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Travel / Re: Man Allegedly Denied Visa For Owing Loan App N5K by ITSAZA: 11:32am On Jun 17
Bigger Lie.... Me and my guy was owing Quick Cash loan 10k each and it as accumulated to whatever amount lol during our course of study 2019.... We are in UK Gloucester now
Phones / Re: The Lady Behind The MTN Voice (Photo, Video) by ITSAZA: 6:23pm On Jun 19, 2023
Kentuforchrist:
She’s not the one oga
Make una dea calm down

Yes she isn't the one 💯 sure.
Romance / Re: Is This The Reason Why Area Boys Were Running After Me Yesterday (pics) by ITSAZA: 3:24pm On May 15, 2023
I pray you make it globally in your choosing carear Dbull.

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Politics / Re: Why Abdulahi Yaman Is Kwara’s Best Choice By Abdulfaitai Raheem by ITSAZA: 5:40pm On Mar 08, 2023
Borra:

Why? What has he done to get another 4 years? Abigeeee

He has done a lot, check the infrastructure amenities.
Romance / Re: $ by ITSAZA: 7:35pm On Feb 25, 2023
Bunch of useless liars.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Photos Of Kim Jong-un & His Daughter, Kim Chu-ae In Rare Appearance by ITSAZA: 9:56am On Nov 19, 2022
SenatePresdo:
Break this one heart and kpeme grin



I no they there ooo

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Romance / Re: White Girl With Big Breast Sings Wizkid New Long Like A Pro by ITSAZA: 8:12am On Oct 30, 2022
Mrscarter:


I'm white n i love wizkid too. I like in my bed, baby come closer, make me dance, fever, love my baby n lotsa other songs. I like davido n kizz daniels one ticket too.


You make a good choice, everybody likes Wizkid.

[quote author=Mrscarter post=117979554]

I'm white n i love wizkid too. I like in my bed, baby come closer, make me dance, fever, love my baby n lotsa other songs. I like davido n kizz daniels one ticket too.
[quote author=Mrscarter post=117979554]

I'm white n i love wizkid too. I like in my bed, baby come closer, make me dance, fever, love my baby n lotsa other songs. I like davido n kizz daniels one ticket too.


You make a good choice, everybody likes Wizkid.

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Family / Re: What Advice Can You Offer This Young Woman? by ITSAZA: 8:42am On Oct 14, 2022
God bless you for me, I have seen the movie as well Ibrahim Chatta and one light skin girl like this lol...
Travel / Re: Share Your POE ( Point Of Entry ) Experience Here by ITSAZA: 2:57pm On Oct 04, 2022
Osense10:
Hi all! I would beg that we share our Point of Entry experience here,UK ...Just share them here to help others...I will be traveling soon too to the UK so I wouldn't like to mess up. Hoping this thread will be helpful to others...but if it wouldn't, then there is no need to leave it open, I'll simply close it. But i think it will��traveling as a dependent


Patiently waiting to hear POE stories...
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by ITSAZA: 7:54am On Jun 19, 2022
ITSAZA:

You have to be careful with your transaction!
First to comment here, my first time though.
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by ITSAZA: 7:53am On Jun 19, 2022
[quote author=ZariatoCanada post=113943152][/quote]
You have to be careful with your transaction!
Romance / Re: Help - I'm About To Start Dating Two Sisters (accidentally) At The Same Time. by ITSAZA: 7:20am On May 24, 2022
Don't go for option C as you wanted because of the Law of Karma which say what goes around comes around, you do not know what might becomes of your future daughters; But if you love her YS go for it in normal marital way!
Family / Re: Clean Used Honda Accord 2000. 950k Call Engr Clem 08175378982 by ITSAZA: 2:39pm On May 17, 2022
Abeg where is the clean Honda Accord

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Politics / Re: Saraki Becomes The First Presidential Aspirant To Publish A Policy Document by ITSAZA: 11:29pm On May 16, 2022
A very smart move from SARAKI💯
Romance / Re: Why Are Canadian Men So Cute And Swag by ITSAZA: 8:07am On May 06, 2022
State your view on why Canadian are underrated??
Romance / Re: Why Am I Seeing My First Teenage Boyfriend In My Dream? by ITSAZA: 5:17am On Apr 28, 2022
Lamanii22:
Egbami ke… I don’t know why I have been seeing my first boyfriend from my teenage years in my dream… it’s not as if we had anything together, it wasn’t even a serious relationship sef as he was in a private uni… we only get to see during their holidays…. He started appearing in my dreams, smiling happily like when we first met, his eyes, his voice, innocence…. Has happened like 5 nights in a row and I am always feeling funny whenever I wake up… I don’t know what this is ooo….

It happens and that was because he still loves you and mainly you had been on his thoughts recently!

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Phones / Re: Please Help Sim Card Hacked by ITSAZA: 7:24am On Feb 23, 2022
Riplogic:


What is more crazy is, the guy did not even send a single otp or something he just did it.

The hacker cloned your sim card you need to report to your network center and police in case of any unwanted future occurrence.

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Family / Re: Pouring Out My Mind Before I Go Insane by ITSAZA: 8:57am On Feb 02, 2022
Hightower2022:
I got married last year and I found out just a week after our wedding that thru out the time my fiancée and I were dating she was constantly cheating on me with a married man and all of this continued until few months before our wedding.

We started dating since when we were in Uni but she was a junior colleague in school so I left her in school in 2016 and according to her, she and this man started seeing each other in 2017 till few months to our introduction.

I first found out about the man in 2018 when I strtd working in Lagos and at that time she was done with school preparing for NYSC so she was also in Lagos. I accidentally came across her chat with the guy on her phone during one of her visits to my place in Lagos.
I was very upset with her she apologized and claimed there was nothing btw both of them that it was just a flirtous chat and she was sorry tho deep inside of me I was not convinced but I honestly forgave her and we continued like nothing happened.
She was lucky to do her NYSC in Lagos so I felt since we were back in the same environment, we were fine not knowing I was wrong.
2019 election time, she was going for INEC adhoc staff work so she branched at my house before leaving and a call came in on her fone and it was this same man again. I was very mad with her that she was still keeping contact with the man and she said it wasn’t a frequent contacting that he only calls once in awhile to check up on her. I foolishly believed her again and I let it slide with the promise that there was never going to be any form of contact between them again not knowing she became more careful with their dealings.

Feb 2020 during one of our late night calls I perceived she wasn’t in her house even tho she wanted to hurriedly end the call with the claim that she was feeling sleepy but I told her to hang-on on the call then told her to send picture of where she was and that was where I found out she was in an hotel that night. I honestly wanted to run mad.
First thing the following morning she was in my house all teary, begging and she was remorseful. Foolish me again thought she was truly remorseful. I honestly wanted to call it quit at that time but I didn’t just know what was wrong with me. I forgave her sat her down and we had heart to heart talk and I even told her about the risk involved cos if anything had happened to her whilst she was lodged in the hotel with this man, he would ve quietly left and would ve gone back to his abode and trust me I would ve been the first person any of her family members would ve called or thought she was with. Foolish me again thought it was truly going to end there.
A week after our wedding I received a pop up notification from Linkedin that someone checked my profile and it was this man. I was very upset cos the man’s name alone makes me sick and it reminds me of all this past that I had buried.

I became furious about that and I really wanted to know what could ve given this man the audacity so I started digging my wife’s phone (trust me she was very smart with it cos she deleted all of their chats but I was later able to get some of these infos from blocked msgs to backup folders and many more) and I saw what my eyes wasn’t meant to see.
I saw that she and this guy had always been in constant communications with each other shared pictures with each other inclusive of explicit pictures. There was neva a time they stopped communicating even when she was in my house during the lockdown in 2020 and this was just few weeks after the hotel saga. I also found out that just a month after the hotel saga (March 2020) she and this man still lodged again even tho she had lied at first that the one I had initially found out was the only time it eva happened.

Since I discovered all of this, I ve been completely mad with myself for bringing myself into this mess, I ve been having serious sleepless night, less productive at work. I ve completely been a shadow of myself. The sad part about all of this is I can’t discuss this with anybody so that alone is making me run mad.
One of the reasons I’m angry is I can’t fathom the reason she keeps going back to this man cos I honestly know it wasn’t for money cos she is financially stable likewise myself and if it’s about looks this stupid man doesn’t come close to me. The question I keep asking her is WHY and which she has not been able to provide an answer to this question and I ve honestly been loyal and very open to her which she is very much aware of that.

I’m sure many people would say I should call it quit but it is quite difficult for me cos she is pregnant tho with claim that I am responsible for it which I still ve my doubts. I was brought up in a proper family settings and I enjoyed love from both my mother and father before his demise. I ve seen the dangers of raising a child by separated parents. The child bears most of the brunt and which I don’t want it to happen if truly the child is mine.
A part of me also want to call it quit cos of the utter disrespect, disloyalty, and the question of won’t this happen again and would I be able to cope with this.

She on the other hand has been teary, showing remorse for her actions but I don’t even know if she is sincere or not and if I forgive her again she truly won’t go back to this kind of act.

I contacted the stupid man and the idiot wanted to be wyning me telling me my wife was just a very good friend of his and nothing more, she respects me a lot, she loves me so much blablabla. I told him baba abeg stop capping nonsense and stop the foolery.
This fool is a professional con man married to a beautiful Medical Doctor with two kids that I know of- tho my wife claims he told her he doesn’t ve children (the weyrey even dey deny in children). I just pity his wife cos this community dick she is married to would one day bring home something that would kill them (STIs amongst other) .

I had neva seen myself writing out my family issues on SM but Omo this one too heavy for my Heart and since I can't discuss it with anybody make I just pour am out here cos it is just too heavy

Mod pls do not move to FP. it is just for ranting sake

Na kayamanta dey work for your body you no fit divorce her... wait till the man kill you and enjoy your wife time to time. Nonsense

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Family / Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by ITSAZA: 8:41am On Feb 02, 2022
ZALA64:
Good evening dear Nairalanders, I have a story to share with you and I will appreciate your candid advice

I have a junior sister of about 21 years of age, finished secondary school in 2019, tried gaining admission but didn't get eventually, also did A level but at the end, there was nothing to show for, this isn't cause she is a dullard but something Sha must end up something, she applied for another A level at Unilag, and was pushing through not until the news of her pregnancy came in, she was two months gone when I got to know, I really tried to persuade her to abort because I was concerned about her Education and our parent feeling but she insisted and I allowed her take her decision, we informed my dad and mum then the big issue starts, right now my dad does not want to have anything to do with her, she is currently living at my dad's junior brother house

The most annoying part to my dad was that she got pregnant to a Christian which my dad would not approve of, even when they tried to talk to him multiple, right now, he does not care if she exist or not, all he knows is she can't live under his roof anymore

I am the elder sister and my consign goes beyond the religion issue, the boys mother is some sort of hell, didn't like my sister and she looks really fetish, the whole family looked cursed to me, the guy is the only one that managed to finish ND and he is currently learning Mechanic after his ND Program, I have tried to persuade my sister to not have the intention of getting married to the guy now, because first she's young, second how would she feed and third that family is a no no, the red flags are just too glaring, Her strong head is just too much which is why I'm putting it out, if she's reading comments from another person maybe she'd pick something, I have invited her as a guest to Nairaland and she would be seeing all your advices. Kindly help us.

Thank you.
ZALA64:
Good evening dear Nairalanders, I have a story to share with you and I will appreciate your candid advice

I have a junior sister of about 21 years of age, finished secondary school in 2019, tried gaining admission but didn't get eventually, also did A level but at the end, there was nothing to show for, this isn't cause she is a dullard but something Sha must end up something, she applied for another A level at Unilag, and was pushing through not until the news of her pregnancy came in, she was two months gone when I got to know, I really tried to persuade her to abort because I was concerned about her Education and our parent feeling but she insisted and I allowed her take her decision, we informed my dad and mum then the big issue starts, right now my dad does not want to have anything to do with her, she is currently living at my dad's junior brother house

The most annoying part to my dad was that she got pregnant to a Christian which my dad would not approve of, even when they tried to talk to him multiple, right now, he does not care if she exist or not, all he knows is she can't live under his roof anymore

I am the elder sister and my consign goes beyond the religion issue, the boys mother is some sort of hell, didn't like my sister and she looks really fetish, the whole family looked cursed to me, the guy is the only one that managed to finish ND and he is currently learning Mechanic after his ND Program, I have tried to persuade my sister to not have the intention of getting married to the guy now, because first she's young, second how would she feed and third that family is a no no, the red flags are just too glaring, Her strong head is just too much which is why I'm putting it out, if she's reading comments from another person maybe she'd pick something, I have invited her as a guest to Nairaland and she would be seeing all your advices. Kindly help us.

Thank you.
ZALA64:
Good evening dear Nairalanders, I have a story to share with you and I will appreciate your candid advice

I have a junior sister of about 21 years of age, finished secondary school in 2019, tried gaining admission but didn't get eventually, also did A level but at the end, there was nothing to show for, this isn't cause she is a dullard but something Sha must end up something, she applied for another A level at Unilag, and was pushing through not until the news of her pregnancy came in, she was two months gone when I got to know, I really tried to persuade her to abort because I was concerned about her Education and our parent feeling but she insisted and I allowed her take her decision, we informed my dad and mum then the big issue starts, right now my dad does not want to have anything to do with her, she is currently living at my dad's junior brother house

The most annoying part to my dad was that she got pregnant to a Christian which my dad would not approve of, even when they tried to talk to him multiple, right now, he does not care if she exist or not, all he knows is she can't live under his roof anymore

I am the elder sister and my consign goes beyond the religion issue, the boys mother is some sort of hell, didn't like my sister and she looks really fetish, the whole family looked cursed to me, the guy is the only one that managed to finish ND and he is currently learning Mechanic after his ND Program, I have tried to persuade my sister to not have the intention of getting married to the guy now, because first she's young, second how would she feed and third that family is a no no, the red flags are just too glaring, Her strong head is just too much which is why I'm putting it out, if she's reading comments from another person maybe she'd pick something, I have invited her as a guest to Nairaland and she would be seeing all your advices. Kindly help us.

Thank you.

This is digusting and shameful.

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