get off my mind? Please advise me

Please mods help me give this the required audience
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