Nne Wehdon, I understand you need a man...
From your eyes now, I read, it says, You can manage Civilian now, it doesn't matter...
You are Tired...

But What of a lady who is crushing on a Soldier?
Should she also approach him?
And cheat on him as well?

Well, We all are products of our Diagnosis
Either wrong or Right...
But sometimes there might be Circumstances that most have Clout our decisions...

It might not be the kind of life she had wanted..
We all have people who have gone into LovePeddler-dom and such kinds of lifestyles because of the Conditions surrounding them...
But does it stop them from been Human...

It might have taken her long to Quit the lifestyle...
But it doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve our Sympathy..
Anyone could have been in this mess...or even more...

I think she deserves a second chance just as any one of us do...
She has the right to change and live as a different person...

But if she wants to Quit for the money...
It's her life and she should do whatever she wants to do with it...

Sama na mairabo ne.
We all need Gods Mercy!
And we are not in position, to Judge others!

Well, first and foremostly, her saying she is not Materialistic sound suspicious, that she is
upto something,

I mean she doesn't need to tell you that she is not materialistic?
If really you most know, then I think you should be the one to find out by your self.
I believe action speaks louder than The VOICE...

Well my advice to you,
Next time you want to give out Cash to her,
Don't ask her wether she needs it,
Put it in her bag, book or anything that belongs to her... And when she returns it... Then please enjoy yah money by Ya self!

That's called Freedom to enjoy yah sef by Ya sef.
No stress ya sef! Life is too short.

Well, your Mom is such a strong woman!
She obviously, is just like my Mom..

Brave,Sacrificial, And above all Loves you too much to make such sacrifice.

To be frank with you, I wouldn't will advice you to go on pathing ways with your Girlfriend, she might be good!

Reason be that,I shade Tears, whenever I put myself in the position of my Mom, Sometimes you just need that someone with whom you can talk to, fight with, play with, look up to, Relate with and share opinions about life and how to Move on!
But whenever, I find myself away from my Boyfriend for a while, I realise my Mom has been in a Helpless situation, and it's obvious that she can not change things.

Each and every night when I lay to sleep, all I ever think of is what she thinks, how she feel, taking care of 6 children, who where left behind all by herself, no one to talk to about what decisions is best to take and what is not...

And so I keep on praying and wishing she gets a companion with whom she would live again...
Not because I am not jealous for my Dad, but he is long gone and she has sacrificed a lot to be where we are today!

I think she deserve a life,
She deserve Happiness,
and also someone with whom she would wake up every morning to talk to about what she feels and how she feels.

Life is too short!
And despite all sacrifices we would want to make, I believe we all deserve to be Happy!

Your Girlfriend is probably feeling for your Mom and she felt possibly your mom needs to live again.
I will Advice you to seek God on this!