i feel bad for the poster, i think people want to stay anonymous on here in order to say what ever they want and not be cursed out for it in real life

Well im already there but my man asked me in front of family and friends at my parents 30th anniversary party. He asked to spend the next 30 years together. And everyone was in on it, I love that the whole family on both sides are involved because you are marrying into 2 new families.

When i was 22 i was finishing school and could not be bothered, a similar thing was happening to be about 2 years later, i had to leave the relationship because that was grounds for incompatability. Its like you want kids and he doesnt those are just things you cant look past. Im now engaged to a wonderful man and we are both ready to get married and for a family whenever.

And hun dont let the people that are pressuring you to make a decision faze you because they are culturally different, i understand that in nigeria women are to marry in their 20s and stay home to take care of the kids. You can marry at 20, 30, 40 or even 50 as long as you are ready and willing to do it at you own free will.
take care

Ok you ladies that are saying that you are going to hit him back, unless he is skinny and lack any muscle control you are asking to be beaten black and blue. Best thing to do is to get up walk to the bathroom hit yourself a couple of times make it that you have visible bruises and call 911 then wait. Trust me he will regret it and never hit another woman again because in jail they love guys like him. He will come out extra sweeter than he went in