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Romance / Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl That Doesn't Understand Me? by Jeff121212: 6:02pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Medianna: I didn't say I make jokes of her. No be everytime s*x, I like having conversations but I can't find a common ground to do so now |
Romance / How Do I Cope With A Girl That Doesn't Understand Me? by Jeff121212: 5:33pm On Nov 03, 2022 |
Hey Guys, so I got in a relationship for a little over 5 months now. She is industrious, hardworking and a wife material by every Nigerian standard. But the thing is, I can't have a conversation with her. She doesn't understand sarcasm, word plays or any of those stuffs and all my life I've loved word plays and you know, intellectual conversations. She's a medical student but this issue of not being able to hold a conversation with her is giving me lots of thoughts. When we are together, it's mostly silent because if I crack a joke, I'll have to explain it to the end and she might still not get it. How do I handle this guys? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: How Did Peter Obi Become Bank General Manager? by Jeff121212: 8:56pm On Oct 27, 2022 |
If you were not dumb or demented you could have simply checked out his academic and professional qualifications but here you are struggling to do the work for the 30k you were paid. I pray your child doesn't grow up and gets disappointed at how low his father stooped for 30k naira. Since you were to empty skilled to check, you can check the screenshot I attached that is if you can read at all because most Tinubu supporters are thoughts who can't read any other thing aside NURTW tickets 11 Likes 2 Shares
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Health / How Do I Deal With The Fear Of Failure? Help Guys by Jeff121212: 8:46am On Oct 18, 2022 |
So nairalanders I'll keep this short. A little bit of background about me to put things in perspective: I'm a young man somewhere in my mid twenties, I have quite a number of IT skills and lots of other hustles I do. 2020 I was in a single room apartment, 2021 moved to a self con and 2022 I just moved to a 2 bedroom apartment. I have about an acre of land I got a while ago. BUT the issue is that I'm still really scared of failure. I'm scared or going back to poverty. I've tried so hard reassuring myself that I'm on the right path but I am always worried. This stuff has cost me sleepless nights, I work really hard, everyone around affirms I'm doing well but deep down I just don't feel enough. It's eating me up guys, please help a brother �� |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 9:26am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Thanks guys, I appreciate the advice(s) so far. I'll act accordingly 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 6:39am On Feb 08, 2021 |
femi4: Did I forget to mention that I'm literally footing all her bills? We're both adults, she doesn't let me even talk to other ladies without getting jealous. How am I supposed to handle my urges? 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 5:50am On Feb 08, 2021 |
SavageResponse: I saw it as an opportunity for us to get back together and make it work. |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 5:49am On Feb 08, 2021 |
beehivedata: Thanks man, I deeply appreciate |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 12:28am On Feb 08, 2021 |
JackStephans: I'm at a crossroad man, I don't even know what to think |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 12:27am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel:I'm not sure I can stay celibate with a woman living under the same roof with me for a year bro |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 12:09am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Shelumiel: She's in her mid twenties and she said she doesn't want to settle down until she starts her business and gets it running. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 12:03am On Feb 08, 2021 |
I need advice guys. Biko, Ejó |
Romance / What Do I Do With This Girl? Advice Needed! by Jeff121212: 11:56pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Guys I'm pretty popular on nairaland but to avoid banters, I created this account. Do pardon my typos and mistakes, I'll try to be as brief as possible. I dated this girl for like a year and during that period we sure did have intercourse frequently. After a while we broke up because according to her, she lost feelings for me. I pleaded but she insisted that her decision was absolute so I let it slide. Recently, I became better than I was financially, way better. I wouldn't want to attribute her coming back to it but she did come back and we got talking again. About a month ago she said she had accomodation issues and pleaded to move in with me. I obliged. We became as close as we were when we were dating (,or so it seems to me). I noticed that she changed churches and she is more fervent now. Although it didn't change much, we still do get intimate in the heat of it but for about a week or so now, she refused to give in to my advances. I confronted her and she said her pastor asked her not to. Now the issue is I'm a one woman man who doesn't believe in philandering (sleeping around). Coupled with her living with me, I'm lost as to how to address this issue. I need suggestions guys, I really do like her and would love to settle down with her (God willing). Thanks Guys 3 Likes 2 Shares |
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