femixville:


you may be right.. but, you should study Nigeria as a nation well, before rounding up your views..
Nigeria is corrupt, terrorism everywhere, for correction, only a state and a lil portion of the state called Boron almost big in size as Ghana

every nation is having their own problem, especially a nation that has potential must face the most difficult challenges
people don't just create problem , it is created for benefits not in a small economy, but a big one like US, UK, they have threats, chaos, political issues, cos they're the force of the world. Nigeria is moving towards that realm even so fast and for her to gain stability, modern problems must face them, and how strong she will be matters nd I believe she's strong enough.

Ghana cn only boast of their country, you have your problems too, but not compared to the real giant., she stands tall, swallows all challenges, embraced all problems, but yet succeeding maybe crawling.. but, the crawling Nigeria is far better than the best Ghana.

Nigeria can only compete with South Africa, not Ghana, yet south Africa still envy this nation Nigeria to the extent of making Nigeria her business hub and centre of wealth making..

Ghana will always be a brother, I mean the junior one, if your history hasn't been altered, go back and read Nigerias impact in your economy how Nigeria helped strengthen you. Your political elites knows that, that's why they dare not speak against a mother nation..

we lack good things compared to Ghana that is a combination of two states in Nigeria in size per square kilometer, we are big, bigger, and will be better.. if your leaders can't make a small Ghana better, then the nation is a failing state..

I respect every nation, they have their problems, but comparing nations even within Africa then West Africa, you are really messing up around the African giant..
the giant is sleeping, but I promise when she will wake up, she will be enthroned willfully without any grumbling or fighting for what belongs to her.

God bless Africa

I so love your comment. You are blessed

unicorn20:
They say that I am competitive that I don't want anyone to be greater than me.
The funny thing is that I teach them all I know and am always open to help them grow in what they do.

It is true, I have always told them. I am super super competitive. It is my nature. I am an hypomaniac. I am extremely obsessive. I can't hurt anyone cos I am extremely emotional.
I want what I want and I must get it or something similar. If it means doubling my hardwork or praying more or learning more or changing my lifestyle, i will gladly do it. I must get what I want or the life style I want. I just have to live my life trying to get what I want and if I get it that's fine and if I don't that's fine too, the most important thing is that I know what I want and I went for it with all my heart. No regrets later.. . Messi and Ronaldo train harder and learn more than every other soccer player and that is why they are the best two in last 10 years. It is not luck.
This is no dark desire but a man who has discovered himself. Courage!

As long as we are not doing the same thing you do not exist to me but if we are to run a race for here to there, I must come first. I don't care if I came last the first time I tried.
I will push you to up your game. I wish I am an athlete, a boxer or any individual sports. I would achieve more. I hope to go into business soon so that I can use this competitive mindset to build an empire and help change the world around me by giving.. I give a lot.. I can give you my last card as long as you need it more than me and you are real. I am a master at discerning unreal behavior.. Hypomaniacs are little bit paranoid. It helps them question everything before taking action..


As we continue training, later i will start coming first and no one will train or learn harder than me.. No one can outwork me.. That's my mindset and its not my fault I was born like that...

I just discovered that I am super super competitive by nature in 2019 and it has helped me achieve a lot since then. We never give up.
God factor, Pure hard work, focus learning, diligence, commitment, discipline and consistency everyday make you happy and if God allows it will make your dreams come..

People should stop hating me abeg.. Tap from me
I have lost most of my friends cos they couldn't live up to my standards and they go out saying shit.. I have no friends now. Only costumers abd co- workers who love me a lot cos I know how to treat them better than anyone.. Got an award for that recently..
Bleep ya all that say I am competitive, yes I am. Deal with it.. Nonsense!

I want to be like you ooo. How I wish I can be that focused and diligent. I get distracted really fast.
God help me work on myself

Angela62:
That I am a bimbo, and I hate it.

Men seem to have this idea that beautiful women tends to be dumb and care only about looks. Meanwhile, I am a professional lady that earns my own money, have my own place and sponsor my younger brother in the uni. I am a Christian and take religion seriously. it keeps me sane. I am intelligent, focus driven and true to myself.

Can we be friends? From the much you have said, it will nice having you as friends

Bbsharon:


Yes, that's the fastest route.

We passed through Atimbo then Akpabuyo, we got to another town before Akamkpa.

And it's no bro

The village is called Mfamosing I guess. There is a cement factory there too owned by Lafarge

Riele:
Just maybe I should give modelling a chance .

Who knows? ,Lalasticlala might share my story this time next year .

Post your pix let's vet you already. If you pass the first and second hearing then you are good to go

Bizibi:
when I see comments like this I just laugh it off.you think politics in Nigeria is apc and pdp.....abeg!! After what I saw and heard last week,I decided not to stress myself over politicians.

What did you hear.. Abeg gist us

LOWLIFER:
I wish to die and leave this miserable world but i don't want a very painful death. Those that took Sniper always go through extreme and violent situation , pissing and defecating everywhere before finally giving up.


*That's my thought for weeks now

Better calm down ooo. Good things are coming

babyfaceafrica:
men are comfortable with not knowing the number of people you have slept with,the problem with OP is that he knows the number and they are people he knows...this is an issue!!..It is not easy to forget

Like the Philosophers would say.. Ignorance is bliss.

Fountainofyouth:
That lady is shameless and has esteem issues for her to have something to do with you and your former clique...

You lack high standard, moral decency, and also esteem issues for you to go for someone who has been passed around by your friends, you lack class,

Your faults,
Were you blind or deaf that you didn't know all these revelations before starting the relationship with her and falling in love?
How come it is now that you want to dump her you remember that she was once a free sample?
You are now having second thoughts but you don't want your conscience to judge you that's why you came here to rant so you won't feel and be perceived as a terrible person for wasting her time all this while abi?
And then you remembered a tale that was long forgotten cos you are tired and bored of her and need a stupid ass reason to break up with her right?

Clap for yourself mister man, we will tell you what you want to hear, break up with her and let her be, but know this, I assure you that the next woman you meet will have evil, deadly baggages as high as Mount Everest that you will never know till you are both married, and I pray by that time, it will too late for you, I so pray it will really be too late, nonsense.

Haba take am easy nahh. Looks like you are pained already. You have made so many assumptions and are cursing the OP already. That is not fair nahhh

masterpix:
pressure can only be used in fluid u can do better sir love ur

Haba, air is a fluid nahhhh. In fact a compressible fluid and by far one of the most researched and known fluids

mrjojo:

What an Irony!! I'm sure u are joking!!.

Listen Mr, I will be succinct and blunt

Firstly, you are not as "smart" as you think you are. Your "wife" was your friend before the sex and the whole complications, so you know her, her situation about her been desperate for marriage. You took advantage of this and for someone who claims to be "smart" you couldn't use protection nor get a plan B after the act. I pretty sure the s.ex wasn't even a one-time event, but u didn't stop until she got pregnant. All of a sudden you don't like her and she is not your type. What exactly were you expecting having unprotected se.x? an Iphone?

They say to marry your friend, and you actually are. Except she never was one, as the deceitful person you always are, it was the se.x you were interested in all along. Because I can't explain how you will leave her all by herself during pregnancy, the emotional trauma you made her pass through.

In fact you wickedness will make the devil himself shiver, How do you leave a heavily pregnant lady all herself with no one even you both are in the same state? yet she didn't report you to anyone nor did she raise a fuzz, Most men don't do a quarter of this before a family meeting is summoned,
She didn't even forcefull pack her stuffs and relocate your bachelor's pad, don't forget she has the right to, after all she is your wife now. But all I see is a peaceful, calm lady that does everything to please you. Infact you don't deserve the both of them.


if you have an atom of smartness in you, then you will go on your knees and apologize to your innocent wife for all the stress and trouble you've caused her and move her and your child into your apartment with immediate effect. And also thank your ex-gf for not making things harder than they are, by her making sure you make good with your family. Stay with your wife for atleast a year before you conclude she is unlovable and divorcing, at least she was once your friend.



And I guess you said you are "smart" because you play chess.

This is about the best advice I have read here. Dear op, you already have the answer to your question. Just give your marriage a try.

PoliteActivist:


But he is right: it is in the Sahara desert with crazy heat

He isn't right. Morocco is not in the desert. Talking from experience. It shares border with Spain. In fact, just a bridge that separate both countries.

BuddhaPalm:


My brother, no mind them. We are not all like that.

I've lived in Accra for years, and your people are some of the friendliest, nicest and most welcoming people.

Some of us Nigerians are very arrogant and conceited over nothing.

To mention a few...

We have shìt roads, shìt schools, shĺt everything.

Terrorists control large swaths of territory within our country.

We have neither pipe borne water nor electricity.

Herdsmen, armed robbers, militants and kidnappers operate with impunity.

Police routinely murder people extrajudicially. And the military are a law unto themselves.

Internationally, we have the most stellar reputation...of not trafficking drugs or scamming people /s

Yet, despite all these, some how we are still the giant of Africa.

Honestly, we should rather be ashamed of where we are as a country — despite our potentials and resources.

On behalf of the non-stupid members of my country, I sincerely apologise for all those unprovoked insults you received.

Please have pity too, a lot of people are just frustrated.

What is this one talking about? Inferiority complex kill you there. Is Ghana any better? Trust me Nigeria is better than you depicted above

Slawormir:

That is my real niggarrr. You are a real niggarrr
infact if you are in Benin city niggarrr
Meet me in richmoore bar in sapele road or zafike hotel after aduwawa on Sunday so we can drink some bottles

We real niggarrrs don't publicize any woman
Because we understand that women are like swimming pool

We don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
We Don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before we started swimming
We Don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after we are done swimming our own
And we don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with us as we are swimming
We Just swim our own sharpely and move on.

Guy u sabi..

11thGoldTREE:
I'll pick Mamagee3 over her anyday

I would choose Average Annie over her

Kudos to our gallant Soldiers