I need honest advice (please no insults/jokes apart)...

I have been dating this guy for 9 months going on to the tenth month, the guy is everything a girl wants in a strong black african/nigerian man. As months passed I have really warmed up to him. I know he loves me to bits and I am very loyal/sumbissive(bible way) to him. The thing is I am scared to give my whole heart to him and fall head over heals with him as I believe love comes with being practical and as a result I am trying to be practical in order to avoid certain things women faces with men that equates to heartbreak. I am ready to marry this guy,but I do not know if I am setting the right foundation so I ask, is what I am doing right or I am building a wrong foundation(pls if u are single forget responding to this thread).

thanks

nicky4lif:

My dear,u better stop giving him money.why will u be giving a guy money,if the money is nolonger coming out will still love u?he told his frnds abt u what exactly did he tell his frnds abt u,u can only believe what he wants u to believe.him going to church nd having a bible doesn't mean he really wants to do it,maybe he is doing it for u or to say sorry to God for all the people he has killed,because one can't be a capone without killing someone.yes they visit native docters as often as possible for some kind of protections.he can pretend to be an angel for as long as the money is coming out,he can even go as far as making his nd your family believe that he love u nd at the end he will leave u nd still make it look like the fault is from u.u might be his maga u never can tell.when he will kill u,he will do it like he is killing a rat because is somtin he is used to doing.he is simple not your type,don't tell him is over,just do it in a matured way.

Can u elaborate on how to do it in a matured way apart from slowly cutting off communications?

Dgunnerz:

HE BE BUCA!

I don't know which cult he belonged to but I hope it aint lagos BUCA!!!

moremi2008:

Your life and happiness is clearly of little value to you. You think attending church on Sundays and keeping a Bible in the house means he's a different man? Are you yourself a spirit-filled Christian? If no, then there's nothing on here that will convince you from leaving that man. If yes, then you need to go on your knees in fasting and prayer; no sane woman will go into a relationship like this with eyes wide open. Good luck! I am so happy you're not a family member.

I don't know y the insult but thanks for the advice any ways,

ArQueBusieR:

lol. . .Ok, what are his friends like?

Well, they seem to be ok I guess, the guy even goes to church on sundays and has a bible in his house!! He seems to be very serious about me as well and has told all his friends about me.

I c how people r taking humour in my situation, i pray such never happens to u

Beync:

Gradually withdraw urself from him. slitly cutting down on communication and all that you used to do before.
the whole thing will fade away. i hope he is not all that dangerous incase he finds out u r leavin him and he comes back chasing or threatenin u

Thanks @ beync. Will do exactly that!!!

webcam:

my advice is run for your dear life with style, they are dagerous ppl

Gpd forbid bad thing, sounds a serious case, Ok how do i leave this guy without any drama?

@tutuwater: Was born in Nigeria but was not bread there, Nigerian parents as well, so NO, I am not emphasising Nigeria man to answer your question

I am currently dating a man whom I found out used to be a cultist and a capone in his university days. He displays signs of anger although he has not hit me before, lies alot especially over little things, have an eye for beautiful women (not insecure as I to am beautiful: just an observation), expect me to give him money to prove my love (which he knows I think its wrong) and drinks and smokes despite this I love him but what is bothering me is the cultist issue. I want to know what exactly do cultist and capones do in university in terms of activities particularly killing people and blood covenants? and why do they go get protections from the native doctors.

I am confused about this situation and have no idea what to do. Any advice rendered will be appreciated (please no insults).

I am currently going to with a nigerian man whom I found out was a capone back in university and did rituals for protection. The guy displays anger although he has never hit me before and he lies a lot. He expects me to give him money which I don't believe a women should due to biblical principals.

My question is this: What do university cultist do in terms of their activities and why do they get ritual protections? What is my best approach to my current situation as I am so confused and don't know what to do.

Any advice (not insults) will be much appreciated.

I dont know why nice people always get screwed up- whether u r a man or women. As a female my only encouragement for such is that they will regret it one day and will want to come back but it will be too late. Take heart. The same way u r nice, there is one nice level headed girl out there praying for some1 like you and u will find her. See it as Ur exprience is vital for ur success in marriage.