IMO, not all girls dt go to nyt clubs are bad.I think d frequency of attendance shld also be of importance here. If a girl goes with her friends or her boyfriend to a night club once in a blue moon, then I dnt think it's a crime. It becomes a bad thing when d girl goes on a regular basis, like evry wknd.

can someone pls tell me any church dt doesnt ve corrupt members? Be it reddemed,winners chapel,cele,C&S,deeper life,etc, some of u saying members of christ embassy ve sex partners re just being one sided. Am nt saying it's nt true but ur girlfriends dt u straff,is she a christ embassy church member? D promiscuous girls on ur street, re they CEC members? D ashawos in ur streets nko? D corrupt politicians in Nigeria all attend CEC I think. It's high time we say d truth where it is. And don't be myopic about things that concern spirituality, God help us all. Remove d clog in ur own eyes first b4 u think abt helping others remove d speck in their eyes,

i bliv diff kinds of flirtings do go on on BB but it will take a very promiscuous girl who has a bf to go all d way and straff d toastee, 'xcept if she doesn't ve a stable relationship, she might be tempted to fall in luv'

i bet it's dose ladies dt do shady things dt will hide their fb p/w from their bfs. If u ve nutyn to hide then why do u say he wants to ve a heart attack. My gf gave me her password without me even asking for it, nd sometimes she even asks me to visit her acct to read her conversations with diff pple,'wooers' of her friends,etc dt concerns diff issues

i dnt know whether it's a big deal or not but I ve got my girlfriend's fb password. She willingly gave it to me herself without me asking for it. I think she just wants to tell me doesn't ve anything to hide, And I do check into her acct smtimes and she even asks me to go thru her inbox sometimes to see her conversation with some pple,

wld luv to see the pict. If it's dt really bad to warrant such coldness from ur bf.Ju1writes@gmail.com,

@Coogar, yes o. Can't stand such pple too. Instead of him to accept d fact that he has lost the plot, he still keeps shooting where there's nothing to aim @. She left him because he was double dating and the gurl(miss A) is a known person to my g.friend. So she went to meet the gurl and they struck an accord. They called him(her ex) and d phone was put on speaker. d other gurl now asked if he was dating miss B(my fiancee) and his response was yes. Dt he doesnt love her(my fiancee) and that she(miss A) is d one he loves. Dt he's just using her (fiancee) to while away time and they were both listening to him. He was begging the other gurl(miss A) on phone. Later my fiancee called him whether he was dating miss A and he admitted but told her that he doesnt love her(miss A)and that my fiancee is d one he loves. Wat an irony. This is one of the reasons she decided to leave him and coupled with d fact dt he was not in skol nd not planning to go to skol while then my fiancee was already in year 2. He's now saying that he made a mistake. That d other gurl is not a good choice. Dt he hasn't found any other gurl that measures up to my fiancee since she left him and that he's sorry. And moreover he hasn't yet gone to skol up till now,though he's working and my fiancee is already a graduate while I ve an M.Sc already. I just hope he can reason well and move on with his life,

@deniyor. i think that's d best thing to do. Thanks

some of them re romantic nd some re not. I ve met ladies on both sides of the divide, so look for the romantic ones and u will find them

@Mynd,she really loves me and I know dt. It's just dt this guy isn't just communicating with her bt still wants her again bt I know she doesn't want him back nd has told him severally either thru txt messages or fb or calls on d fone. Just dt this guy can't move on.
@de-blunt, I'm 100% committed to her nd she knows dt.nd moreover we r nt getting married until @ least December,2012 or early nxt yr.@Lashontae,like u ve said,ladies love lots of attention. She's told me before now dt her phone used to beep a lot b4 we got together nd dt since she's now serious with me, her phone's beeping from guy's calls ve drastically reduced. Cos she has told whoever cared to listen dt she's no longer searching/available. She has changed her relationship status on fb nd all her friends know abt d relatnship.Some even call her 'abokoku'(a one-man loving babe). She even plans changing her phone nos as soon as we r married. And I'm not a type that monitors her all around bt just trying to play my role as a bf sometimes and I dnt fink dt is wrong. I dnt control who she talks to on fone nd I do give breathing space too. Though she still has admirers nd I think that is normal.@drnoel,thanks for ur advice.@iice,deniyor,iceblock nd others, fanks

Sometimes one has to try to trust to a certain degree bt at the same time u still ve to open ur eyes too. After she deleted him from her bbm he sent a message to her fb inbox that since he can't ping her,that he wants to tell her thru dt medium dt he still cares for her nd dt he misses her, I just talk say na wa o. Some guys get wahala sha. And moreover some gurls also disturb me a lot too. Mean two of my ex gfs still want me to be dating them bt I ve already made it known to them dt am no longer available bt they didnt leave me alone. I was now wondering that d same problem dt ma gf is facing is wat am equally facing. These two ladies will call most times and i wnt pick their calls and wen I pick, d way I will respond to them wont be nice bt yet it doesnt deter them from continuosly disturbing me. Bt they ve relaxed a lil bit now since i didnt give them enof leeway with me nd she knows this too. She saw some messages i sent to them abt how I'm happy with my relationship nd dnt need them nd also saw their messages complaining that i dont call them or send messages to them, so she blivs me wen i tell her abt the whole stuff. I know she loves me so much nd I do love her too. I saw some chats with some of her female friends(2) where they were discussing me nd she was praising me to high heavens dt she was glad to ve met me, dt she cant wait to get married to me,dt she is so happy being with me nd stuff like dt. We ve been dating for 1 yr now,

thanks for all ur comments. I appreciate,

My fiance's ex still disturbs her even wen he knows she has moved on. I ve her facebook p/w and i see miriads of messages he sends to her often though she tells me abt them even before I see them.I wasn't dt worried abt it until recently. d guy just bought a bb and she asked her to send him her pin nd she did,bt told me later.I used to go thru their chats wen she gives her phone to me sometimes. He still wanted her back and she has always consistently told him it's too late.I was in Lagos to see her parents and while we were travelling back,she met d same guy on d way nd they talked for some seconds. Later wen we got home,I saw some chat msgs on her phone where d guy promised to give her some money and he asked her to call her wen she gets to our house which she did.Though she didnt tell me this until I confronted her. I was so incensed that she had to start begging on her knees and promised neva to try dt again. She deleted him from her bbm immediately. I didnt feel @ ease abt it cos it looks as if I was totally controlling her, not making her very free abt d whole thing but then I reasoned again dt Ladies need such sometimes. I hope I ve nt been too harsh on her. Lest I forget, this same guy called her some weeks into our relationship early last year. She put d phone on loudspeaker and d guy was begging her to come back bt she said she has found sb who loved her and dt she loved him too. She even said she was pregnant for him. D guy requested her to abort d pregnancy and come back to him. It was then I knew dis guy was desperate. Wat do u fink I can do abt this. Thanks for ur anticipated responses,

The OP may be doing all these but the most important thing is the attitude towards the kid. The way she talks to her, d way she corrects her when she's wrong.humans react to words in diff ways no matter how little they could be. I think d attitude of the poster is questionable here. She was also trying to ridicule us here by comparing the 'omo odo's' room or wat she has to ours. Wat a dumb nd stupid thing to do. A mo iru yin, [color=#006600][/color]

u ve got no option but to tell her but how do u tell her? Tell her she shldn't take as an offence dt u ve found the person u want to settle down with and dt u re getting married soon. And see wat she has to say. I ve got a similar case om hand too presently.

Here I blame the woman for going back to her so called husband. The man is a beast & should be treated as one. Those who kill by the sword shall die by the sword. [color=#990000][/color][b][/b]