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Foreign Affairs / Re: Jewish Man Dies After Being Struck By Pro-Palestinian Protester In Los Angeles by Ikea81: 9:37am On Nov 07, 2023
Trump is coming to deport all their asses back to iran

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Family / Re: Fighting Couple Fall From Third Story Balcony(pics,vid) by Ikea81: 4:16pm On Oct 02, 2023
the wife don watch stone cold steve austin tire. see the suplex. damn
Family / Re: He Wants To Marry Me, But He’s A Married Man!!! by Ikea81: 4:11pm On Oct 02, 2023
Nengiraw:
Hello nairalanders, please I need help on this situation. So I’m a lady in her mid 20’s. I’m actually very much set for marriage in the eyes of my family, since society deem it fit to place marriage as an achievement for women, and always bring up your age to remind you to. Anyways, it’s not a priority for me to get married now, as I feel like I’m not ready mentally,and I have a lot of trauma to work on, but I’m also open to it, if it’s in my face and ready. I don’t stay in Nigeria, so my family don’t know if I have a man in my life, so they decided upon themselves to introduce me to a man who is my uncle’s friend that stays in the same country as me. They were more focus on the fact that he comes from a neighboring village from us and that he was a doctor. (Meanwhile he’s actually a nurse, but he told them, that he was a doctor, he also never mentioned to them that he was married and had a child, before they decided to introduce him to me)

So we eventually started talking on WhatsApp, he saw some of my pictures already and he was mesmerized. In fact he was already kind of making me his wife in that moment. So one day he called me and we were just talking,and I heard like a toddler crying so bad and needed his attention, I asked him who was that , he told me it was his daughter, there was this awkward silence for almost five minutes of us not saying anything, so I told him I’ll call him back. I called my mother that day and was mad as hell, that they didn’t disclose such information to me, but from my mother’s reaction she had no idea, and she was also mad and she told me, she will call me back, so she could verify from my uncle, since that’s his friend. Even my uncle too had no idea. To cut the whole story short, he later called me the next day on a video call, and he started telling me about his wife( Yes! She’s still his wife, because I don’t think he has divorced her yet)and how abusive she was, and how he tried to make it work, but she was so crazy and stuff like that. That he’s actually trying to get shared custody of the child. That he’s no longer married to her. I was not really having it, because I just felt like he wasn’t being honest with certain things and on top of that his wife is still in the picture, and I don’t know if I want to settle for that. Also he just turned 40, and I’m 25. So the age gap is too much for me. Also I have not met him in real life, cause he stays in a different state from me, my family still wanted me to be open minded until I see him in person, then I could make a decision if I want him or not. He always sends me pictures of his daughter, and he recently sent me one with his first wife and daughter, I was surprised that he did, and he said he wanted to show me the daughter instead. I still felt like I didn’t need to see a picture of her. I started seeing the red flags of him that I couldn’t settle with. Also the way he talked about the wife was vulgar, and I felt like he didn’t need to tell me about her in that manner.

Now the most recent thing he started doing was sending me random stuff about marriage to my WhatsApp. I usually glance at it,and don’t reply, cause I don’t know why he’s sending me that. The one that gave me a major big red flag from him, is when he sent where Regina daniels( the actress who married Ned nwoko) was talking about marrying her husband a virgin and how it’s important to be a virgin. He then asked me if I was one. Honestly I felt really numb, because I don’t know why he will be asking me stuff like that, when he didn’t really get a respond back from me, he proceeded to send another message telling me, “No mind them sha, virgin no sabi. With a heart eye emoji. I was dumbfounded, I didn’t know how to reply to him anymore. I stopped picking up his calls and I have no intention to meet up with him anymore. Now my family is mad at me, saying that at least I should see him in person, but I don’t want to. In fact I’m no longer interested in him. Please am I wrong for feeling the way I feel? Thanks.

guys a player, lier and jjst wants sex obviously. also his life is more messier than you know. back out now!
Food / Re: Erisco Foods Arrests Chioma Egodi For Saying There Is Too Much Sugar In Tomato by Ikea81: 11:09pm On Sep 25, 2023
Arrest her for what? whats her offence. so i cant voice my opinion. mtchew
Politics / Benefits Of A Legislative Assistant by Ikea81: 7:49pm On Sep 25, 2023
Hello house, who has an ideal of the benefits and compensation working as a legislative assistant to a federal law maker. I will appreciate any real information anyone can provide. Thank you.
Politics / Re: The Untold Benefits Of Being A Nigerian Lawmaker’s Aide! by Ikea81: 7:47pm On Sep 25, 2023
Hello House, this post was made in 2011. does anyone know the current allowances of these assistance and benefits working for a federal law maker. I just got an opportunity for this role , but currently earn over 700k monthly net salary. The amount i am seeing here is not encouraging at all.

Thanks.
Career / Re: Guys, I Am Worried. Leaving Family Behind-transferred To Lagos by Ikea81: 4:54pm On Sep 12, 2023
you are welcome, try find apartment for allen avenue. We will revisit the talk on how much you miss home in few weeks.
Politics / Re: After Over 50 Years Of Operations, Glaxosmithkline Shuts Down In Nigeria Amid Ec by Ikea81: 3:12pm On Aug 04, 2023
Produce in ghana, or import and distribute in Nigeria. Nigeria don't need to produce anything, only consume it.
Politics / Re: NLC Protest: How Is The Protest In Your Area? by Ikea81: 7:20am On Aug 02, 2023
Labour is unserious.what the Bleep is protest? They should go on strike and stop acting weak
Politics / Re: NLC: Protest Rally Holds Tomorrow Nationwide by Ikea81: 7:16am On Aug 02, 2023
This NLC has no balls, what is protest? Just go on the goddam strike. Rubbish. Failed already

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Politics / Re: MC Oluomo Rolls Out Relief Package For Lagos Bus Drivers, Passengers by Ikea81: 7:13am On Aug 02, 2023
Only in Nigeria, a thug will come out and say we will stop extorting 809 and start extorting 600. What's the money for in the first place. Thunder fire him yansh
Foreign Affairs / Re: Japan: Man Spends Over $20,000 To Transform Into 'human Dog', Takes First Walk. by Ikea81: 8:54pm On Jul 29, 2023
Na him waist go suffer
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Illegitimacy Will Fuel More Coup In West Africa by Ikea81: 8:51pm On Jul 29, 2023
Thief dey pursue thief. Funny
Politics / Re: Subsidy: Labour Leaders Walk Out Of Aso Rock Meeting, Accuse FG Of Deceit by Ikea81: 8:24am On Jul 29, 2023
The current labour leaders are fools. Why are they attending the meeting in the first place? A useless govt giving billions to senators and judges while neglecting the poor get sense?
Politics / Re: Northern Petrol Marketers To Embark On Strike Over N250bn Unpaid Subsidy by Ikea81: 6:45pm On Jul 28, 2023
does this mean the subsidy thieves are in the north. NA wa o
Politics / Re: Breaking News . Anambra Billionaire Juju-priest Likely Dead. by Ikea81: 1:32pm On Jul 26, 2023
You expected him to be brought back after the way they forcefully took him, killing his security. You think kidnappers will risk all for that. Dey play
Romance / Re: Married But In Love With Someone Else by Ikea81: 1:29pm On Jul 26, 2023
Oga you are the problem.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Can Be Arrested by Ikea81: 11:26am On Jul 24, 2023
helinues:
Yes, Peter Obi can be arrested and nothing, I repeat nothing will happen afterwards. He can't continue to be making reckless statements threatening the unity of the country just because he loss the election.

If he can't advise his supporters to stop wishing evil for the country, he can be tamed in order to silence his supporters.


I been think say them don cure the madness in your family. shuooooo! so you still dey craze? shocked
TV/Movies / Re: The Moment Whitemoney Danced Into BBNaija 'All Stars' House (Video) by Ikea81: 11:21am On Jul 24, 2023
no contest here, Big brother just trying to revive the brand after the trenches show from the last episode. IF you are involved in marketing you will understand. That level up HM destroyed BB image , no be small, dont ever do trenches! Everyone in that house is already a winner, they must have been compensated to come bring life back to the BBN brand, how on earth will mercy come compete again. how. people wey don be brand on their own. Good strategy sha bhy BBN if you aks me. Good luck to the viewers !

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Politics / Re: Obi: Failure To Electronically Transmit Results Nullifies Presidential Election by Ikea81: 5:15pm On Jul 23, 2023
Pauladex:
Funny people, if 25% in FCT is determinants of who becomes President, it like nailing their coffin because north will make sure no southerners ever get 25% in FCT till the end of ages. Either today or tomorrow Aso rock is getting far from children of anger and hatred.

Mugu, all tribes are well represented in Abuja.

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Politics / Re: We Can’t Fold Hands, Watch Country Deteriorate, CJN Tells Judiciary by Ikea81: 6:15am On Jul 19, 2023
Says the 35billi judge.
Romance / Re: Adamawa Vigilante Marries Pretty Norwegian (photos) by Ikea81: 6:05am On Jul 19, 2023
Lol, see wash. General! Wear 3stars , give the military ceremony. This one na agba
Politics / Re: President Tinubu Making Business Easy For Nigerians - Ben Bruce by Ikea81: 9:36am On Jul 17, 2023
Ben don broke die.....looking for any scrap from the druggie's table
Romance / Re: Nigerian Man Proposes To His Lecturer (pics/video) by Ikea81: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2023
At least he don secure how to repay him student loan
Politics / Re: NLC Protests Tinubu’s N500bn Subsidy Palliative, Demands 300% Pay Rise by Ikea81: 9:51am On Jul 13, 2023
MS247:
cool


NLC and their wahala

Let's start with 500billion palliative

300% increase in salary might cause inflation



.

Na Tinubu get this handle.
Celebrities / Re: May Yul Edochie Begins Divorce Proceedings Against Her Husband, Yul Edochie by Ikea81: 10:56am On Jul 11, 2023
This guy won't end well. He is now living his movies........

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Education / Re: How My UTME Result Was Forged, Mmesoma Makes Fresh Revealations by Ikea81: 10:17am On Jul 08, 2023
This one dey rape teacher
Politics / Re: Festus Okoye: I Don't Understand Reliance On IReV when the parties had agents by Ikea81: 7:55am On Jun 30, 2023
davodyguy:
Stating the fact.
There are over 100,000 polling units.

APC and PDP had party agents in all, as party agents are expected to stay at the polling units, count votes there and sign the form before the form is either uploaded it the hard copy taken to the collation Centre.

You're unable to get 100,000 plus agents to assist and you want to claim fraud or rely on IREV.

So what happen in those units that you had no agent? How can you prove fraud?

Tell this Obi guy to stop wasting his time and 🤑

Fool, are party agents the electoral body, or they make up the whole 24m Nigerians who voted. Nigerians want to see evidence of their votes, and onus lies on INEC the electoral body to provide evidence.
Politics / Re: President Tinubu Arrives Ijebu-Ode, To Visit Ogun Monarchs (video) by Ikea81: 11:30am On Jun 29, 2023
vibbb:
Presidential visit, Obviously BAT has personal issues with OBJ. He recently honored past presidents by naming International Airport after them but OBJ name was missing out - now again Presidential visit to Ogun State - obj still missing out.

BAT will never be as great as Obasanjo. He doesn't need any recognition from him. He shld honour his group of failures like Buhari.

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Politics / Re: Tragedy Of An Ancestral Igbo Slave Named Melford Dokubo Alias Asari Dokubo by Ikea81: 2:41pm On Jun 25, 2023
Ebi2233:
This your nonesense lies would not take Igbo anywhere.
Will only give you more problems with we Ijaws.

Answer the main question. Are your ijaw kings not slaves from igbo land. Once you can answer that then read the story again Mr Osu.
Politics / Re: Court Affirms Ikechukwu Ukaegbu As Labour Party Gov Candidate In Imo State by Ikea81: 2:21pm On Jun 25, 2023
From imo to bayelsa. Mtchew

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