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Car Talk / Re: Has Any One Ever Purchased A Vehicle From Owode Market? Share Your Experience by inno1love(m): 10:37am On Aug 30, 2017
TPound:


2001 mercury villager. with leather seats, sun roof, 6cd loader,alloy rims and a madt AC

Please how is the fuel consumption of this ride, same with Siennas?
Business / Re: What Business Can I Start With N50,000 In Lagos? by inno1love(m): 3:30pm On Aug 18, 2017
thestevens:
you can buy honey and sell, it very profitable trust me, pm me if interested

How does it work? kindly email me and give me a lowdown on kc2swit@gmail.com
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Which One Is Better by inno1love(m): 1:38pm On Aug 03, 2017
GogetterMD:
KweseTV and TSTV is also available with good packages

TStv website
has little info regarding their coverage areas, price of decoder/subscription fees, and dealers to buy from. Can you help with these info, pls?
Business / Re: How To Get Your Payoneer Card In Less Than 14days by inno1love(m): 4:45pm On Jul 29, 2017
tugrow:
let me start from from how to know it arrived, when your card application is successful, the will sent you a containing the estimated date your card will arrived , pending on where you are, the post office officer, may bring it to your house address before the deadline, if after the deadline the don't bring it to your house, go to your office office, and tell them you were expecting a parcel, and tell them your name and details of the parcel, if it as arrived the will give it to you.

Hope it helps undecided


It sure helps, bro....thanks a lot
Business / Re: How To Get Your Payoneer Card In Less Than 14days by inno1love(m): 4:13pm On Jul 29, 2017
Please, must I collect the card personally from the post office, or it can be delivered to my office address by the post office? If I have to collect it from the post office, how would I know it has arrived? Thanks
Family / Re: Drop Your Date Of Birth, You Might Find A Match by inno1love(m): 5:24am On Jul 07, 2017
October 30th
Family / Re: All You Need To Know About Court Marriage In Nigeria -Barr. Enwongo Cleopas. by inno1love(m): 5:42pm On Jun 02, 2017
veragistonline:
First of all, there is nothing like court marriage. That's a popular misconception. What we have is 'Registry Marriage' or 'Marriage under the Act'.

The court is not conferred with the power to conduct or celebrate marriages. They don't have the right to 'wed' or 'join together' anyone. The court only has the power to do the following; dissolution of marriage (e.g divorce, legal separation), issues of settlement or other legal remedies in and out of marriage. The proper place for the celebration of marriage is a Registry or a Licensed place of Worship.


Paragraph 1.

1.1. In Nigeria, we have two kinds of recognised marriages; (1) customary marriage (this includes the Islamic Marriage) and (2) Statutory Marriage (not white wedding). I will explain this as we go on.

1.2. A traditional marriage is not necessarily a customary marriage. A customary marriage is a complete marriage procedure by itself especially if you have no intention of getting married statutorily. The customs, practices and traditions of (both parties) governs such solely and nothing more. ‎A traditional marriage especially in Nigeria simply pays allegiance to traditions and practices without being bound by such laws once a statutory marriage is done. It is an example of 'give unto ceaser what belongs to ceaser'.‎

1.3. A statutory marriage overrides a customary(traditional) marriage. This means, you can either wed customarily or statutorily and if you do both, the Statutory Marriage backed by 'The Marriage Act' completely cancels the other. It can be argued that in a deeply cultural/communal place like Nigeria, sometimes parties for the sake of peace, or just to fulfil family obligations and to pay obeisance to traditional rites, conduct a traditional (a variation of a customary marriage) before conducting a statutory marriage.

1.4. (it is pertinent to note here that the Registries/licensed place of worship don't need proof of a traditional marriage celebration before joining parties together under the Act) To be legally married, you don't need to fulfil any traditional obligation. The law does not recognise or make demands for such because it amounts to writing same examination two times for just one course when one is all you need.


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2.1. The Marriage Act governs statutory marriage in Nigeria. That's why it is simply referred to as Marriage under the Act. A statutory marriage has the flavour of the law and recognises just one man married to one woman. Meaning, if Polygamy is your aim and your religion or culture does not frown at more than one wife, then there is no need of conducting 'a registy marriage' or a marriage under the Act. This is the major difference between a statutory and a customary marriage. The law defines marriage as between just two people, one man and one woman. Nothing more.‎


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3.1. A statutory marriage can be celebrated in either of these two places;
1. A registry OR
2. A licensed place of worship. (e.g a church)

3.2. A 'church' wedding does not confer any legal status on a marriage if such church is not licensed or if the license has been revoked by law. We usually mistake a church wedding for a 'statutory marriage' and that's very far from the reality. A church marriage that does not comply with the processes as stipulated by the Act can best be described as a party. I always love to tell my friends to ensure that their worship centres are licensed and if it isn't, head to the nearest registry or LG headquarters to be joined by a Registrar.

3.3. Something else, let's take for instance I own a church, registered under Part C of CAMA and it is called Hallelujah Ministry, and I have about 449 branches, it should not be assumed that all 449 branches are licenced places of worship for the purpose of celebration of Marriages. Issues of licence are very specific. Licence is not blanket. It is possible that my branch at Ikorodu is licensed while my branch at Nnewi, isn’t. Governors of states by a gazette can confer or revoke licences on worship centres. A church being registered under CAMA does not necessarily make it licensed.‎


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4.1. The statutory marriage is conducted by a Registrar OR a Minister of a licensed place of worship. Emphasis on LICENSED. This means that if you were legally joined together by a Registrar, there is actually no need for a Minister(your pastor, reverend, bishop, apostle, spiritual leader etc) to do same again. Vice versa. Celebrating in these two places can at best be 'duplicity'. But I also understand the need especially in a religious society like ours to want a church to 'bless' your marriage even after a registry celebration. But note, one is enough and okay.

Note: two things must be in place especially, a licensed place and a licensed person to perform the celebration.

Further Note: something played out in court last year and this line of question redirected me back to the Act. The only recognised time to be joined together legally is from the hours of 8am to 6pm. Anything after has a cloud of uncertainty. Sometimes very little things like this go a very long in making or marring a case.‎‎

4.2. The importance of being legally joined together plays out in the following circumstances;

(a) when parties want to go their separate ways e.g. divorce, separate or remarry. And this is where a couple of people I've spoken usually have an issue. I've heard a man being advised not to do a 'court marriage' because his wife will take all of his properties away. Actually, that's very far from the truth and reality. The court in Nigeria is not vested with such powers. Issues of compensation comes up when there are children to support, joint properties to split, promises, financial debts by one party, agreed compensation by both parties etc. No one strips you of your properties because you did a registry marriage.‎ This is one misconception that fuels suspicion if a lady insists on a statutory marriage.

(b) death of one party and issues of estate administration. If a person dies, his properties will be administered based on two things, his/her or will or if he had no will the governing law upon which he was legally subjected in marriage. Marrying under the Act makes your estate administered by the law of your states and not the customs or traditions of your place. This is always very dependable because on order of priority, your family is well catered to and it minimises conflicts & problems amongst your loved ones. (another post entirely)‎‎

(c) if a party wants to conduct another marriage, being legally joined together estopps such from happening. In fact, it even makes it criminal. If your marriage was not 'legally' recognised under the Acts, nothing stops him/her from marrying another person while you're still together. An act provides marital security especially from 'wandering-proned' spouses.‎

(d) if one party is indicted in a criminal or civil matter. A legally recognised marriage protects the right of a wife or husband not to give evidence or testify against the other spouse. But such covering doesn't exist if such marriage was not properly celebrated as provided by the law.

(e) other legal benefits that may accrue by law e.g. medical covering and insurance from your spouse's place of work, care packages accruing from services rendered by a spouse, disability benefits, social security, issues of insurance etc. A legally recognised spouse can reap spousal benefits that may be provided for by private or public institutions. This extends even to the children.‎ This does not apply if parties are not 'legally' joined.

(f) purposes of foreign travel, immigration etc. E.g. If you want to marry a Nigerian and relocate her to your country, only a statutory marriage will cover for that. The processes only recognise a Marriage conducted under the Act. This is just one out of the many examples in issues of immigration etc.
(many more to come)‎

4.3 A marriage not properly celebrated is seen by the law as null and void. It means it may as well not exist.

4.4. Currently, all Local Government Areas have Registries and Registrars to conduct and celebrate marriages. So wherever you are in Nigeria, you are covered. The process is the same anywhere.

Paragraph 5.

5.1. Conducting/celebrating a statutory marriage has the same uniform procedure whether in a registry or a licensed place of worship. To avoid making this cumbersome, I'll put up a link to the Marriage Act but also talk to your lawyer to guide you through. ‎Also, you can make findings in your local registry or place of worship about these processes and be mindful that it complies with the provision of the Act.‎

Note: It is the simplest, cheapest, easy to fund/celebrate form of marriage in Nigeria, especially in these time of economic unsettling.

5.2. Any question or observation can be raised or discussed here or with lawyers around you. I will also share in the comments, legal authorities backing the above summation.

-Barr. Enwongo Cleopas.

Source: http://veragist.com/enwongos-point-of-view/court-marriage-nigeria-enwongos-point-view-episode-5-veragist/




Please I like to ask, For a divorce proceeding, must it be instituted at the same local government or state the where the registry marriage took place? I will appreciate a response.
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Romance / Re: Nigerian Babes And Men. . . . Would You Ever Swing In A Relationship ? by inno1love(m): 1:32am On Mar 25, 2017
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Nigerian Swingers Club,let Us Meet Here by inno1love(m): 1:15am On Mar 25, 2017
I am in.
is this still open? Thread like this should b alive
Family / Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by inno1love(m): 5:41pm On Mar 01, 2017
[quote author=nma4god post=54175878]he sucks big time......can't be with such a person.....just for him to open up and correct her he can't ....what a husband..[/quot

So u don't see anything wrong in a married woman with two months old baby on her back, and her husband waiting not far away, to entertain a clear flirtatious advances from a young doctor, and to give him her real or fake number? Is that a sign of a responsible woman who respects her hubby or even d baby on her back? Is that not to encourage d doctor, since she's still to visit the hospital subsequently, or will she continue giving him wrong numbers? It is clear u are not in any committed relationship. Play on and enjoy your life, but stop insulting the husband who feels justifiably insulted.

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Autos / Re: Do You Want To Sell Your Car 08061311315 08028612026 by inno1love(m): 1:37pm On Jan 02, 2017
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