why is it that when a girl 2time a guy he complains about how much he has spent on her. gimme a break you should move on if she is 2timing n ignore her, since you no longer have feelings 4 her. simple

1 min n then i hang up

In some situations saying I love you first could lead your partner to take advantage of you.

beemex:

ima1, no hard feelings and i do apologise for my earlier statement it's just that i feel we should not be talking ill of our one and only country no matter what she dishes to us on a daily basis. I think we should all just think of how best to help in righting the wrongs and ill that abound in Nigeria. Sorry Sis, like i said, NO HARD FEELINGS.

no biggie, sometimes venting heals the soul. n i love naija like crazy. so no hard feelings

yeah you are, come on hun living with a guy for 2+ years without no commitment, think about it (thought in this day n age women would be smarter), n he says he will only marry you if you can get pregnant, im sorry but you are rolling with a loser who is using you n prolly has a nigerian wife somewhere or is cheating on you.

Radiant:

Ima, I don't think she really likes the guy. I think she's under the influence of her pastor. You 're a woman. You know how stubborn women can be when they like/love a guy. Ain't no pastor telling us jack

true, cuz the height thing wouldn't be an issue like she is making it to be if she really does like him

beemex:

ima1 if your mom was asked to stay for life what else does she want, isn't that good enough for her? And u have the guts to call Nigeria, Naija a stupid country? How dare You? Do me a favour, if u are here in Nigeria, u better find another country and run to immediately, i would suggest Zimbabwe, Niger, Sudan, Iraq, Iran or Afghanistan where u will be treated the way u deserve u and your black American mother, NONSENSE! make i catch u first tssssssstststststst

abey find hole enter jare, if i call my country stupid wetin come be your own, if you don't know wat to say just shut the Bleep up. i have the right to say watever i like about my own country abi na only you own the country.

@poster

your reasons for not wanting this guy is based on physical features, so what if he is shorter than you, should that really matter if he is a good man. being too picky could lead you to the wrong man who will end up destroying your life and beating you up. so think b4 you leap eh.

sherry lo:

Ima1 maybe your mum no qualify noww.

please she qualified a long time ago, they kept making excuses, she doesn't even want the citizenship anymore, which is a good thing cuz if you can stay there for life, wats the need of a stupid citizenship, come to think of it have anyone asked themselves this question. "What has naija done for me" nothing.

Nigeria is a stupid country, my mom an african american woman has lived in naija for 30 years yet she doesn't have nigerian citizenship even though she is married to a nigerian man and all her kids were born in naija. still they refused to give her naija citenzenship, but they said she can stay in the country for life.

for you guys to leave us alone, and stop f---ing everthing on sight

7 years he's 31 and im 24

How did you approach her. lemme guess, i've been watching you, will you go out with me.

don't come up to me claiming you can buy me the world, cuz we both know you can't. and please don't use the "i've been watching you and i am in love with you" line cuz it means you have been stalking me.(stalker), don't come up showing off your money cuz if thats what you are banking on then i will help you spend it but don't expect anything from me. the way you come up to me is the way i will treat you.

cold:

Mr Stereo,your narration of what happened between you to may not be entirely accurate.If u didn't want to go all d way y did u get started in d 1st place, abeg tell us d tru gist.& by d way what do u mean by "i love her so much"after a few mths,only fools rush in.You're just infatuated.

your right, i think he tried to go all the way n she stopped him thats why she was so pissed she called him names.

I think men are to be blamed because if you approach a woman proclaiming to own the world and buy her the world, what the Bleep do you expect, she would wanna collect on the world you promised. you borrow your friends cars, houses to impress a woman and then complain she is burning you out, whose fault is that.
Personally, im not impressed with a man's wealth because it could all be gone in a flash, i prefer to build a future filled with happiness with my husband. so you men need to restructure the way you approach women and please cut your coat according to your size, don't approach a woman who your pocket cannot handle so you don't end up whining like a little biatch

only in naija. that country is so backwards

why did you wait so long, but im sure there is a man out there for you like everyone else

then wats the point of looking

No pay for your crime then you will get a second chance, im not gonna be an accessory hiding someone that commited murder

big father:

You for teach me naa as you sabi say i nor sabi read . Mr Lecturer !

Hmmmm, your realtioship is really not stable !

na now u sabi answer, though you never still give me your reason.

you think its stable she goes out there and cheats bcoz he treated her better than you did, even though you tried your best and vice versa. so no matter how stable you think it is, i can tell you it isn't cuz you can't fully please a man and a woman. thats why most men look at other women when they pass by. they always want something else, even when they have Gold in front of them.

forget Love, he commited a crime, which trumps being in love on my own side, i will turn him in immediately if not he might kill me when i am asleep. if i shut my mouth the i run the risk of such crime occuring again and this time with my own kid,

so turn him in please.

i can tell him how to get rid of all 3

he should kill himself, he is an idiot for playing with peoples emotions

OMO IBO:

i thought she did already? abi u no sabi read again?

thank you, d guy must be blind

Im glad they got rejected, using nigerian money toenjoy themselves, may God punish them all

davidylan:

some women are clueless.

don't blame it on women, you men put on 2 condoms if you wanna do it so such sitiations that warrant abortions would not occur. don't put the blame on women

TOH:

Are you aware you just contradicted yourself?

Where in the Bible does it say this so called murder known as abortion is a sin EXCEPT for rape, genetic dieases, threat to mother's life.

So it's ok for you to assume abortion is a sin according to God but it's ok for humans to add "exceptions" of when it's "justifiable"

I ask again, is this a JOKE?

killing someone to save your life (self defense) is a justifiable murder, so its not just in abortion cases that we have some justifiable sitiations

davidylan:

thou shalt not abort a baby - if u don't want it shut your legs.
In the event of rape - abortion is permissible.

in the case of men, lock up your dicks

big father:

Very wrong dearie.

wats your reason.

noetic:

No please don't get me wrong.

This thread is a continuation of the Love and Crime thread.
if a spouse murderous past should b reported to the cops because its unforgivable.
Y should a conscious abortionist b forgiven?

If God is able to forgive then you should be able to forgive a spouse who consiously aborted a baby if you are the husband, but i think for every abortion there is a reason, women can't just go aborting like its a game.