Romance / Re: My Wife's Younger Sister Peeps At Us During Intimacy by itsmepareto: 10:26am On Apr 06, 2021 |
Don't mind the guy, her mother inlaw self is not save Olunmercy56 p weost=100519228: Oloshi, I hope you don't sleep with her on day Kuku do video for us to see for Free. I reject your type of man as a husband |
Family / Re: How Do I Stop My Relatives From Disturbing Me? by itsmepareto: 10:42am On Apr 04, 2021 |
I don't know how easy it is for you, I would have advice you relocate your mum to stay with you. They are using her as an avenue of extorting you. If you don't act fast they will eventually charm you or do you evil. You need God protection. Pray always and back itt with fasting with a strong prayer point. My advice lecturer50: Please house I need an advice.
Ever since I got a federal government job,
my relatives have been disturbing me for money.
There must always be an issue that involves money which they want me to solve.
Recently, my mom become sick.
They are threatening me that I would be held responsible if my mom dies,if I don't make sure she is cured.
But I have taken her to hospitals, and she is trying to recover.
I do this whenever I visit home since I am working in a state far from home.
Her health challenge is due to old age.
But today my uncle called me that I should resign, get back to the village and personally take care of my mom,
failure of which,if she dies, the whole family would hold me responsible for choosing job over my mom.
Can you imagine resigning your federal job to get to the village and start staying?
The calls, the demands, the attacks are getting too much for me.
Please should I just switch off my phone so that no one can contact me?
I just need advice?
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Romance / Re: Could She Be Pregnant? by itsmepareto: 10:35am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Get your ATM ready for pregnancy upkeep. Premiumwriter: We had sex about 2 days to her period. I gave her postinor 2 the next day.
She's supposed to have her period today but nothing showed up.
Man don weak |
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Like Handsome Guys? by itsmepareto: 9:07am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Are you sure AsherAmari: Who no like better thing? Though I don't fancy handsome guys.
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Education / Re: This Is The Easiest Way To Move To Canada by itsmepareto: 11:59am On Jan 08, 2021 |
You sound like its easy to secure a job in canada from Nigeria. The op is just trying to introduce another easier option probably based on is capability. No hard feelings Juliearth:
While what you have here must be true, you dont have to discredit other people's attempts at relocating in order to make yours stand out. With a good CRS, elite or not, you are Canada-bound.
Are you also aware that once you can secure a job in Canada from Nigeria, all things being equal plus a work permit (which you can process in less than a month), you are already in Canada? |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by itsmepareto: 2:10pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
[color=#006600][/color] Pkingman: Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue. I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.
I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another. The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.
It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type. When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way. She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.
Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.
After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her. Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date. She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings. She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me. On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them. Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private. The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.
Well, with what you have written and if all you have said is true, I can assure you that your wife is having a sweet relationship either with her ex or someone she's in love with. Now. The solution to your case is to just act as if you don't care as well. The more you push her to love you the more she hate you. Just ignore her and do your responsibilities. She will be surprise in her mind but base on her atttitude she might not shoe it to you. Women hate it when they are ignore and abandon. Get another lady that you can share your feelinga with, enjoy sex outside ur marriage but use condom With time you won't even feel her bad behaviour. Move on inside you, don't be weigh down. Be in the marriage for marriage sake and don't put too much stress on urself regarding her behavior, Instead just be strong and start a good relationship with a reasonable lady. ( My opinion ) No insult please. By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off? Why does she not want me to show her off?
In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave. I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change. What could be wrong with her? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: I Need Male Friends by itsmepareto: 12:40pm On Apr 01, 2019 |
Inbox me u digit do we can chat |
Car Talk / Re: Need A Good Mechanic Around Ikorodu , Agric by itsmepareto: 11:28pm On Jan 17, 2018 |
Call me 08023453074,or whatsapp me on same number. Educated mechanic |
Politics / Re: South African Wives Of Nigerians Protest In Johannesburg by itsmepareto: 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2013 |
u are very funny. we can conclude but it seems u are right. lol Desola:
Abegi!
The husbands are fighting for papers while the mugus are fighting for big d1cks. That is the koko of the matter. |
Travel / Re: Is It Free Visa To Dubai ? by itsmepareto: 10:23pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
I need a contact of someone who live in dubai |