i think you didn't love your husband cos if you love him you will want to be near him, all you need is no string attach sex, pls if you feel that way towards him you need to find a way to love him like telling him to find a way to look sexy u can even hang around with him to know your sexual feelings, hope for the best ok

there is something you need to ask your self? why is it that he check on his girlfriend at the exact time she is not around or why is it that he comes late at night when his girl might have gone to bed? come on girl he just need an excuse for him to flirt with you if not he might just stick around for a few minute not many hours, you have to find a way to stop it or you miight end up been blamed