donbachi:
Ogbanje.

She's not. She prays a lot

This issue is becoming worrying for me. I knew this girl a year ago. I fell in love with her. She's the guarded type and she's even a virgin. Because sex wasn't the reason I wanted her, I took things slow and finally got her to fall in love with me. She claims she's not ready to have sex because she almost got raped by her first boyfriend in the past. I understood. So we've not even had sex.

Problem now is, I'm not in love with her anymore, but her love for me seems to have grown too high. This girl takes care of me like I'm her child. She doesn't even ask me for money. She spends and cooks for me with her own money. She always calls and visits. Always very caring.

It's not just that I'm not in love with her anymore, it's that I'm not even interested in relationships now. I want to focus on my business and furthering my education. She seems to want me to be her boyfriend but I've not officially asked. Sometimes I just ghost her for fews days just to lessen contact. She will call and text multiple times but I won't respond. Sometimes I just pick random fights just to cause quarrel but he will still apologize and beg me to forgive her.

What I notice is that anytime I stay away from her I always have nightmares involving her. I always find myself in a perilious and life threatening situations and she's always involved in some way. Sometimes I find myself chasing her attention and not getting it. Sometimes she will be in the arms of another guy and I'll just be watching form afar with sadness. The problem is I don't even like the girl anymore so why would I be dreaming of this?

Another thing that I notice is that anytime I keep my distance my business begins to fall apart. Money stops coming in as usually and things become hard. But as soon as I reconnect with her and spend time with her the nightmares will stop and my business will begin to blossom.

This girl is religious so I don't suspect she is diabolic. Whenever I reconnect with her after ghosting she will say she missed me and cried many times. I don't know which Kain wahala be this.