humilitypays:
What you suggested to the op is good theoretically but will lead to pain practically, how you may ask? By the time they are still trying to conceive in their 4th or 5th year in marriage, the little love he feels he has for her now will fly out of the window because he will be filled with regrets and had I know.



In life, if you want to be at the top and to get the best out of life, you must be ready to act selfish in most critical life decisions and also make some sacrifices that many people will hear and say you are not a good person but only you know why you took the actions you took, which are best for you and your life situation at the moment.

This is a very beautiful piece of advice that will make humans go a long way in life instead of people pleasing. I’ll screenshot this now

Hello I created this topic specifically for those who studied computer science in state or federal universities in Nigeria. Yes I specified because of a thread I read where some one made best graduating student in computer science in a private university. https://www.nairaland.com/7912084/ewerechukwu-asaka-clinches-2024-rhodes
This is shocking because those who studied this course in Uniben and AAU, can tell you it’s impossible to be best graduating student in computer science. I will say it plainly thy computer science is a very difficult course and be best graduating student just shows the stuff or how poorly these private universities are doing education wise . If you studied computer science in AAU or UNIBEN, you’ll get my point