Good afternoon my fellow Nairalanders. Please I need medical advice on this bugging issue my kid sister has.

Please this is not a make up story, she called me as her senior brother for advice and also encouragement on her current situation.

She got married early this year February precisely, after a month or so she told me that she is having abdominal pain which I advised that they should go to hospital. The result shows that she had fibroid, but the doctor told them that it is very small, that they shouldn't worry.

The doctor gave her some drugs, after some days the pain subside. A month later the pain surface again but this time around she is pregnant, the pain lasted 2 weeks or so more severe than the first one because she can't eat even sleep is a problem for her, though am not staying with them. They lived in Lagos and I Asaba, but I always call to get update on her progress.

They visited 3 different hospital but no lasting solution to relief the pain, they quote that because of her condition that not every drug should be administered to her.

You know young couple they are confused and decide to seek advice from her mother in-law about their predicament.

The woman seems to be the messiah they were looking for, she brought herb that stop the pain completely.

Please note: with all sincerity the woman is like a mother to her.

Now is the main issue that is on ground. Since this week Monday the pain have surface again more severe, and the hospitals they went so far recommend surgery quoting that the pregnancy is complicated, that baby and fibroid is growing together.

Please gynaecologist in the house is there anything to do Am short of information on this matter. I need medical advice this is my dearest sibling.

I appreciate anyone that took out time to read this long episode, just to help. Forgive my grammatical errors

From what you said,"sometimes I cook, do the washing, undies inclusive and 80% of house chores". That is the root of your problem, my brother don't start what you can't stop. Your new adviser is good, but you have to take step by step.
(1) Is better both of you starve.
(2) You eat out codedly.
(3) As in this case you have boiled rice, you forget about the stew. I know that she will cook the stew.
Finally don't underestimate the intelligence of this gender," everything they do is pre programmed.
Like one of my friend will say" if you are in be in, if you are out be out". Is not a always easy to man up inside a relationship, but it is a bold step to take.

PointZerom:


You mean you don't have limit of amount to be withdrawn per day from your account?

No. Am a business man, i sale electronics. I buy goods on weekly basis transaction is made via transfer. Due to the nature of my business my limit is 5M.

3 armed robbers came to my house with gun on my head took my ATM card they have POS with them. Collect my phone, after much beating over my pin, they withdrawn 4M. From my 2 different account. Access and UBA respectively. At midnight around 3 a.m, I went to bank in the morning they said I delayed, that they can't do anything to track the POS. I need serious help, that's all I have worked for over the years.
Admin please help so that depression will not kill me. Any information will be highly appreciated.

Joysticks:
I thought there is a withdrawal limit of 100k in a day.How is that possible to withdraw 4m in your bank account?

I cannot explain, which authority will I run to, this incident happened in Ajah Lagos

They collected my 2 phones. So when I went to the bank in morning, there is no Kobo in the account.

3 armed robbers came to my house with gun on head took my ATM card they have POS with them. After much beating over my pin, they withdrawn 4M. From my 2 different account. Access and UBA respectively. At midnight around 3 a.m, I went to bank in the morning they said I delayed, that they can't do anything to track the POS. I need serious help, that's all I have worked for over the years.
Admin please help so that depression will not kill me. Any information will be highly appreciated.

5+5*2=20