there is a problem many lovers are facing nowadys,day after day people struggle to make their partner love them more than anyone out their,but i will like someone to tell me if he/she is having a stable relationship and how do u cope.

My relationship is as solid as a rock, and that's because we work hard at it. Learnin to RESPECT each other is very important. Be able to communicate with each other. Spend time together and time apart, and to trust your partner not to hurt you. Remember it takes two to make a dream come true.

commitment is the key

No relationship is stable, lets leave it at that. you might think it is but it isn't. cuz in a relationship one person loves the other more.

ima1:

No relationship is stable, lets leave it at that. you might think it is but it isn't. because in a relationship one person loves the other more.

Very wrong dearie.

big father:

Very wrong dearie.

wats your reason.

You state your reasons first.

big father:

You state your reasons first.

i thought she did already? abi u no sabi read again?

OMO IBO,

where hv u been?

OMO IBO:

i thought she did already? abi u no sabi read again?

thank you, d guy must be blind

ima1:

thank you, d guy must be blind

a whole bigfather?

davidylan:

a whole bigfather?

I'd say my relationship is stable. . .there might be oscillations here and there, but overall it is stable. One person loving the other more is not (enough) a reason for instability if you ask me - work at it and you'll have stability like someone mentioned.

OMO IBO:

i thought she did already? abi u no sabi read again?

You for teach me naa as you sabi say i nor sabi read . Mr Lecturer !

ima1:

thank you, d guy must be blind

Hmmmm,  your realtioship is really not stable !

you think its stable she goes out there and cheats bcoz he treated her better than you did, even though you tried your best and vice versa. so no matter how stable you think it is, i can tell you it isn't cuz you can't fully please a man and a woman. thats why most men look at other women when they pass by. they always want something else, even when they have Gold in front of them.

big father:

You for teach me naa as you sabi say i nor sabi read . Mr Lecturer !

Hmmmm, your realtioship is really not stable !

na now u sabi answer, though you never still give me your reason.

ima1:

you think its stable she goes out there and cheats because he treated her better than you did, even though you tried your best and vice versa. so no matter how stable you think it is, i can tell you it isn't because you can't fully please a man and a woman. thats why most men look at other women when they pass by. they always want something else, even when they have Gold in front of them.

depends on the guy. When u're in a relationship with a woman who means so much to you everyone else becomes secondary. Of course you cant shut your eyes, of course you will admire others but that's as far as it goes.

then wats the point of looking

ima1:

then wats the point of looking

Appreciating the creator ! And it's no crime to look at another woman, so far you ain't got any other motive.

ima1:

then wats the point of looking

because you cant pluck out your eyes as soon as u are in a relationship.

Define a stable relationship. Remember people are different and want different things. How can we fix standards when diversity is what makes us unique?

NubianQ, i throway salute.
nairaland no dey stimulate me like b4.

how u and ur trouble-loving and lovely friend vivaladiva?

Communication is the Key to revive a strugglin relationship

Just to add that different things work for different people.

ima1:

No relationship is stable

, lets leave it at that. you might think it is but it isn't. because in a relationship one person loves the other more.

Seconded!!!

keep working on your relationship,and it will be stable.

lady bam:

keep working on your relationship,and it will be stable.

Abeg help me tell them !

michelin89:

Define a stable relationship. Remember people are different and want different things. How can we fix standards when diversity is what makes us unique?

Relatively true.