It doesn't work that way. Just relax abeg.

Vikky014:
dude i dnt visit guys neither do i discuss my problem or beg for something from any guy. so tell me how u will get me

People like you are the easiest to get. Reminds me of one fine chick in unilag way back who used to brag that no dude in school can lay her. At the end,it was one ugly muthafucker that bleeped her and started sharing the video via Bluetooth to every tom,Dick and Harry. Just chill and enjoy the thread.

Vikky014:
in ur small mind you think the gurl dnt visit nairaland
besides your tricks cant work for me

@ all: thanks. I'd go for it cos I'm not sure I'm ready for a serious relationship yet and of course,I can't allow my gun develope frogs from its tadpoles...lol. So,do you guys consider looks when picking one? Personally,I can't sex someone who doesn't look attractive a bit. It's a huge turnoff. As regards STD/STI,I think we can minimize that with the use of condoms.

Often times,I've heard people talk about this type of relationship and I've always wondered what if feels like. When they say it's with benefits,does it mean the other party gets paid by the initiator of the relationship? If so,isn't that a posh way of prostitution? What's the difference between that and an open relationship where both parties are allowed to have sex with other people? I know it's a kind of relationship people who aren't ready for a serious commitment,get involved in. Do people involved in this type of relationship pay attention to the looks of their would-be partners? I'd personally love to be in such a relationship but would prefer my partner having sex just with me. A situation where your partner is having multiple sex partners isn't cool,and it's a risky venture. You stand the risk of being infected with HIV...

Before I join the train,I'd like to hear from those involved in it,or haVE been involved in it before,for what's it's like,and for what to Expec t in a friends with benefit relationship.