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Health / Re: Don’t Make The Mistake I Made by James289(f): 11:18pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
i know exactly how you're feeling, you are not alone in having feelings of regret after this decision. it's a very tough spot to be in, and no matter which way you choose, there is no good answer. you and i chose the same route, and i also experienced regret for years after. here is what i eventually came to: the child-that-could-have-been (since it was too early for it really to be a child yet) did not cease to be in vain. I decided that the only way for me to move on was to make the most of my life and my opportunities, to never settle for a bad relationship, to never give up on my studies or my jobs. the only way for that decision to be meaningful is if i did not waste away in regret, but instead, if i moved forward. it's been about 5years since i came to that realization (a realization i came to about 2 or 3 years after the abortion). it's been hard at times, but knowing that every day that is spent in a positive way,every day spent moving me forward in my career, personal goals, and relationships, gives meaning and importance to the loss i suffered back then. it gives the death of the child-that-might-have-been meaning, something that has helped a whole lot. good luck to you and wish you only the best. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Help Save My Marriage by James289(f): 5:02pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Show her much love. Wash her clothes and cook delicious food, she will respect you, even without money. don't forget to do fasting and prayers for her, she will change 🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️ |
Romance / Re: What Ended Your Last Relationship? by James289(f): 12:20pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
Our lives were going in completely different directions and it was better to end it instead of trying to force it to work. We're still friends and keep in touch. |
Family / Re: Today Is My Traditional wedding by James289(f): 12:15pm On Feb 28, 2023 |
mrrobz: I pray that your FWB can turn up to the wedding venue with a gun and shot you dead🖕 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Friend On Benefit Has Contacted My Fiancee by James289(f): 11:35am On Jan 31, 2023 |
Don't forget to update when you guys break up 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: The White House Christmas Decorations 2022 by James289(f): 10:24am On Dec 09, 2022 |
Wow, so beautiful! |
Crime / Re: I Killed My Friend, Sold Head, Heart For N200,000, Man Reveals by James289(f): 8:18pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
Wickedness of the highest order. |
Crime / Re: Man Beats Wife To Death As He Seeks To Control Property She Built In Ogun (Pix) by James289(f): 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
He just poured his frustration on the woman for his incompetence as a man. |
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Pens Down Apology Following Imade’s Birthday Post by James289(f): 8:14pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
It's well o |
Family / Re: Woman Dies After Being Detained And Starved For A Year By Her Husband In Yobe by James289(f): 8:07pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
I hate this kind of story!!!! Mtchewwww |
Family / Re: My Husband Won't Provide For Me And Children by James289(f): 8:02pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
Search for Justice Court on YouTube by judge funmi she will help you. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Man Called Out For Serial Cases Of Domestic Violence by James289(f): 11:45pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
This man is a monster |
Family / Re: Man Discovered He Is Not The Father Of His Children Through Wife's Chat by James289(f): 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
Jesus Christ!!! I fear my gender |
Celebrities / Re: Tony Umez And Wife Patsy Ogochukwu Celebrate 23rd Wedding Anniversary (Photos) by James289(f): 10:11pm On Nov 16, 2022 |
Happy anniversary dorling 25 Likes |
Family / Re: Girl Arrested For Faking Own Death To Avoid Financial Pressure From Mom by James289(f): 7:30pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
She should have change her phone number |
Family / Re: When Was The Last Time You Sent Your Parents Money by James289(f): 7:28pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Every month, even tho they don't need or ask for it. I think I'm repaying for the money I wasted in the name of education 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Kid Sister Ran Away From Home, What Do I Do? by James289(f): 7:25pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
She's an adult. There is nothing you can do when an adult makes a decision about their own life. You may disagree with her decision, but that does not make it wrong. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Is My Wife Doing ? Cheating? by James289(f): 7:22pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Don’t dwell on the past and move forward with someone who is going to value you and respect the relationship they form with you. |
Health / Re: My Dick Use To Disgrace Me by James289(f): 7:17pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Quit masturbating multiple times a day and see what happens |
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu And Atiku Meet At Abuja Airport This Afternoon by James289(f): 7:12pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
And their supporters will be killing themselves on the social media. |
Politics / Re: Gunmen Threaten To Force Soludo To Resign by James289(f): 7:09pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
False news |
Politics / Re: Soludo: Peter Obi Knows That He Can’t And Won’t Win by James289(f): 7:07pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
Bitterness is cancerous. Never knew Soludo is this bitter Tueh 3 Likes |
Family / Re: To My Beautiful Wife. I'm Sorry For Being The Worst Husband Ever by James289(f): 8:11pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
I just hope this isn't another super story. |
Family / Re: Does It Mean People Who Shares Same Surname Are Related? by James289(f): 8:03pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
What? No obviously not. |
Romance / Re: My Ex Wants Me Back by James289(f): 7:59pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Ex stands for an Example of what not to look for in your next gf. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Is My Father's Uncle Also My Uncle by James289(f): 7:55pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Grand uncle |
Family / Re: I Am Not Happy With My Dad Please Advise Me by James289(f): 7:54pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Just face your life, some women are destined to die as GALLANT soldiers in marriage. You can't save her but you can save yourself 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Elder Brother Doesn't Send Me Money Except I Lie by James289(f): 11:56am On Nov 11, 2022 |
Lazy man. Typical poor mentality. He owes you nothing. |
Family / Re: Between Your Mother And Wife by James289(f): 10:04am On Oct 26, 2022 |
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: GOD is Good by James289(f): 11:20pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
You need to get to the local police station and report him, it's that simple. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: No Family Planning, No Sex by James289(f): 11:14pm On Oct 22, 2022 |
If you are done having kids, get your tubes tied. Vasectomy. 27 Likes 6 Shares |
Crime / Re: Man Impregnates His 13-Year-Old Daughter In Ogun by James289(f): 10:48pm On Oct 15, 2022 |
Lock him up and throw away the keys |
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