my hubby love his mum alot, i remember him saying after his mum, then me, which is fine with me, don't mind coming in second, his mum is cool anyway.

Don't think i have ever had a first love, i have dated guys but it didn't really do anything for me because they are all forgotten, im married now so we'll see how things go. i love my husband alot though

we both call each other Babe, though he says it more than i do

marrying a pastor is like a days job, and don't you have to be called by God to be a pastor, or do we just decide ourselves.

I think it all depends  on your capabilities as an IT professional and where you get a job in naija, most times when you live n work out of the country you might be more favorable, n you gotta sell yourself high above their expectation. i think you should give it a try for like 1-6 months, if its not for you then move back. wouldn't hurt to try it out. just don't move your family yet.

If only you mistresses could put that kind of hardwork into finding your own men n not snatching n breaking happy homes then maybe such happiness would last forever n you wouldn't need to constantly seek for help elsewhere then maybe you would be happy. God wasn't stupid when he said "let no man put asunder" cuz no matter how much you try to keep another woman's husband it comes back to bite you in the butt. if it wasn't yours in the first place then it would never be yours no matter how much prayer n fasting you put into it. I mean sure you appeal to the man's sexual side but thats not all it takes to keep a man.

which is why we women need to be both the wife n mistress, so bitches like this don't think they have a right to our men.

Guys: Yemi Blaq, RMD, Ramsey Nouah

Ladies: Kate Henshaw, Joke Silva

thanks 4 the video ruby i love the song too

Analytical:

I pray it happens, sister.  That is my desire and much more.  A real daily christian online experience that just grows and grows, while we get filled with His divine presence.  Yes, here on Nairaland!  Somebody say Amen!

Amen o. i pray this grows into something great that can bless everyone

wow thanks for coming up with this idea, proves no one can say they did not have the opportunity to serve God, i am happy to be part of it, n thanks to Gamine for todays word, hope this would become a daily bible reading thing, especially for me cuz i don't read the bible much, if i could come online and get a dose of the bible then its a great thing.

who says he didn't have life insurance b4 he got ill.

i know its sad and depressing, makes you wonder what would happen 2moro

i think it was a stupid thing to do, he is just a boyfriend, no guarantee he would be her husband and he is a 419 guy come on, what would she do if they break up or he gets caught. she is gonna regret it in a few weeks

Have you sold yourself for money?

Do you find Olusegun Obasanjo attractive?

nothing wrong with you hun, you just like bad boys

Just saw the movie, and omg it is f-ing good, loved the twists n turns, i found myself screaming go Melvin. - he is so cute n has a nice smile-

as long as you remember that not all that glitters is actually GOLD.

this reminds me of when i was young, i never wanted to get married to a nigerian man, though i went out with them. just didn't see them as someone who i could end up with. my dad  kept pushing to marry a calabar guy. anyway long story short i married a nigerian from benin city. guess when you get older things n situations change your perspective on life.

I was shocked when my little brother called me this morning, while i was asleep telling me Bernie Mac was dead. i was like its a lie because 2 days ago a guy on a radio station here in california was trying to convince people that he wasn't dead. i did not believe it until my lil bro said it was front news on yahoo. n then my lil sis called to tell me the same story. May his soul rest in peace. he will be greatly missed. i watch his tv show every night from 12am-1am. it would just suck watching it n knowing that he is dead.

sometimes my husband gets me so pissed off that i just shut down, because i am the kind of person that starts crying when i feel hurt, the tears is just uncontrollable. so instead of acting like a fool i just shut down and become quiet just to calm my nerves, then my husband starts to think i am keeping malice. which pisses me off the more because i do have a short fuse and when i go off, i say things i regret later, which is why i try hard to keep my cool. so sometimes it is good to let people deal with anger in their own way as long as it calms them down.

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Flashing is irritating jare! So are bombarding calls!
I don't flash. Just make your call and be done with it instead of wasting time.

totally agree, the most annoying part is when they flash you from naija n you are in the states, they expect you to call them back.

when it comes to love and relationships, there is always a reason. if not then men and women would not waste their time cheating on each other because they loovvee each other, if you can't come up with a reason why you love me then you prolly don't. even God has a reason why he loves us all (because we are his children) so why shouldn't the guy in question have a reason.

Be honest, have you done something to make her loose trust in you because it sounds to me that your girl of 4 years plus does not trust you, and it sounds like you are trying to compensate for something. since you have tried to talk to her about it n it ain't working out you have 2 options, either you break up or suck it up and come to the realization that your babe has a hard time showing emotions

why don't you try to find out why she is that way b4 coming to conclusions. someone must have broken her heart which makes it hard for her to love or trust anyone. for example i don't call my husband pet names because i honestly cannot bring myself to say words like hunny or sweetie, because i think its too cheesy and i get worried how it would sound when i say it. when i call him on the phone i say "hey wats up" and he says "hey baby, or hey my wife". so there might be a reason you just need to find out by asking her, if she cannot open up then find someone else.

a man who leave a wife n his 2 kidz is an idiot

after 9 months do u expect her to remember her id lol

the way i see it is if the guy doesn't wanna introduce you to his friends cuz he thinks you would be flirty or his friends would snatch you from him then he is insecure, if he is embarrased of you then you don't need to be with him in the first place.

i say ignore or tell her you have a gf. im sure there is an ignore button on the chat you are using. its that simple

ya cuz he is bringing you into his world, i would assume cuz a guy will not do that if he doesn't think ur cool

they do look alike never thought of it