kingofchess: I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help
I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.
There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.
Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.
To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).
Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page.
Pray for more revelations and follow your instincts to the last . It never fails .
slawormiir: Damnnn niggarrrr Typical of a pussy ass niggarr...
Real niggarrrs won't be bathing kids
Those are the duty of our wives Real niggarrr go out there make some dope money Then smoke enough weed, drink enough beer, and bang some pussy with the money before bringing the remaining one home to take care of his wife and kids
That’s why most marriages don’t last these days . Everything is not always about money.
Alexgman1: NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.
But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.
How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).
This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.
My dear in as much it is good to be good , you have to choose your good wisely.
That’s how a fellow brother in my church said he wants to pay me a visit that year . I said no problem only for him to come in the morning and I was to go to work by 11am . He said he won’t stay long. I said fine , he came and when it was time to go he asked if I won’t offer him breakfast, I said no time again and he suggested I dish the food in a takeaway pack, I did and then he left. A week later he said he wants to return my plate , I politely told him that I am not around and would be away for a week. Busy busy lady he calls me now.
johnsmarrt: Help I just finished a computer based test (CBT) without clicking on submit. Will it still be recognised and graded Or is it a waisted effort Please i need answers
Most times the system automatically submits it . Be hopeful
Learn1: Good day to you all. I’m not really happy typing this but I seek your opinion. I will be done with nysc very soon and I don’t know what the future looks like. I come from a family full of cultist and smokers. Infact I’m not regarded. Everyone is a yahoo boy. I’m a yahoo boy myself but intend getting a legit job after service. During this service year none of my siblings called me on phone even though I passed through a lot. Recently I asked them to give me an advice of life after service after as they have been there before but nothing sensible were they able to tell me. I feel bad because this are people I suppose to look Up to. But life goes on. I deleted their number not long ago.
My plan after service is to go back home get my certs and cut all available way for me to be reached by all family members and relocate to a new place where I don’t know any body and start life. I don’t think I belong with them because even looking at me I’m like a complete opposite. I intend staying in a church if I get to a new land before I find my footing.
Please advice me.
You need to pray ahead of your decision. Give your life to Christ for direction because He will never leave nor forsake you and lead you astray. And pray to God to touch the hearts and lives of your family because no matter how bad they are there is no place like home . Be strong and steadfast in all you do going forward cos being an adult is not a joke . It comes with so much responsibilities that sometimes you would feel like giving up in everything.
nyzeo: I am 33 and I come from a state from the south south. I met a girl in Lagos 4 years ago who is from the south east and we have been very good friends ever since then.
I have developed very strong affection for her over time and we started dating. We really love each other now and we have have finalized plans to get married anytime between this year and early next year.
The issues now is that my parents are insisting I marry from my state, somebody who speaks the same language. It has caused me to have issues with my mother because she is the orchestra of all this tribal bigotry.
Please lala and house memeber make una advice me abeg. I have found someone who truly complements my life I really sincerely love this lady. Thanks
Do not ignore their concern. Try to find out if there is more to that. Ignoring one’s parents in making marital decisions is not always good in the long run. Pray, pray and pray again for understanding and the will of God to be done.
Rich4god: The president spoke and followed it up with actions. Unlike some president who said he is surprised that the citizens were been attacked and killed by bandits and boko haram.
Come to think of it, it's a shame to us that the soldiers of another sovereign nation is fighting terrorist on our soil... To make the matters worse, it's not like these soldiers are from the US, NATO or any of the world powers, but Chadian soldiers... How low could we get.
That is because some Nigerian military personnel are part of the sect and benefitting massively from their operations otherwise, how can you explain this threat for over 6years now. Soldiers and citizens are being killed like fowls every now and then . And same military went for peace keeping in other country years back.
I ave my own job and a well paying job..I don’t need a man to b dere financially but is there a big deal in a man buying gifts for some1 he claims to love not necessarily money
Stop telling yourself that you don’t need a man to there for you financially. It’s good to be financially independent but trust me you definitely don’t want to be that all your life when you are married . True love is giving no matter how little. For your information everyone needs that extra cash now or later . Except you want to be sole financial power in your home .
My dear since the inception of microfinance and loan platform . Everyone wants to borrow money not minding the repercussions of not meeting the terms and conditions.
Davash222: 56 years old and she’s looking like she’s 105. Evil makes one grow old tremendously. Stay away from evil!
The evil that men do lives with them these days . The Bible says no peace for the wicked . If you don’t have peace you will definitely look older than your age .
They have not started bombing you guys and they are scared already . If only they can relate it to what the poor citizens of the country go through with no proper security measure put in place to curb the security threat caused by Boko haram. Politicians always self centered .
NoTire: Father of the deceased vehicle mechanic alleged killed while in custody of the E Crack Police Unit in Port Harcourt, Kelvin Ikwumado has told Holygist that he is in shock and is yet to come to terms with the reality that Chima, the financial pillar and breadwinner of his family is dead.
According to holygist.com, the distressed father who last saw his son on December 20th narrated how his initial worries about Chima failure to answer or return calls and his sudden disappearance from his home and workplace eventually led him to the E Crack Police Unit where he was told his son was a criminal and asked to leave immediately or risk being locked up like him.
#Justiceforchima has created a black atmosphere on twitter with Nigerians lamenting on the increase of police brutality. appeal for release of the detained 4 persons related to this case and to demand justice for the dead victim
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In as much as I truly want justice for the late Chima. I think it’s time parents stopped having this entitlement mentality towards their children. All parents should ensure that they can fend for themselves no matter how small . Stop putting unnecessary financial pressure on your children because you don’t know what some of them are going through wherever they are .
Imagine the father saying that he is dead because his son is dead, how can he survive or fend for himself . Please how did you do it before they became adult. So many children indulging in illegal activities is most often than not because of their parents expectations.
Parents try to help yourself to help your children financially too. Money making process is not easy be it legal or illegal.
May Chima’s soul Rest In Peace and May justice be served .
In fact, nobody envisaged that there would be a separation, not to talk of a divorce between Nollywood’s actress, Dakore Egbuson-Akande, and her husband.
But like some celebrity marriages, Dakore and Olumide Akande are no more. Just like a pack of badly stacked cards, the nine-year-old wedding crumbled and the centre cannot hold.
Signs that the wedlock was troubled surfaced online when the actress posted a photo where she wore bikini! Prior to that, she was sighted at the One African Music Fest in Dubai with her brother, Timini.
“The marriage had problems a few years back but the couple tried to make things work out. Many factors were responsible but Dakore became tired of not having enough money to throw around. Her husband, Olumide, who is one of a son of billionaire businessman, Harry Akande, is broke—the money isn’t flowing like when they met, courted and married. Olu lives off his dad and the economy isn’t as buoyant. Even Harry Akande is allegedly not as rich as he was,” reliable sources told Kemi Ashefon.
Many would recollect that Dakore was romantically involved with Olumide, for many years before they were pronounced man and wife at the Guiding Light Assembly, Ikoyi in 2011. A lavish reception that had in attendance elite members of the society was staged at the prestigious KFA Event Place in Lekki. Dakore’s father-in-law, businessman cum politician Chief Harry Akande brought to bear his social and financial clout.
“Olumide sacrificed everything for Dakore. Initially, when he made his intention known to family members that he wanted to marry the actress, hell was loose! No member of his family stood by him. To them, Olu could have gotten a good girl instead of an actress, who is tagged wayward and a gold-digger. He ignored all pleadings and advice. The handsome dude went for Dakore and they were married in 2011. They have two girls as products of the union,” source revealed.
Moreover, the quest for a third child must have allegedly put pressure on the actress who quit the movies long before she married Akande and after their two kids, they relocated to the United States of America. Well, Dakore’s mother-in-law wasn’t pleased with their lifestyle and wanted them in Nigeria where the couple can work towards giving her a grandson!
Meanwhile, Dakore had maintained that she was done with child-bearing. As a matter of fact, it was due to the imbroglio in their marriage that pushed her into acting again.
Not a few fans would be worried at this development because Dakore did all she could to keep her marriage intact—at least on social media. Not known to celebrate her wedding anniversaries on social media unlike some actresses, she revealed that she wanted a ‘private marriage and not one to be displayed on social media.’
In an interview two years ago, Dakore disclosed that, “My mother always say, ‘cover your yam and how you’re eating it.’ Like on his birthday, I just do maybe some posts on Instagram but we like to celebrate anniversaries in-house with the kids. We’ve been together for 11 years but married for seven years.”
Already, Dakore has moved out of her marriage and she is allegedly dating a Nigerian guy who is into entertainment and organizes big shows in Africa and other continents. Who knows the couple can still come back again.
I have actually be suspecting that it’s like they are no longer together because her presence on Instagram has increased, her mode of dressing has been on another level and her happiness is free messages . May God save these generation marriages . It’s not just about celebrities these days .
About a year ago, my Dad died, being an owner of a primary school with my mom, thereafter o assumed head of the school, although I run my own freelance engineering installation and maintenance service on HVACs and Diesel engines.
In course of this education line, I'm obtaining my certificate in PGDE( in view).
Now this is the case...
There are some old staff in the school then whom use to collect school fees on behalf of the school and you know Nigerians, instead of remitting the fees to the school, they divert and scam and even go as far as lending money to different people in the vicinity.
However since I took over, I forcefully stopped the collection, and redirected all fees to be paid at the bank. Mhen, it was not small trouble, fight, gossiping, spoiling me at the back etc, but I never listened to such, and right now no one collects these fees again... Everything goes through me coz I'm trying to sanitize it. I also required the services of a registered security company operator (sheriff deputies) for the school
Problems I needed advice
1. Sometimes these rebellion. They gossip and talk evil to people that I'm very harsh etc
2. I have changed 2 security operators because of compromises with these staff. I will give instruction, Buh those they'd do otherwise and bend to what other older staff tell them. Recently, the present security did something contrary and I scolded him toughly. Recently, he had an alteration with a parent and I asked him to just plead with her. He refused blatantly. I was surprised and even my mom too. He said he doesn't like the way I scold him and that's why bla bla bla, infront of all other staff. My mom asked me not to change him Buh I'm skeptical
I already feel like changing him with his company supervisor coz he lives around the vicinity and he now gossips with those old staff who might be telling him I'm too young to order him to do things
4. These old staffs are like friends to my mom and they already carry a lot of influence with most of the parents (which I also cut off too). One of them is wife to my mom's brother
5. My mother has been telling me to be patient even my wife. I do not want to employ an headteacher until I change a lot of things
The school has about 300-350 pupils, and employs 18 staff
Advice needed
Lalasticlala
Hold a village meeting with them. See if you can increase the salary of some of them, promote them if they are due for it and get new teachers as assistant to the older ones to learn from them. However, know that not every new teacher will want to stay in a place where there is no growth and salary increment. What this means is that don’t treat the older ones anyhow except you want to be changing teachers every now and then. My 1%
Some of the churches and Mosques that were sealed are Redeem Christian Church of God, RCCG at 68, Old Ota Road, Orile Agege, Tawakalitu Mosque and Jesus Answer Prayer Church.
Pls they should come and check the one at Kekere bus stop off Addo Road , Ajah. The noise pollution there no be here .
maddman: Tuface the two faced biaatchh should shut the eff up.
How you go block the only opportunity your nigga gat to blow and expect him not to be obsessed with you.
Bros blackface no go ever forgive you for that treachery. It pains nigga
Does blackface sounds like he need help ? He is too bitter for a man . He should go for a therapy session or let go before it’s too late . At 40+ he is crying over what happened over ten years ago. Haba
Ella2Cool: As the year gradually comes to an end, please anybody moving out of his or her apartment on the mainland should please let me know. I am trying to cut all the surcharges agents make new tenants pay. I have now till December to leave where i stay presently.
Same here pls . But on the island igbo Efon- Ajah axis.
kleverley: Lawyers, I thought they said before you dub one as guilty, you have to provide evidence? What evidences were tendered to prove their guilt? Policemen!!! na wa oo
Sometimes some wicked police Officer will bring proof to support their claims especially if you don’t have money to bribe them .
May God save Nigerians from people who are supposed to protect us .
athaboi: This guys are really messing with this woman
Like seriously oo. These old Hausa men crave for women like ants do sugar . And one would think with their holier than thou attitude they can put their penis in check but naaaa even at the age of 92 they still shivers at the sight of women. They look lustfully at well dressed women as though they are naked.
Hello everyone I got this mail from Clarke Energy to come for an aptitude test, please anyone with hints on what the test is all about?
Here is the main "Thanks for your interest in joining Clarke Energy Nigeria Limited.
Sequel to your application into the Engineering Trainee Programme of Clarke Energy Nigeria Limited, you have been invited to write an Aptitude Test scheduled to hold at Primal Hotel, 46B, Isaac John Streets, Ikeja GRA, Ikeja on Friday 11th October, 2019. The Tests starts by 8:30am.
Do not forward this email to anyone in a bid to have them attend the test. Doing so will automatically disqualify you.
Kindly confirm your attendance and bring along this email to the test venue.
R46egards
Rasheed Olomide | Human Resources Business Partner Clarke Energy"
Don’t include the name of the Human Resource person on a public forum like this next time .
remababy2: Blackface, ex member of the defunct music group, ‘Plantashun Boiz’ has taken legal action against former colleagues and music partners, 2face Idibia, Faze and Ruggedman claiming they’ve been performing songs written by ‘Plantashun Boiz’ and himself.
His legal team cautioned the former band mates, 2Baba, Faze & rapper, Rugged Man to stop performing his songs. He said their act can lead to damaging the image of the ‘Plantashun Boiz’.
He also posted an official letter from the court suing the above mentioned trio of impending copyright violation.
This guy is so bitter. His face alone will tell you that . Abeg if you know am , help tell am say bitterness no dey pay. He should let go already and release a banger if he is really talented as he claims .peace out ,whew!
Charleys: I can remember last year December the stipends was paid on the 24th of December. Considering that the whole of that week was holidays. I can remember my friend jumping because he had been looking for money to enjoy Christmas but he had none.
So then came sallah, they did not pay, but I said nothing because I thought maybe it was because it was a lesser sallah.
Now this Sallah has come and Npower has not paid,and today is the 10th.
The people in Npower have been there and are subtly punishing Muslims with their payments.
I can not believe they could do this until I see it with my eyes. My request is that they should be more Muslims posted to the position of top Npower officials so that our payments can be given to the Beneficiaries on time.
The Npower situation room has failed again with jts bias and should be cleaned to make way for capable people.
Everyone should be treated fairly for we are all one.
Eid-el Kabir.
It’s people like you that cause religious problem in this country . Let your mind , body and soul be pure towards this country and stop being a religious bigot
Cherrybae: FELLOW NIGERIANS,WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN IF THE NORTHERNERS SHOULD TREAT THE IGBOS THE SAME WAY THEY ARE TREATING THE NORTHERNERS? THE AGONY OF A PROUD NORTHERNER AND A HAUSA-FULANI!!!
I am one who has shown you love while you pay me back with so much hate,pains and disgust
I am one who has accommodated you for years in my land and you have refused to accommodate me in yours
I am that HAUSA-FULANI who has allowed you to establish yourself and your businesses in my land for years without stigmatising you
I am one whom you have refused to give a space to build a house nor a shop and treated like an outcast in your lands
I am that person who has been blamed for every crime committed even when most are not even committed by me
I am your step-sister/brother who has been quiet over the years that our father has been spending billions of naira in the name of amnesty just for peace to reign.
I am the one who kept quiet when our father spent more than $20 billion a year on subsidies for farm businesses. About 39 percent of the nation's 2.1 million farms receive subsidies, with the lion's share of the handouts going to the largest producers of corn, soybeans, wheat, cotton, and rice.
I am the one that is still quiet when our father plans to give N200bn intervention funds to boost the production of palm oil, cocoa, sesame seed, shea and cashew,through the Central Bank of Nigeria.
Now that our father tries to extend same gesture towards me and you complain and call me names?
You've been accusing me of killing your people,destroying your farm lands and kidnapping in your lands even when from the arrest so far,it has shown on the contrary and our father decided to provide solution to end the clashes between us by firstly coming up with the issue of ranches which you vehemently kicked against, he then came up with cattle colony yet, you said no,he talked about providing radio station to educate me and my family on the need for peaceful co-existence yet,you kicked against it.
I fear the Northerners might come up with their own rejections of the igbos in there land soon.
God bless Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Have you heard that an Igbo man killed anyone in the north in order for them to establish and run their businesses? The raping and killing of people on their farmland by these herdsmen just to have their way in strange lands is threatening and unhealthy. You might not understand it until it happens to you or a very close person to you.
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