yazga:
So I heard this story on the radio on Sunday.

Man wakes up in the morning, drops money for food with his wife after an awesome session of love making a night before; apparently they seemed very happy together. Gets dressed(very casual) didn’t take a pin with him, tells his wife he’s going to see his friend that stays on the next street. A few hours after, wife gets a call from a friend her husband is getting married in a certain church and obviously didn’t believe. just like that days of waiting for him to come back home or even call turned into years. The woman was left broken with 5 children.

According to the story the man had relocated to the US with his new wife. I listened to the story and got so emotional, too many questions filled my head. Wasn’t there a better way to have left? What could this woman have done to deserve this treatment? Why didn’t he think about the kids? Questions only the man can answer. A lot of women have had to deal with issues like this and it’s so heartbreaking

Glink2018:
Lady A is very sincere to you...
You see that lady B nah just to force you to enter and have the children, if you cannot cope with her financial responsibility , she will become runs girls and run with your children to an undisclosed location....
Except the lady fear GOd.

I beg you , if you no get money, no go for marriage because girls of nowadays will make you regret your existence in life.
.... Talking from experience

futurerex:
For the sake of your unborn kids, go with A

Amakavula:
Exactly, Babe B is miss pick me," I am desperate"

deic9:
Me want to marry, but I have not seen a nice bae for myself

olabrinks:
The reality is that social media has created a delusion for women to expect the perfect man. You want to marry a man in his 20s and 30s, he is not going to have it all, ask your married sisters. The same way you are not perfect, is the same way these men are not perfect. Its a partnership, although i'm not expecting any woman to marry a stark pauper with nothing to offer. But you marry more for companionship. Sometimes when we're young we get thrown away by all the male attention that comes our way, we believe the world is at our feet and we don't have to settle for anything less than perfect. but slowly and surely, the reality begins to set as we get older. Don't throw away good men when you're young just because they don't have it all, and the same goes for men. God will not make you to settle for just anything out of desperation. when you have options, take advantage of it. The agony that people face at an older age when they're unmarried and not settled, is nothing to joke about. You will not see it, but behind closed doors they are in pain. The joy that comes when you see your little children running around is irreplaceable.