Threebear:

News flash ...they're married traditionally .

The only thing left now is their white wedding .

In the eyes of the land , elders and parents they're legally married .

Only Instagram generation thinks differently because there are no fancy wedding gowns and 2 million naira cake to obsess to pandiculation .

So in your village, doing introduction means traditional marriage??
Please where are you from?

Ofunaofu:
When just a game cut your #10 million bet9ja ticket

Nairabet would still pay you even with that cut one

I know that feeling. You’ll be praying to God to let it be a minor problem and if it is, you promise him you won’t have unprotected sex again �

Admin please can I get a front page on this as to get more knowledge from people out there.
I don’t wanna make a wrong decision

Hello to everyone here.
Please I need advise on something that has been bothering me.
I’m a man in his middle 20s, married with a son. I have always have this issue with my wife that anytime we argue, she must tell me to go and collect my dowry money back. There was a time we had issue and she packed all her things wanting to pack out from the house. She told her aunty and her aunty advised her not to pack her things else this woman would have moved out. The reason for this fight was because she told me to open a store for her and I wasn’t having enough money on me then which she’s aware of.
This woman hardly respect me as her husband. She claims we’re best of friends before marriage and it as to stay that way. I keep asking myself if being best of friends means a woman can’t be submissive to her man as husband and wife? I can’t tell her to do something without repeating it over and over again and most times it gets into a fight because I see that as disrespect. If we need to do something and not doing it her way, there will be fight in the house. Too many things as happened that I keep questioning this union but what is eating me now is the fact that she keeps telling me to go and take my dowry back. She’s 24 and our son isn’t up to one year. We got married last year. Sorry for the late introduction.
I’m thinking to stand on the word when next she says it. I wanna break this marriage as so many little things causes issues. Space won’t allow me to say it all as this is my first time posting here. I don’t know the limit. I’ll be reading your comments. Thanks