hi,
i'm about getting married, but my pastor called me and told me that i should not make noise, that i should do a small wedding, pls i need your advice which sholuld i do, traditional,registry or church wedding, my guy insists that obedience is better than sacrifice, that we should abide stictly to what the pastor says, pls advice what should i do

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it doesnt really make much sence to me, if d girl loves u why would she sleep with someone else in the first place, and a BIG slap on your face for coming to you for assistance,
its totally ABORTION, i'll advce u fashy the girl at once

proudly pisces, February 23
very loving and accommodating,
love u all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi roven, u are free to log on and chat with me, i have a listening ear and by God's grace might have some advice to give u

i'ld advice that u check your heart well, from all u said i can conclude that the UK guy loves u real good, i've seen distant relation ship that worked well, so dont make it an excuse, if u belive it will work then IT WILL WORK, just pray, dont entertain any fear,
if u know u really love and care for the UK guy fashi the Naija guy

thank God u have something small to sustain yourself, i'll advice u sit her down and encourage her that things will get beta, 'cos its not easy, God will help you

hi "disturbed"
i agree with those that suggest u have a tal with your girl friend, have a passive partner can be dangerous, it migt be that she's deperate to hook u, and that could be HELL for you, create space for her to take decision for both of u, watch the way she behave amidst her friends and relatives and that could be asummary of what to expect within the marriage

what will you give your fiance/fiancee as a valentine gift in the coming val's day?

personally, i think there's no big deal in lovemaking before marriage, its not fornication, only if the traditional marriage has been done.
Even in the bible in the case of Isaac and Rebekah, traditional marriage was the accredited wedding, once the traditional wedding had been done the couples are MARRIED, thats why the church soes not bless a marriage that the traditional part have not been don

thanks