Please give your best shot in response whether is conforms with your personal beliefs or not. Someone's life changing decision may depend on it.

Advice:
Guys, never marry a girl you do not LOVE. Ladies, never marry a man you cannot RESPECT!
It is in the nature of ladies to love. A lady who claims not to love is living contrary to her essence - which is even more difficult to act. Love should not be an indices used by men to measure a lady's compatibility for marriage.

On the other hand, men do not love easily. Love grows slowly after lust fades away... Women should use

Husband + Wife = Marriage | Love + Respect = Marriage.

The questions below are not exhaustive. Answer them as a human and take a decision. Remember, you and you alone will be responsible for your decision.

Why don't you love her after 1 year of dating?
What are the qualities you look for in your woman?
Is she submissive?
Were you her first boyfriend?

#Shalom!

Jupxter:



And for a woman that depends wholly for the husband, what should happen?

You're still single. When you marry and your spouse does what you hate, you'll know what's up then, that breaking up isn't as easy as beans. What about kids?

Then seek better ways to manage sex in 'your' marriage.

Jupxter:



I didn't call rape a trivial issue. Don't misquote me rape isn't trivial. I mentioned lack of sexual satisfaction in the marriage someone quoted earlier. I want to ask you, do you think in every marriage there isn't a time where one party doesn't want sex and the other took it? You think every marriage doesn't go through such a phase? Don't kid yourself, be realistic please

Rather than charge for rape in marriage, file for Divorce!!

Khayge:
The thread is a good one.
If you want to verify consent, ask your girlfriend when she's in her right senses of she'd like to have sex with you. She'd probably say NO. When she's Hot, ask her the same question.
We as guys of this generation should try as much as possible to put our urges under leash.
For those that have partners, try to understand your partners... Someone said sex is a 2 way thing.. True, most importantly, the lady's satisfaction should be your utmost desire. You can satisfy her even without sex.

The bottom line is, when she's warmed up, Hot and all in the mood, don't trust her judgement. That's where she needs you as the guy to make the right decision to protect her in spite of how high your adrenaline or testosterone is leading.

Is sexual urge a masculine emotion??

Jupxter:



Calm down bro. It's not me oh. I aint married, just analyzing an earlier comment. It's easy to say than do bro. I used to easily advise people to walk out on relationships. Maturity has taught me humility, it's not easy just leaving a relationship over trivial issues. It will need a deal breaker and this is a light matter. Sadly, many marriages experience this at some point or the other, so curing the problem would be better than quitting outrightly, what if the woman is financially emasculated by the man and depends on him for everything? In exchange for love, why will just loving a man for a night be so hard? We need to be rational in our calls here

You call rape a trivial issue? Bro wake up!! You could bag a life sentence if convicted.

MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.

...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.

Whomever sees a possibility of rape in marriage has only one option - divorce!!

MhisTahrah:
Marital rape.That's bad,she should report to the police.

What would the Police do? Charge her husband for rape and jail him for life? - Sick!!