Chepy1:
Great idea, I'll do just that....Thanks once again dear

dat is y I love NL, I personally learnt a lot from yr advice tanx everybody

Onegai:


Take the car away from her temporarily, under the pretext of fixing it. Sit her down and gist with her: share some of your romantic escapades, bring up some of your friends and tell her about some you read on NL. Infact, let me give you 2 stories that come to mind:

A girl had a thread where she was dating some guy who used to live off her financially. It got so bad that the loser even asked her to give him the N50k her dad have her to buy a laptop for school, so he could further his (non-existent) music career. He kept trying to make her feel guilty (she added screengrabs of their convo).

Someone mentioned how a girl was dating a guy and he took her car and drove it around whilst she took public transport. He refused to return it after they broke up and he had an accident and destroyed the car. He sent her back the wreck and moved on to the next available mugu.

Work those stories casually into your conversation. Tell her that unfortunately there are digusting people who prey on men and women for financial comfort. Tell her that when any situation looks bad, people involved are not honest with themselves and see themselves as the exceptions, rather than the rules. Remind her gently that an honest man may need her support from time to time but he will never make her uncomfortable so he can sit down in comfort. That you are her brother and a man and you got her a car to make her comfy. Gently mention that an honest man will have no qualms introducing himself to her brother as her bobo.

Leave the conversation at that and listen to what she says. Keep the car for 3 months and cut down her allowance (tell her things are tight). That should get rid of anybody scrounging off her.

You may think it is a long method but i have come to appreciate the fact that we humans don't always like the truth giving to us bluntly and head-on. We will scream and fight to defend our point of view. But a careful and gentle nudge in the right direction will work wonders much better.

I learnt a lot from u bro keep it up

1960 bed

y did the car damage?with the amount use to buy the car I was thinking it will never get old or get damage even when hit by trailer.vanity opon vanity all na vanity.

Is the system football field?

epmmiks:
]The Nxt 5 ppl to Comment might have something to say about this but as for me #NoComment :-
U never marry ?]

in what way did he (fayose) assit the young man to better his life in future?

epmmiks:
]The Nxt 5 ppl to Comment might have something to say about this but as for me #NoComment :-
U never marry ?]

do we still have pple like dis in Nigeria? If u ask him now, he will say he is a graduate. I tireooo

stingy guys

Melinde:
bad Belle

will u ever be positive for once?

op thank uoo

that was how I wasted #500 on charger that uses finger (radio) battery, in ended up in my dust bin after 2 days.

paschal47:
please can someone teach me how to quote a post? thank you in advance.

At the end of every comment u will see quote, report. Just click on the quote type whatsoever u want to type and summit.

[quote author=groomed post=47756330] lol. What if your serious doesn't make them take you serious and you really like them?

You give people what they want bro, not what they need and that is how stay alive in any business venture.[/quot

Ok, but for how long will u continue like dis.

The person might be wining 6:0 , but my advice is ...forget about the phone, do a welcome bk and move on with yr life and business.

Get serious bro. U are not getting younger to be jumping from one bed to another.

Identify her talk to her and make her yr own for a marriage bound relationship. Belive U me, time have gone for all this play boi stuff ok.

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Integrityfarms:
Why not arrest tompolo is he greater than Nigeria Armed Forces?
Why trouble his associates

why is he runing? his so called associated knows where he is so is a matter of time stop complaining.

Legitbaba:


Mind u...the police also have force attached to their name.. does it give them same powers too ..it's a national security because he is an Ijaw (Gbaramatu) man, is same thing happens or le me say dare to happen...ull cry to high heavens in the front pages of the dailies


As for the Ijaws.....fight for what you believe no matter what, no level of intimidation or military invasion should scare u

u should have asked what he did before pouring out yr anger.Do u know how much tompolo and this enemies of Niger Delta youths that were just arrested now has embezzled? where on earth did tompolo get billions of naira from? U dat is killing yrsf on his behalf, how has tompolo and his thieves epp u in life.
We are always too quickly to criticise every action of the military.

I wonder for how long Tompolo yr brother will keep on runing away from Buhari's government. Let him come and explain how he acquired all those mansions. Niger Delta is dis and dat, but yr sons and daughters (whom u are defending) are the ones responsible for yr problems.

247Dior:
do u even know what ur saying? For being a friend to Tompolo? Breaking into his house through the roof without warrant? What will it cost them to get warrant if they care for Nigerian law? U need help

There are all criminals and must be treated as such.Do u know how much
Tompolo and this guys worth in naira? Have u ask yrsf where they get all those money from. He should stop runing and just come back and explain himselve.

Legitbaba:


Mind u...the police also have force attached to their name.. does it give them same powers too ..it's a national security because he is an Ijaw (Gbaramatu) man, is same thing happens or le me say dare to happen...ull cry to high heavens in the front pages of the dailies


As for the Ijaws.....fight for what you believe no matter what, no level of intimidation or military invasion should scare u

u should have asked what he did before pouring out yr anger.Do u know how much tompolo and this enemies of Niger Delta youths that were just arrested now has embezzled? where on earth did tompolo get billions of naira from? U dat is killing yrsf on his behalf, how has tompolo and his thieves epp u in life.
We are always too quickly to criticise every action of the military.

I wonder for how long Tompolo yr brother will keep on runing away from Buhari's government. Let him come and explain how he acquired all those mansions. Niger Delta is dis and dat, but yr sons and daughters (whom u are defending) are the ones responsible for yr problems.

Sexytemi:


open romance section, you will see create a new topic(click on it), then u post whatever you want to n submit..

tanx

u just posted nah
I mean front page

push it to the front page

Must she post it on social media?

[quote author=adioolayi post=47712548]
If he/she doesn't have idea ...then what's his/her purpose in

that is how u know those that went to school to study and those dat spent 5yrs in female hostels.

obontami:


Very correct

How on earth will u compare Dino to Jagaban, when did he start politics?
I must tell u, u won't see Dino in any political post in Nigeria again. He was chased out of PDP to APC now he will jump back to PDP and that will be the end.

Guseh:
Dino wan wire am sharp-sharp behind closed door.

Badt guy...true son of the soil.

what is NL turning to? What kind of stupid comment is dis, let someone tell that to yr mum so dat u will be happy.

Do u realise that woman is someone's mother, sister and aunty.

Dino is a disgrace to the senate and Nigerians in general. A wife beater , someone who can't stay with a woman, Someone without family dis is yr role model I pity for you and many other Nigerians who still support this useless man.

He will still jump into PDP from APC and that will be the end of yr his political life.

Toks2008:
A "fool for love" is a phrase used to describe a seemingly willing party who is ready to go all the way to please the other party to the very best of his or her ability.

We all know that love is a figment of imagination and no matter how you profess love to another person,that same person can turn around and rub it on your face and this is why many people are extremely careful in the way they express their affection towards whoever they claim to love just to avoid being called a fool for love.

But the bigger problem lies in trying to be too careful as many people have lost potentially wonderful affairs just because they preempt the motive of the other person who might just be very sincere with them thereby losing that person to another who is ready to be a fool for that same man or woman regardless of the expectations.

I have come to realize that the best way you can have peace in any affair is to risk it all...in other words, become a fool for that man or woman you truly desire..

If you feel like helping your bae through school,business or just buying him or her an expensive gift as well as going an extra mile please go ahead without second guessing or thinking negatively that the person could leave you someday for another.


How many of us have felt like getting an expensive gift for our bae or going the extra mile but have stopped to think "Is he/she really worth it?,what if he/she leaves me eventually?,what if he/she is cheating on me?" and we just change our mind.

If we must have a great affair and a peaceful one at that,we must learn to follow our heart and act towards our bae as if such person will never leave but at the same time, expect them to leave even if you give same the whole world.

The truth is that you don't go into any investment with mediocrity and expect a favourable outcome.

Every love affair is like a profit or loss business investment with an element of risk but deserves our "best" input to succeed and whether it works out or not is a different ball game.

Just follow your heart.

my bae for 2 yrs now is requesting for an android phone since her old phone is given her hell of issues.though the money is not the issue here

but it is wise enough for me to buy that phone for her since I have not married her pls I need yr advice

Is okay but must she post it online.

and if Jonathan did not do anything to that region how than do they expect buhari to do wonder

fellis:
Na phone autocorrect abeg leave her alone.

Spell 'corper' on your anndroid keyboard and it immediately corrects it to 'corpses' try it and see.

not true jour

vampire2020:
Those that carried france straight win,will want to die after griezman header

Bro pls how can I post something on NL

KINGOFJAPAN:

Do you know what some bad eggs from Nigeria are doing in SA? Do you know that there organized Nigerian drug syndicates operating in SA? No side good oo, but na our own bad pass.

are they using machin to check dis pple order what

ikbnice:
One of the dumpest place to hide drugs. Even exam 'orijo' is not safely safe there. That place that always draws attention even concealing anything in it. Omo, katakata don burst, na to go spend yamayama for prison.

where come save
I side pant?