Sex before marriage ( sometimes, the woman/girl is the one insisting on it).

However, my stands is that even if the two of you are sex machines, and perhaps have tested a few before now and now that you are together, you are very compatible sexually, and then you get married. What makes you so sure that he/she will sustain such sexual energy within a few years in the marriage. I am a Pharmacist, and I have seen men lose their high sexual performance within a few years of marriage (or even a dating relationship). So it may be ecstatic now, but the question you should ask before marriage is remember;
- it is for better for worse( so the sex life may seem very good now, just have it at the back of your mind that it can become bad someday)
- testing many partners before marriage, can leave you heart broken when you encounter someone who is far better than you in bed and this person does to you what you have been doing to others whom you were better than in bed, likewise this person that rejected you may also meet another person better than he/she, and the loop of heartbreaks continues...
- multiple sexual partners can lead to STIs, unwanted pregnancies(condoms are not 100% effective, and they can break during the act especially when not used correctly), and then not everyone is comfortable with Abortion. Also hate, have seen people murder a past partner due to heartbreak
- Many young men now, in order to impress their girlfriend use drugs( such as Viagra) for long lasting erection, sure it does work, but with time, don't be surprised that you will always need a Viagra pill to get an erection, and of cause, Viagra also has side effects, and some men still abuse it( taking more pills than recommended)
- Also, every person you sleep with is potentially someone else's future wife/husband ( Haba, show some respect)

With all these in mind, I will say, before the marriage, you may test yourselves, in case of any impotency, infertility, etc
And if everything is fine, and your fear is how long will he last on bed, there are very good herbal supplements that boosts libido and performance, and trust me, I have seen them work( remember I am a Pharmacist, with 3 years experience in community Pharmacy practice, I handle at least 2 of such cases weekly).

Mind you, I am in a relationship, yet no sex. Though, there have been occasions where we almost did it, but we both agree that it is better we wait, and we are very happy that way. Yes, even in this generation, there is pride in keeping yourselves until marriage

You know what I always tell people, what matters most is after the whole pleasure, "what next", remember your earthly life can end at anytime ( a baby born at this moment trust me is old enough to die, so what about you). Its Heaven or Hell remember!. RelationSHIPs are like SHIPs, if your girlfriend/boyfriend is sailing to hell/heaven, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you where you're headed.

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