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Food / Re: Bread: Inside A Bakery In Nigeria (Disturbing Photos) by itasakpa: 6:22pm On Aug 13, 2022
Man must not live on bread alone, I dont eat bread for breakfasts its for kids i will pick ice and chicken or fufu and big big meat over bread and egg any day
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by itasakpa: 12:47pm On May 21, 2022
CandyOps:
Long story short: you need to learn how to point out her mistakes without hurting her feelings. It also depends on how big her ego is

Long story long: Normally conji never hold you. Na you go still use your hand apologize for her fuxk up when the time is ripe.

Concerning the issue you raised, there r ways of pointing out a person's wrong without stepping on feelings. For example, my babe once told me my idea on a certain goal I had was B.S and I felt bad.

One day she did that again and that was when I called it out and reminded her that this was the 2nd time she's doing so and it is disrespectful.

I told her she was being insensitive to my feelings with her words because I don't call out her bad cookings instead i finish the food with a smile sometimes. So it's wrong for her to call my ideas stupid without proferring a better option.

2 things happened here- she took a mental note that I held an unspoken 'grudge' about the first time she did it and secondly, I let some of her mistakes slide because it's not worth it being confrontational over small issues.

About the salt level while cooking, this should have been thrashed out in the dating stage already, why now?

I hate salty food also because it's just slow poison. So I go dey warn you ahead of time even before you start the cooking to avoid salt say I no de chop salt because of BP and I won't eat much of the food after the first fews spoons if its salty. This will avoid correction or pointing out the error if it happens in future

Apart from cooking mistakes, the most confrontational topic for me is sex denial.

That one na to use spankbang.com hold body o. I hate complaining about that it's childish and has zero effect.. I only address it later when my mood has gone from irritable to adamant.

Normally, i talk about the sex issues when in a romantic but non-sexual mood. Especially when she's ovulating. She's usually more open to positive suggestions then. It's pointless talking about it immediately it happens because you'll be emotional and capping too much.

If to say you never marry I would have advised you give her a few days space. Her sensez will reset after a few days of absence

Na Third world war you go still start for house. just ignor them, an intelligent person will ignor lol
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Look At My Feet In Public? by itasakpa: 9:08am On Oct 12, 2021
Women can tell your worth from the shoes you wear or sandals. That's what the look is all about. It's call the you get money? Look

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Investment / Re: Did Anyone Here Receive This Text Message.. by itasakpa: 10:48pm On Feb 12, 2021
Yes

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Business / Re: Get Paid For Small Activities, Make Money Fast....... by itasakpa: 1:45pm On Feb 10, 2021
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Health / Re: Lockdown: What Would You Be Doing This Period? by itasakpa: 5:39pm On Apr 01, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Stay in my Santum( inner room where you huzzle only)
My bombing and learning of programming continue
Drink some alcohol and drag enough weed. Try to finish writing my book tittled "the criminality in every human"

Then probably try to investigate something and show the world that Corona viruse is not from Wuhan
That viruse is from Italy(Napoli) and it started there in August/ September last year.
Because am in contact with the person that recovered from that viruse around August in Napoli ( Naples). Even another health practitioner in Campania ( Italy) can attest to it.

I don't know if China can pay me because anything when nor go put money for my pocket i nor dey do am

ballard of a dead soldier
Politics / Re: Court Orders Saraki’s Ilorin Houses Forfeited To FG by itasakpa: 6:41pm On Dec 02, 2019
U hit the nail on the head.
Jones4190:
PDP is a fraud.
Multiplier effect of corruption
1. A young man works for one of the state ministries. His salary is 120K. He makes 15,000 everyday on this desk (N75k a week) engaging in corrupt practices. As a result, he spends the daily cash as he cares. Living large and far above his legitimate income.
2. He visits the local joint every evening and buys drinks for friends, and area boys. They hail him. He is married, but has two girlfriends. His "income" is enough to take care of them. The Asun seller at his favorite joint is happy, the joint owner is happy.
3. Everyone was benefiting from his "income". Friends, family, area boys, joint owner, Asun seller, girlfriends, wife and his church. Life was good.
4. Then suddenly the ministry implemented the Treasury Single Account (TSA) at the beginning of PMB administration. His extra "income" disappeared and he had to adjust to the reality of event and live within his real income. That wasn't easy.
5. Initially he reduced his daily visit to the joint to 3 days a week and stopped buying drinks for everyone. He reduced the plates of Asun. The Asun seller started to find it hard to sell a full goat each day and resorted to buying half.
6. The young man's girlfriends started to feel the heat too. No more iPhone 10. The joint owner noticed a drop in sales. The young man finally stopped visiting the joint after a month. The area boys started feeling his absence. The effect cascaded down.
7. The young man started spending more time at home with his wife and kids. The family had to readjust to the reality of the new normal. His hair stylist noticed the young man suddenly stopped tipping. He will even wait for his N200 change after haircut.
8. Things are different. Times are hard, they all cry. The young man is blaming Buhari, his wife is blaming Buhari, the area boys are blaming Buhari, the girlfriends are saying Buhari must go, the joint owner is saying Buhari killed the "economy"
9. The Asun seller is cursing Buhari, the hair stylist is insisting Buhari is too old to rule. This is the story of our nation where corruption fuels the "economy". Those who are not engaging in it are benefiting from it.
10. This tread is not about Buhari's achievement or failure, but rather about the "multiplier" effect of corruption and how we have built a system largely driven by corruption. It's about policy implication (good or bad). It's about the choices we have made.
Finally, the young man had to withdraw his kids from what he called expensive primary school his kids attend. He added:"what are they teaching them there sef " Obasanjo didn't go to a private school. I just laughed .
I Will explain part 2 of this story at the end of # NEXT LEVEL
Romance / Re: Saliva Is Not A Lubricant; Do Not Use It During Sexual Intercourse - Doctor by itasakpa: 8:23am On Jul 10, 2019
saliva is still better than most lubricant

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Politics / Re: EFCC Opens New Office In Ilorin, Kwara. Nigerians React by itasakpa: 6:34pm On Mar 20, 2019
this office is beside saraki house. as in they are direct neighbours
Car Talk / Re: Automatic Gearbox Problems by itasakpa: 1:03am On Nov 26, 2018
phone number of the auto mechanic pls

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Investment / Re: Vacancy For A Data Entry Officer(urgent) by itasakpa: 11:23am On Mar 29, 2018
itasakpa@yahoo.com
Investment / Re: Let's Share Working And Winning Binary Option Strategy.. by itasakpa: 7:13pm On Jan 20, 2018
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Celebrities / Re: Hushpuppi Responds To AY Gucci Bag Post by itasakpa: 6:42pm On Sep 01, 2017
Huspuppy knows that the bag is original thats why he gave that response. Ay na baba. If they ask you to come to this world in the form of ay or hushpuppy who would you choose

Crime dose not pay. Hushpuppy no get career.

There is dignity in labour.

Hushpuppy has no future.
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by itasakpa: 12:54pm On Jul 12, 2017
Pls house, is employment for taxi driver job in dubai ok?
Investment / Re: Vida Lista Passive Income Investment!!! by itasakpa: 12:08pm On Jun 24, 2017
08099446958
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by itasakpa: 11:24pm On Jun 13, 2017
@lovere, any update on your road test?
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by itasakpa: 9:32pm On May 31, 2017
Hi house. An agent who is doing work permit said that the processing is slow right now due to ramaDan. That the company works half day. Pls house is this statement true?
Investment / Re: Highly Promising - Perfect Money Community by itasakpa: 7:49pm On May 28, 2017
Ask for a refund
Travel / Re: If You Are Given 50million To Leave Nigeria And Never Come Back Again Would Take by itasakpa: 8:33am On May 28, 2017
It is when you go outside of this country that you will know how backward Nigeria is. Ordinary prepaid meter can not go round. Not to talk of constant electricity. I laugh at this country. This is not a country. This is he'll on earth

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Autos / Re: Cash And Drive Away: Clean First Body Nigeria Use Cars! by itasakpa: 1:59am On May 24, 2017
The guy is not serious. He said after paying the money for the car. U will pay dealer fee of 150k

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Autos / Re: Cash And Drive Away: Clean First Body Nigeria Use Cars! by itasakpa: 11:35pm On May 21, 2017
How come no one has been able to visit this guys stand? If I get money. I will go asap before visiting other stand.at least with 300k I will be a car owner.

@Sgt ponzihater, u don't scatter all the ponzihater schemes finish?

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Autos / Re: 2004 Toyota Sienna $480 by itasakpa: 12:09am On May 20, 2017
How can I make payment

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Investment / Re: Highly Promising - Perfect Money Community by itasakpa: 10:52pm On May 19, 2017
How about the guy they haven't paid since April 12?
Business To Business / Re: Apply For Soft Loans And Get Paid Within Two Working Days by itasakpa: 9:40pm On May 17, 2017
itasakpa@gmail.com
Investment / Re: Highly Promising - Perfect Money Community by itasakpa: 11:12am On May 16, 2017
U can sign up without referral
Travel / Re: QATAR And UAE GENERAL VISA ENQUIRIES PART 2 by itasakpa: 10:04am On May 16, 2017
There is more hope to get Job in dubai than Nigeria.

In Nigeria at the moment no company is recruiting. The guys in the video are even lucky to get opportunity for interview. Come and hustle for work in Nigeria, you go know how far

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Investment / Re: Highly Promising - Perfect Money Community by itasakpa: 9:44am On May 16, 2017
It's not a must to have referral. Na bonus u dey find. Ole

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