carsuperman:
Trust women at your own risk. In a month this man's friends don begin fvck madam

Because you have access to the internet, you think that gives you the right to talk about people anyhow. Nairaland is now full of stup.id kids. You better shut up next time if you don't have anything reasonable to say.

It's small but if you don't have any other option available, start from this. You don't know where this road might take you.

seanwilliam:
shut up your dirty mouth. That you’re married to my brother doesn’t give you the temerity to treat him anyhow and throw caution out of window. we’re related by blood and I’m closer to him than you are. ‘no matter the bonds you share with him, you’re still an outsider. If something bad happens to him you can deny him and go your way but someone like me won’t do that !. If that’s how you treat your own husband all in the name of love , fine! But it won’t work with me.
This is Africa. No come Dey form americana for someone like me, I go over embarrass u.

I will put mouth instantly and if my brother is not ok with that then I will shut up by mouth and will never visit them again!.

Mind you, I don’t visit anyone except I’m invited and I rarely honor invitation self. Not all in laws are jobless like yours!


As regards to widow, I have no business poke-nosing in that regards. She’ll be the one to handle her husband’s stuff in order to take care of their children and I will do what I’m supposed to do to support them. Also par-adventure they never had kids together until his demise, then we will have to follow his wills and order.


He’s your husband but he’s my brother first .

@bolded, you're clearly an ignorant fellow if you feel that you are more important than your brother's wife. What happened to two becoming one? You're a child and you need to grow up. I even read your post on what you did to your girlfriend when she gave you a bag to carry and you think that's what makes you a man. You're mean and unkind. I pity your future wife, she is in for a whole lot of pain if you don't change your ridiculous mindset.

LUGBE:
Some mothers are funny indeed, there are so many reasons why you should not even put the whole pack in the bag.

The way my DW do,is you get small plates about three then dish all the meal while you just add hot water and spoon in its pack.

You are lucky it seems you are not given them the whole pack of wipe and pampers. If you cant keep your property well then those people will help you keep them.

Please we can be corrective and helpful without being condescending. She has already realised her mistake. Let's be guided biko.

TOHHAN:

I work on Saturdays too but free on Sundays which I do gv him formula just once a day while the rest na breast datz y I can't do correct calculation, I don't give formula once he's back from creche too. At first I was like mayb dey r following the measurement on d container for his age which is 5 scoop for 180ml but the one I opened on d 16th which will finish today/tomorrow got me more nd more confuse datz y I av to ask o.
I will stop putting the full pack. Thanks alot mama

Don't put the full pack inside again. It's possible they could be taking out of it, it's also not very hygienic because you don't know if they wash their hands before scooping. So try to measure the scoops for your baby and put them in seperate packs. Well done mama. You're doing well. We learn everyday.

lhordspy:
Attention seeking lawyer.



You disobeyed and talk rudely to a sitting Judge in her Court . Such effontery!


And you all will always scream "sane country" "sane country" ... Is this how they behave over there to achieved a working judicial system.



Well, all your Zombidients and enemy of Nigeria apologist will soon be here all over the thread saying deaming words against Nigeria.

Nigeria is the way it is because of ignorant people like you. You don't even know what happened... So defending one's client now equates being rude. Let's even say he was actually rude, what is legal about locking up a lawyer for a whole one month.

In a sane country, due process would be followed.

Shebi now that the guy is talking about the ill treatment he faced in jail you are calling him an attention seeker... Until it happens to you or someone you know.

Basiljoe:
See as Nigerians are quick to comment how disrespectful the boy is and how he will be dealt with in Nigeria.
Brother, Sister, with all the religions, discipline and respect Nigerians have what have we achieved on the global scale?

We are not pioneers in science and technology. We barely have light; what even poorer nations have achieved. We are the poverty capital of the world: Millions live on less than $2 per day. Millions don't have upto 10$ in their bank account. Millions leave on less than $350 annually, ANNUALLY.

We are the open defacation capital of the world; we barely have access to clean toilets.
No to little infrastructure, bad roads, terrorism, banditry, kidnapping.

Yet our problem is foreign Jesus and Mohammed. Religions that was fostered on our ancestors through slavery and conquering.

Kudos to the young chap for resisting indoctrination, and if you think he deserves to be "dealt" with, THUNDER. FIRE. YOU.

So are you saying it's okay for the young man to disrespect his parents? Wait till you have a child that does this to you, hope you will be able to run your mouth then.

@OP don't listen to all these kids telling you to leave your wife and all that nonsense.

First of all your wife is going through PPD. She needs you now than ever before. So you know her better than anyone, do things to help her, make her know you love her. She also needs counselling. See if you can get a professional to help. Please read about PPD.

Second, try to see if you can get a help that can come stay with your wife and see if you can convince her to come home with you but if she's refuses, just let her be for now and give her time. Be as supportive as you can. She really needs help and it seems nobody is understanding her.

God bless you for looking for a solution instead of discarding her like some unreasonable men here are advising you to do.

The people that give advice on this nairaland sef. Someone's marriage is what you want him to end just like that. A whole marriage...I pity anyone that takes you guys seriously.

Islandlady:
Eww most of them are fond of doing that! Because they are lazy to go outside or into the toilet to throw their saliva

This one has obviously never been pregnant. That's why you can be this insensitive. Thankfully you're also a woman. Your own dey front. Let's hope that the people around you will have better sense than you clearly do.

Comanche:


Thanks mama.

Don’t mind me. I have always loved the long BS I read here and decided to do justice to mine also.

Hi. Thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed reading your BS. It was funny. Congratulations to you and hubby. God bless your LO.

I'm curious though. Why did you give him coconut water first? Never heard it before.

Graciousgirl20:
Good evening mummies, my CS wound is bring out pus(mucos) has anyone experience this?

Please go back to the hospital dear. Pus shouldn't be coming out of the incision site.

Please note: when cleaning your CS wound, you swipe once with your cotton wool and spirit and then you use another part of the cotton wool (or a fresh new one if possible) to swipe again. So you swipe left to right, then you use another cotton wool to swipe again left to right. Do this at intervals. This is to avoid infection.

Unpopular opinion but your friend's wife goofed by not letting the owner in. Everyone should learn this simple basic wisdom of welcoming people with courtesy and warmth, it can help you in the long run.

How can someone come to check out her new tenants and you stay outside with her to gist without offering her invitation into the home, haba. That wasn't very wise of his wife and he wasn't wise by allowing it because he was "praying",( not a good excuse) You can always continue your prayers from where you stopped after hosting a guest, God is not running away.

Second, tell your friend to go with his wife and apologize to the owners because this route you people want to take will be to his loss and his loss alone. Let him carry his children with him if he has one to soften their hearts . I'm saying this because, he has invested time and money in working on that house, he has settled down with his family. To start looking for another house will cost him more time and money even if they give him his rent back.

So take this advice: let him go and see them with a bottle of wine or a gift and apologize with all humilty for the misunderstanding, assure them that you are good people who meant no harm.

We stoop to conquer o. This matter is very easy to solve, he just has to be wise.

And tell wifey to be more welcoming next time. Na she mess up.

All the best!