EastGold:


Only God knows what you guys used to reason. But I suspect it's your anus. Nnamdi Azikiwe Airport Abuja did not dethrone MMA, na Anambra Airport go come dethrone am.


Eeeewu!

it will surprise u to note that some trolls have hijacked the Yoruba vs Igbos constant fight... but do I blame them?

When they start giving PR like this, know that the situation is not good at all... same pattern we say with Kyari... in a few days time, there will be another news.

Haba.... El Rufai didn't inaudate us with his medical situation when he had the virus na.... other governors that had didn't do same.

Confusedgirl869:
Hello everyone. This account is created for this .

This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.

We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.

I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.

So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.

Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.

Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.

I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.

I need your opinions please.

I am going to advice you as a sister. Move on if you are not comfortable with the arrangement. Stick to what you want. IF he values you, if how you describe yourself here is what you really are, then it is his loss.

EdegbeLine:

Oga I asked a simply question and you are here writing epistles. Who can win Oshiomhole in the whole of Edo north?
And for The Godfather thing, you don’t know a thing, nobody is planning to be anybody’s Godfather.[b] I am a loyal APC edo state member [/b]and I still authoritatively. And, I have been with Oshiomhole since 2006

YOU DO NOT need to remind me. Your tone shows your are APC.

EdegbeLine:

People like who please?

Listen, I and my late mother were in support of Oshiomole, we all waited and followed his court rulings. I am a very unbiase person when it comes to issues like this but your tone shows you want Oshiomole to win this battle...

Well, the only place where such godfatherism can take strong root is in Lagos... NOWHERE ELSE in the south, especially south south and south east.

Obaseki is a Benin man and I want to believe you are too...

EdegbeLine:

Let me ask you a simple question...let’s assume in 2023 Oshiomhole decide to contest the senate seat in Edo north even in a muchroom political party, who can defeat him?

There are people who can defeat him, just as he defeated Lucky's successor.

isthatso:



will you give them land?

see this brainwashed mofo...

IGBOSON1:
There must be something about Anambra! Most of the billion dollar businesses involved in the oil and gas servicing industry are owned by their sons and daughters: Brittania-U, SEPLAT, Oilserv, KAZTEC, NESTOIL (ObiJackson Grp), etc! Really impressive!

we are just crazy in a way. Few days ago... I was on call with my bro called Somto. Dude was asking me if I have any idea that he can invest in his thick igbo accent lol.

solex2346:

Simple grammer you can not spoke! there is something wrong with your spoken English

ordinary you is not have... there is something wrong with your skull

PassingShot:

Trust me, APC won't do that. APC will zone to the South and field a strong northerner as the running mate. El Rufai, Nuhu Ribadu and many other strong candidates as running mate to Tinubu, Osinbajo or anyone strong enough will defeat PDP even with a core northern presidential candidate. PDP will be exposed for their desperation and their readiness to engage in what is generally known/accepted as unfair tactic just to win back power.

And should PDP succeed with a northern candidate, SE will have forever kissed any chance of producing a Nigerian president good bye because such behavior will always be referenced in future contest. The SE will forever be tagged as the REAL SLAVE who sold South's turn to the North just to be VP.

You are just blabbing. What you are saying is what u people did in 2015 and shut da fork up.

PassingShot:

But the North has indeed proved on many occasions not to be as greedy as we in the south portray them.

The north voted overwhelmingly for MKO despite having Bashir Tofa as a presidential candidate in NRC just to prove that they knew voting MKO was the fair thing to do.

The north voted OBJ and GEJ against northern candidates just because they knew that was the fair thing to do.

From history, while we in the south are always quick to shout "born to rule mentality of the north" we are actually showing that we do not mind cutting our nose to spite our face by wanting PDP to go north just to wrestle power back from APC even though we know that isn't the fair thing to do.

What happens to PDP giving their ticket to SE and APC to SW while they both pick their running mates from any zone in the north to make the contest interesting and fair? After all, SE is traditionally for PDP while SW is slightly for APC.

Hypocrite. Why didn't South West give GEJ a chance to finish? Why did South cut the nose of the South to spite her face in 2015?

seunmsg:
Very interesting speculations. Any major party that refuse to zone its ticket to the south is heading towards political doom. I want to believe that reasonable people are still in PDP and common sense will prevail at the end of the day.

Why are u jittery?

netpro:


Should PDP head north east and APC head south east, Ndigbo will definitely desert PDP.

An alliance of SW, SE, SS, MB and Buhari Supporters up north will not only defeat PDP but will get the party dismantled after the election.

igbos will not vote if the Igbo candidate is not whom they want. Go out Rochas there and see if they will vote. I think Soludo will do the magic but I doubt APC will even consider such. Tinubu hates igbos. Pure and simple.

dheilaw1:
Ipob fabricated news

even with people wearing Hausa clothes in the picture?

See them complaining and when next election comes, they will vote a devil

idesylvester:
Bros if you live in Lagos, and you go through these:
1. Traffic
2. Potholes
3. LASTMA
4. Police
5. SARS
6. Agbero
7. Flooding
8. Poor power supply
9. Cars carbon monoxide
10. Generator noise
11. ETC
Yet u v a troublesome girl and u r asking what to do...

Na God I take beg u just remain single b4 ur RIP go enter FP and someone go dey fight to be FTC

selfishness

themaestro08:
I will simply walk away from such toxic relationship.

I stay away from anything/anyone that threatens my peace of mind. Doing so has done a lot of good to me.

Nothing beats that.

bless you.

greatnaija01:


Bros stop taking nonsense, simply go on with your life, if she is NOT behaving like the kind of woman you want to marry.
Its well.

I believe you should NEVER lower your standards in the name of LOVE. else LIFE WILL SHOW YOU PEPPER.

simply take the peaceful approach and end things then move on and be a better person, you deserve the best.


ALSO

many of you jump into dating without any purpose for marriage.... and even if you claim you have MARRIAGE at heart, did you pray about it? how many books have you read on relationship?



STOP MAKING LIFE TIME CHOICES like short-term people.

what did you SEE before making the choice for her in the first place? if it was just BODY then you have missed road o.


so read books, talk to people who have been successful in marriage and gain wisdom.


IF YOU CAN'T DO THESE then you are looking for a REAL WIFE, you just want a well behaved runs girl

Sure bro. The issue is these girls will abuse you in a way that makes you wonder if you are so useless. Typically, I am not really the kind of person that takes nonsense from anybody, especially if I had tolerated the person enough,

But they expect you be a "man" and not say a thing while it continues at varying degrees. Can you imagine being slapped and still expected to smile?

I was just asking to know whether it is wrong if a man decided to be a man and put them where they belong.

MsFaith:
Thank you for your attention.
I want to develop a short fence of say, 3 lines of block around a plot of bare land.
I have only 150,000NGN for the project which is my last savings and I am novice in these building works.
I have also consulted an agent who gave me an estimated bill of 300,000NGN. The man wan kill me, he no understand say that's my last card.

Building experts,
kindly advise me on what to do, as I would rather use this money to start something on that land already than allow it stay in the bank.

Do as your power reach and continue from where you stop later one.

In case where you did right as a responsible human and treat a girl right but it turned out she chose to ridicule your effort, subtly insulting you as though you do not know your worth or what is good for you, what will you do?

Keep silent and watch her continue doing same, even when you called for peace or retaliate?

How long can you tolerate it?

senatordave1:

Most of you pdp fans speak blindly and without facts.lagos turnout has never exceeded 2 million.pdp is almost dead in lagos with apc having 2 million members.remember gej was a southerner and lagos is in the south therefore he was never going to lose heavily here.atiku is a northerner and may lose heavily.

Oga shut up. Make your points without ethnic divide. WTF is GEJ is a southerner and atiku is a northerner.. So Buhari is what?

E go clear for una eyes. Let's f ucking meet at the polls, shall we?

Shugavee:
buy her stuffs n give her all ur attention, start the relationship the way she wants it as first,, then u chip in the freedom issue when her mind don enter well.

bad advice... This one Na see finish advice.

When a lady talks like that, the best option is to let her be. Doing any other thing means u are forcing someone to love you.

Rather spend money on yourself and look well kept.

Daniyke88:


God bless your hustle

amen.

Daniyke88:


It's scary. APC might win again

I am really working hard to secure funds just to make sure I am safe in case they win. Honestly speaking, it will be worse than we saw in first term.

It is raining right now but I am out to discuss with potential business client and see if they can help us with part payment to supply them.

Not funny.

kunleweb:



Remember to look out for You in the news from next year, out


I am Pained. Permanently ignore me

kunleweb:



Pure water as against Table water.

By the way, i have a machine fabrication business and will be producing farm equipment too 2019

You can't near my sole,trust me,you'll die trying.


Why you're forming high and mighty on the local scene, i'm resuming commodity exportation. Oode.


5 Million Yams yearly alone cancels those rubbish you typed, work the maths out.


Now get lost.

who dash you? I say who dash you? You are just blabbing...

Remember you called me jobless, remember?

akiOYIBO:

no mind them...

I pity the girls that will take this up... Na their toto go hear am.

kunleweb:




Now you know your elder, you met a superior and it humbled you as expected with the silly rant. Next time, be humble,Good day.

which elder... If you want us continue, I will give if to you clearly.

last thing I want to do is get into any of those businesses you mentioned... I dive into adventurous niches and business terrains that people like you don't know about and cash out before lazy brains like yours think of getting into.

I am like the innovator of this pure water business you listed, which I am very sure that the dudes that started it have long left it for you to scramble for the crumbs and fight in a new territory.

I don't do businesses that everybody is doing...

In a few years time, you will walk into one of my business franchise with your family and buy my product because you can't contain the risk of dealing with traditional methods that has been left unattended to for centuries.


I have superior reasoning to yours as a contrarian investor.

kunleweb:


As said by one individual, it's an overestimation of self-worth that leads to one's demise, or an under-estimation of other people.

I've been creating jobs since before you knew the web. 2018/2019-2020 project, cultivating 5 Million yams for exportation, 300 acres for sweet potato, 1 Million fishes for my sea food business, 800 acres of plantain for plantain flour and chips production. Currently employ 10 people, exployed over 50 in the past 2 years. You are a big eediot. I have a table water business to also setup amongst the 20 businesses i have already started.


Take your proud speech and shove it up your tiny butthole you inflated buffon

bros, you were the one calling me jobless, so the first sentence fits your idiocy.

You just dey blab...go sleep.

kunleweb:


Never mention me in your life. I don't leave on Nairaland and don't know what and what transpires on the forum from time to time, go get a job so you dont know what's on the forum every now and then. Find useful for your OWN miserable existence. Mtchew

I don't need a job... I create them for people like you to get busy while I catch fun. Right now I even have men old enough to be your father begging me to bring a product for them to distribute.

Only moruns don't know why many women are single than ever before, to which men have contributed hugely to the stats.

Stop asking silly questions.